I was browsing reddit this morning on my way to uni, and I found a thread that hit the top page of a woman who dumped her "red pilled" boyfriend. I just had to give my input on it and I hope you all find some similar grounds with me. I'm only addressing this thread because it mentions a red pill failure. I will use sarcasm. I hope that's okay.

I'm so fucking done guys.

Yet you are on the Internet, attempting to get attention with this thread. This is what I hate the most about these threads.

I usually keep quiet when confronted about women's rights and women's roles in society, I don't have any female friends although I desperately crave that bond so bad.

At this point, I assume that you cannot seem to hold any form of meaningful relationship with that attitude. You need to build a relationship, not beg for it.

But tonight, I am so mother fucking done.

You clearly are, but let's continue on for the next 5 paragraphs.

I'm just kind of venting but if you actually reply to me it would probably make my day.

Are you kidding me? If this isn't a blatant cry for attention, I don't know what is.

Don't even know where to start. I dumped my boyfriend of two years tonight.

You don't know where to start, yet you titled the thread exactly how you felt and began with something. I'll just skip the arbitration.

My life has fallen apart. I moved to his country, gave up my friends and family and job for him. Learned his language for him. Gave up all I had...

This is your fault. You fell for him and went as far as you did because of an emotional connection.

He used to be this kind, mild mannered wonderful boy who never raised his voice and never lied to me and just wanted the best for me.

All men are this naive and caring when they want to have sex with you.

Not too long ago he began browsing Reddit and found The Red Pill.

The subreddit or a red pill? Be specific. The title of your post can be taken literally.

He probably found it with innocent intentions (The Matrix is his favourite movie) For those of you who don't know what that is, it's basically a huge collection of sexist neckbeards on Reddit who probably recently were hurt by a woman so now they all have personal vendettas against them and mask their misogyny by attempting to justify the way they act and treat women and claim we want the "alpha" stereotype and no woman is loyal, you must "train" a woman to bend to your will. So please don't go there, you will cry.

This is truly pathetic. How is r/theredpill a huge collection of sexist neckbeards? Isn't that stereotypical or misandrist? I'm sure that 90% of the people on /r/theredpill don't care about having a relationship. At this point, we've come to realize that life is meaningless. If we want to reproduce, that's fine. That's an interest. There will always be people reproducing, regardless of them being red pilled or not. Even blue pilled people get women. We don't hate women. I feel as though a prototype Anita Sarkeesian shitted this thread out.

So yeah.

Typical high school lingo..

My wonderfully sweet boyfriend has now turned into this horribly misogynistic piece of shit.

You keep using that word, misogynist, but I don't believe you know what it means. If he is in a relationship with you, he clearly doesn't hate you. You are a woman right?

Long story short I found screenshots on our iPad from 4chan that talked about how to go from flirting to getting laid by any girl and how women work. He doesnt need this information, we have been together for two years.

He can't browse information? What, are you going to control everything he can or can't look at?

I confronted him and he said a mutual friend of ours sent it to him. He also had Reddit open to The Red Pill and was reading a thread about how women are "children" and need to be trained to not act as such.

You are acting like a child at this juncture.

Tonight he left his Facebook open on our iPad so I was a bad person and looked at our mutual friends conversation and what I saw was awful.

You snooped through his personal messages and contacts. So far, you are much more of an insecure wench than he is.

HE had sent OUR FRIEND the 4chan link and not the other way around.

Okay?

He went off on a tangent to our friend about how he needs to alpha up and everything in the post was true about me and even his ex and apparently a girl at a party that he "fucked" recently.

He went off on a tangent from what? Were you having a conversation about puppies that led into alpha dominance? There is no reason to place quotes around "fucked". You're quoting words that he said instead of using your own.

So he cheated too apparently.

So both the men cheated or just your friend? You never said that your boyfriend cheated. This sentences makes me think that your boyfriend cheated as well, which is not stated earlier.

He also said he was going to get drunk and message girls and regret it in the morning just a few nights ago. He also spoke about me as if I was a terrible person, and said things like "at least we still fuck and she makes me dinner."

So you fuck him and make him dinner? That offends you? Then don't fuck him and tell him to make his own dinner. Oh shit, I forgot. Life is convoluted when you're a worthless wench.

Suddenly everything makes sense. He has been emotionally abusing me a lot and just recently began heavy phusical abuse.

Heavy physical abuse? Like? Or are you just saying that for.. attention.. right that's it. You never mentioned any specific form of physical abuse in this entire heap of garbage of a thread. "phusical"...

He has been emotionally abusing you? Aren't you a mature woman? Don't you have a mouth? Of course not. You're a passive aggressive.

That was never like him.

You've said this multiple times.

He has been very harsh on me and has been claiming I am manipulating him.

There is a ton of social manipulation happening everyday. It's part of being a human being.

I require some special care, I had an extremely sexually/physically/emotionally abusive relationship in the past and I am also autistic and can't regulate my emotions very well.

Oh, the bait is real. Autism isn't even a disability. According to Google, "a mental condition, present from early childhood, characterized by difficulty in communicating and forming relationships with other people and in using language and abstract concepts," which means that Autism can be summed up as poor communication skills. Your parents never taught you how to speak or make friends like normal people or it just never clicked in you mind.

I confronted him about this and he said he had lied to our friend since apparently our friend thinks he is such a "ladies man" and has tons of experience with women.

This makes no sense to the overall scheme of this story. What does lying to your friend about him being a ladies man have anything to do with you and your boyfriends relationship? That is an external issue.

I told him he is a huge manchild and needs to grow the fuck up, and dumped him.

And she lived happily ever after in her autistic brain.

I am now sleeping on the couch and trying not to cry. He made me tea and wrote me an apology note a few hours ago but I'm not budging.

Clearly, because all you care about is yourself. You're so stubborn you won't discuss the issue with him like two mature adults. Instead, you have to cry like a baby and hope your mommy keeps your bed warm at home.

Sorry if this post makes no sense I am just venting and I am so mad and sad right now.

No you're not and no you aren't.

EDIT: Thank you for the overwhelming responses. It has really kept up my resolve on this issue. I really felt alone but I don't feel so alone anymore. Sorry if I am not replying well, it is 5 AM and I'm pretty tired but my mind can't rest. To the people who are asking me why I am still in his apartment: I left him tonight. I will leave tomorrow when he is at work so he cant physically stop me or talk me out of it. I wasn't going to cause a commotion in the middle of the night. He tried apologizing to me again and told me he wanted to take me to Stockholm in two weeks because that would've been our anniversary. I refused and he got really bitchy and he said I hated him. I told him to stop talking to me and he complied reluctantly after a while.

How the fuck is he physically stopping you? You've never mentioned anything about him touching you with his hands. He MADE YOU TEA. HE APOLOGIZED. HE WANTS TO TALK TO YOU.

*What does theredpill think about this thread?