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The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place. - BRIFFAULT’S LAW

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Title The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place. - BRIFFAULT’S LAW
Author redpillschool
Upvotes 274
Comments 24
Date 09 January 2018 05:20 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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Link https://theredarchive.com/post/226715
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[–]TheLaughingRhino 8 points8 points [recovered] | Copy

If you want to get some hard ass Red Pill into your life, go visit

  • Cancer wards with adult men
  • Men who have been crippled or lost limbs due to work or combat injuries
  • Men who suffer/have suffered from brutal mental illness

Don't look at the men were the women have already left, look at the men where the women are still there BUT DESPERATE TO LEAVE.

Why have they not left already? Maybe the money isn't workable yet...emphasize "yet" Maybe there are kids. Maybe it's too soon, if she leaves too soon, people will turn on her and call her a worthless whore.

As Chris Rocks says, she might not leave you today... but the countdown has begun.

Raising your "value", your SMV doesn't get a woman to TREAT YOU BETTER. It just gets her to TREAT YOU DIFFERENT. Treating you better would be to treat you well without regard to your SMV or what you can do for her. Treating you different is associating what she has to lose by behaving in a manner where you will next her. This is where "Social Proof" is so critical. The cost of treating you poorly is so punitive, that she would rather just put on another mask.

More men need to spend more time listening to women with THE MASK OFF. Because that's some brutal hard ass Red Pill right there. Sit at a table where four women gossiping at a table across from you and don't notice you are there. Listen to the savagery. Listen to how everything is about utility. Listen to how little humanity you find there. Notice how they aren't really friends, they are short term allies, for now, for their own interests.

You are just a toilet to her. If your SMV and Social Proof are high enough, sometimes she might flush before she walks away. Sometimes.

[–]throwawayclarkken24 points25 points  (3 children) | Copy

This needs to be it's own post dude . Do it

[–]1empatheticapathetic12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

He has an effective writing style.

[–]Redpiller779 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

It's not like many men would stay with them if women were the ones with cancer/lost limbs/crazy. Not trying to defend them, just saying that people are shitty in general, regardless of sex.

[–]metallicdrama7 points8 points  (5 children) | Copy

This. I’ve listened to women when they think no one is listening. They’re all cunts. Don’t be a sucker. When I was young I thankfully listened to the brutal wisdom of older broken men on construction job sites. Avoided much BS my friends didn’t.

[–]deadshot36734 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

I’ve met plenty of nice women

[–]metallicdrama3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

We all do. The nicer ones hide shit better. You should listen to women talk when they think no one can hear.

[–]deadshot36731 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I’ve heard them and they sound just like men..we all say different shit when we don’t think people are watching

[–]metallicdrama4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Isn’t that the point? The BP perspective puts them on a pedestal and makes them more innocent and cute than they really are. We’re the brutes and they’re the damsels when we’re really the same.

[–]U-942 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I got this education as a child listening to my mother and grandmother bitch about my father. The line in the sand was pretty clear from an early age.

[–]BigDaddyPoppaFather1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Am med student. No such thing as "cancer wards" but have seen men and women supported by significant others during their illness. Same with injured men at the VA. Mental illness does often lead to abandonment. Just what I have observed.

[–][deleted] 86 points87 points  (7 children) | Copy

I had to learn this law the hard way back in my freshman year. I was sharing my homework with a girl I liked hoping she'll go out on a date with me. Whenever I'd ask her out (via Facebook or text of course because I had no balls to ask her in person), she would always find an excuse, but I kept on sharing my homework and hitting on her because I thought hamstered that I'm not losing anything, since I'm only sharing the homework that I had to do anyway and that I'm not putting any additional effort. I even shared tests from the previous years that I obtained from acquainted TAs (she barely even knew anyone), but it didn't matter - she would always find an excuse. I kept on trying but to no avail.

I finally gave up trying when she texted me that she can't go out with me because her sister is sick, her router died and she needs to go to the bank to pay some bills. Even though I was 99% blue pill beta at that time, I figured out that's some heavy bullshit and decided to block her on social media. At college I was avoiding her and she was ignoring me.

After seven months I received an email from her. She said how she missed me and it's a shame we weren't in touch for a long time. And of course she asked me whether I can send her my research papers. I just shift-deleted her email. She eventually dropped out.

At that time I thought "damn, if she only agreed to be my girlfriend, maybe she could have even graduated.". Even though I had this experience, I was still plugged in because I thought attraction can be negotiated, which only led me to more and more failures. It was like that until I accidentally found this subreddit and woke up.

This is why I think a man can't fully unplug himself until he experiences failure first hand, and when he finally discovers The Red Pill he will digest it with ease.

[–]sourdieselfuel41 points42 points  (0 children) | Copy

You definitely need to go through that first slap in the face, jaw dropping type experience to be able to swallow the pill.

[–]destraht24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy

When I was in university I invited a CS mutual woman friend over to jam on an individual (not group) project since we were in the same class. I would go out with her and these other guys 3-4 times a month and I just considered her a basic acquaintance. I was shocked when she came over and just took my work and left. That is not how it ever went with the 15 other men whom I had worked with in a similar manner and many of them I only knew 1/10th as well as I knew her. Then later one of my friends from our non-CS related group was glaring at me furiously the next time that we were together. He was banging her all secret-like and she had come over to my house. She stole my work and then used me as a jealousy tool. This wasn't something like "Hey email me all of your work, ok?" and I was getting her up to speed on my work. She just took it and bounced.

Women are flagrant as hell.

[–]megamanxtc12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fail early, fail often, and fail forward

[–]Andgelyo6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Man, if a girl is that fucking dumb, I wouldn't even bother LTRing her. I would smash her and leave her. I don't ever want to associate myself with dumb asses. My girl not only has to be pretty, but at least decently intelligent. Says a lot about her character, or work ethic.

[–]2kevin3211 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

The female, not the orbiter, determines all the conditions of the friendzone. Where the female can derive no attention and favors from association with the orbiter, he will be shamed until such association takes place.

[–]DamnDatAssSoFine 0 points0 points [recovered] | Copy

My man, you do realize that the other possibility, among others, is that that particular girl was shitty in general?

There are usually a multitude of facets to an issue. Just saying.

[–]Andrew543214 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Y’all so hard over a ho using and leaving you. Without banging. Truth is, it’s your fault for not closing. A man’s first and best utility to a woman is his dick. If she doesn’t want it then no other ability of yours will be up to her standards.

It’s like this for both sexes: a relationship is a cake, without an ingredient (sex) it isn’t a cake (relationship).

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

So.....I have internalized this by making myself useful, in the future, for females. Not to be an emotional tampon, often just for the D, but I consciously manipulate the situation to make my future self useful....in theory, less so in practice.

I guess I've had a problem with this particular rule, because what's the point? In being a conniving seducer like me, or to, well, keep your shit together to keep your wife from branch swinging?

[–]Redpiller774 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I see it as keeping your shit together for yourself. I don't agree with this law anyway. If I gain no benefit from her (hot kinky sex with a beautiful woman) I would not associate with her either. It's mutual benefit.

[–]IrnBruDog1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

As a man that makes and fixes stuff and has recently developed these skills a lotmore I can tell you women fucking love it. It’s funny - it’s actually me and other men that devalue our masculine skills, thinking we don’t earn as much as some smooth guy in a suit etc but trust me women fucking love workies and creative types.

[–]Andrew543210 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Y’all so hard over a ho using and leaving you. Without banging. Truth is, it’s your fault for not closing. A man’s first and best utility to a woman is his dick. If she doesn’t want it then no other ability of yours will be up to her standards.

It’s like this for both sexes: a relationship is a cake, without an ingredient (sex) it isn’t a cake (relationship).

[–]ioncehadsexinapool0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Wtf????? I was just thinking of a cake analogy while out on my patio. I was trying to understand frame. you have to be every ingredient in the cake. Girls, friends, family, basically all other humans, are just the frosting on top or candles or whatever shit people put on cakes. I hope I’m on the right track idk



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