Don’t be this guy... ever.

This is the most cringeworthy thing I’ve ever seen. Guy matches with a girl on Tinder, and literally puts time and effort into making a fake résumé to be her date to her sister’s wedding. Besides the fact that he probably did it as a joke, there are other things to notice in the snapshot of this horrid conversation. Prime example of a woman placing herself atop the proverbial pedestal.

She gave him a deadline of 2 hours to do this. The fact that he went and did this in those 2 hours is appalling. You should have better things to do in life instead of sit and literally write a fake résumé. This is prime beta bullshit. After she gave him a deadline, he then admits to feeling nervous.

This is really bad. He’s real deep into bitch mode. He exposed his feelings right off the bat and will definitely be getting bossed around by this girl until pigs fly. She continued to command him like the entitled woman she feels she is, and he’s eating this shit up, thinking he’s the man. It’s hard to look at this conversation and see this man as worth anything.

The one thing that I find stood out the most was what she replied with after he asked what to include. The entitlement she feels is through the fucking roof. Absolute snob behavior demonstrated through her words. “Why should I pick you? What makes you qualified?” As if she is the decider of his commitment (she shouldn’t be, but is, because he’s a bitch.) She’s vetting him more than he’s vetting her (jokes on you; he’s not vetting her.)

He put 2 things in the résumé that also stood out to me:

  1. he called himself a “normal guy... not like a lot of the idiots out there today.” He shouldn’t be having to state that he is normal, but he clearly is not if he’s investing 2 hours into doing some stupid shit like this.
  2. says he is “just the right amount of extra”... no. Just no. You shouldn’t BE extra. Being extra for women is a terribly beta behavior. Never be this extra for a woman... ever. She has done absolutely nothing for him to be acting this way, yet he goes above and beyond. Even if a woman does do something good for you, you shouldn’t be doing more than she is.

Regardless of this clearly being a joke, the sad reality is that guys still plugged in will believe that they too should be doing this in order to stand out and improve their chances with women. Most people on this sub will remember those 2 people that matched on Tinder, spoke to each other for 3 years, met, and eventually didn’t go anywhere because the girl was turned off by how clingy the guy was. It’s a similar situation here - this behavior gets normalized, and only for fem-centric benefit. I commented on the post “Don’t be this guy.” and got downvoted hard. This is prime blue-pill at work, and bitches are having a field day seeing men go above and beyond just to have sex.

This is absolutely thirsty behavior. Don’t let this become the norm. She should be fighting for you, and not you fighting for her.