So a post was just made for appreciating moms, that's great, but how about those of us who's mother's are shit?
Well Imma help y'all thru this with this post. My mom was and still is no good, point blank and simple.
I had many issues growing up, which were hard to deal with.
Rule 1: Treat women like people, not as your wannabe mother
Common sense, but sometimes people don't think.
Rule 2: Get your validation elsewhere, don't rely on women for validation
You'll never be fully happy.
Rule 3: if confrontation doesn't work with your mom, just be serious and non reactive
This can be hard, learn to do it, no point in arguing.
Rule 4: Don't bitch about your mom with women
You'll look like a little boy, no matter how manly you look.
Rule 5: Don't bitch
You shouldn't be weak; you should become a strong person, in life.
Rule 6: Accept that your mother is shit
This will be hard to accept because having a loving mother feels great right? Well you and I don't have a loving mother, time for acceptance.
Rule 7: Learn to love/accept yourself
This can be hard, learn to do it.
Rule 8: Better yourself and enjoy your journey
Better than being a lazy son of a bitch who has nothing.
Rule 9: Cut off your toxic mother
You'll constantly be stuck in a negative mindstate.
Rule 10: Keep positive energy
Dontgo back to the negative part of your life.
Rule 11: Learn to be alone
This is important, not having family that cares for me, this was hard for me; master being alone, and you'll learn to accept shit in life.
Rule 12: Become strong
You should be a strong person, life can bring down the hardest people, become strong and don't let others phase you. Let only yourself phase you, not others. Meaning, if you think you need to improve, then improve. Only accept genuine criticism, from others.
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