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Arousal doesn’t come in discreet laser focused packets "A man’s sexuality is a fire. Not a laser beam. If you succeed in tampering down his fire and get him to self regulate looking at hotties while you are both out, you won’t get fucked as much."

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January 12, 2018
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Title Arousal doesn’t come in discreet laser focused packets "A man’s sexuality is a fire. Not a laser beam. If you succeed in tampering down his fire and get him to self regulate looking at hotties while you are both out, you won’t get fucked as much."
Author redpillschool
Upvotes 223
Comments 24
Date 12 January 2018 06:39 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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Link https://theredarchive.com/post/226696
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7pynae/arousal_doesnt_come_in_discreet_laser_focused/
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[–]rockmasterflex45 points46 points  (0 children) | Copy

I am just glad somebody was able to put this into somewhat elegant wording.

Thanks for posting this.

[–]CcyCV 2 points2 points [recovered] | Copy

RPW should see this

[–]Self-honest41 points42 points  (4 children) | Copy

This is another reason abundance is good for the soul. When I was gaming other girls throughout the day, my fire and appetite would be seriously increased for sex with my main girl in the evening. Always.

[–]Xkirbyx9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

Definitely correct sir. I check out women with such an intensity that I've noticed my girl step up her girlfriend game because she realizes I'm being checked out as well. God bless TRP and its forefathers

[–]Self-honest0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

God bless them indeed. Life has been getting better every day since I found this place.

[–]brinkleybuzz15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

... "brought to you by the American Strip Club Association."

[–]3whatsthisgarg9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

Also true of so many dead bedrooms. After so many years of tamping down, he doesn't have that fire, he doesn't care, he lost his "wife goggles." That's when she gets worried, but by then, it might be too late.

[–]NorthEasternNomad12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

On the other hand, if you're contributing to amazing sex WITH him, he won't desire to check out other women nearly as much.

I still remember an ex (that I should have kept) who was smart, sexy and amazing in the sack. I didn't even want to check out other girls. Didn't feel the need.

[–]mgtowolf3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Personally, if a woman attempts to control my behavior, I will give one warning that shit is not acceptable. If she tries again after that, then she is "friendzoned" at best, more often I just will not see her again.

I don't attempt to control their behavior, I demand the same respect in return. If they aren't willing to give it, then too bad, better luck with the next dude.

[–]42-AX2 points3 points  (12 children) | Copy

Would this apply the other way around?

[–]Lyxeka11 points12 points  (11 children) | Copy

Yes. According to a past post, one of the ways you can tell if your girl is in risk of cheating on you is that she will suddenly be more interested in sex. The theory is that she is being turned on by someone else. That in mind, cheating or not, they can be turned on by other guys and bring that sex drive to your bed.

[–]42-AX3 points4 points  (8 children) | Copy

Interesting. However I meant if men try to tamper down their woman's sex drive would it have the same effect?

[–]Lyxeka1 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy

Short answer yes.

Long answer, depends on what strategies the man uses to tamper down her sex drive. Limiting sex and turning her down regularly can slow her down in the short term, but in the long run it can actually make her much more attracted to you as sex is a rare commodity.

On the flip side, acting like a needy loser may not always stop her in the short term if she's horny enough, but in the long run, she will want sex a lot less.

On a side note, if you get her out of shape and/or lower her confidence while maintaining your SMV, she will no longer have the courage to act on her sexual desire with you, extinguishing the flame over time. You will have effectively turned her into a "nice girl", she will buy you gifts and do many things for you that would have normally been a display of sexual interest, but you on the other hand will be able to get sex from her any time you want because she'd see you as a prince.

If I haven't answered your question, i hope i shared some valuable insight to help you answer it on your own.

[–]TruthSeekaaaaa5 points6 points  (6 children) | Copy

Limiting sex and turning her down regularly can slow her down in the short term, but in the long run it can actually make her much more attracted to you as sex is a rare commodity.

Is that true? Personally if a girl turn me down or if she don't show enough interest I lose the sex drive toward her even in the long term.

[–]Lyxeka0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Think of it from a point of view of supply and demand, compounded by the female hamster. "Why wont he make moves on me? Am i not good enough?"

[–]nemesnow1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

... Doesn't that mindset tend to motivate females to peace out to any number of males who would consistently put out, though?

[–]Lyxeka0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Think of it this way. If you couldn't afford something, would you stop wanting it just because you couldn't have it yet?

[–]nemesnow1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Are you referring to a situation where the two people haven't had sex yet? My impression from the withholding comment was that it was applicable to an existing relationship. In that dynamic, I think it would be more like subscribing to an Internet service that only allows you access a couple of times a month or something.

[–]Solon640 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

The male mindset in that scenario would probably be along the lines of "well I'll just subscribe to other service providers that are not as restrictive, or at the least are available when the primary service isn't.

A female mindset could take that viewpoint as well, or it could say "this service is so good that everyone else wants it, so it must be worth it to continue to subscribe even with its frequent service outages. If I look for other service providers, I might lose all access to this one, and perhaps those other service providers aren't the same quality, so I'll stick with this one. I don't need other service providers if this one is really good when it does work."

Woe to you though if she finds another ISP that is both better in quality and more available, though...

[–]beam_me_up2017 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

they can be turned on by other guys and bring that sex drive to your bed.

As was once told to me: in a relationship it doesn't matter how you got your appetite as long as you eat at home.

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[–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Read his last post, he tries to cure oneitis with baclofen. And, because his mother replacement dumped him, he's got gastric reflux disease. And spills over all of his emotions... so alpha

[–]Random Xpat Rantingsxsplat0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Reading comprehension much?

Categorization of Alpha Beta is a pre-occupation of underclass.



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