While number seems to creep up all the time in these arguments about the so called double standard of "sluts" and "studs," women tend to ignore or simply not understand what we're actually shaming them for when they fuck a bunch of losers in short or long-term relationships, and that's value. They don't realize that they also value shame ALL THE TIME. Let's examine how:

Women find men almost entirely undateable if the only girls he's ever been with are land whales and prostitutes. Regardless of how long-term and serious the relationships were. Why is this? It's because these women he was dating and porking are fucking losers and this reflects poorly on them if they choose to date him. "Why if this guy could only get prostitutes and ridiculously gross or fat or ugly women would I then date him?" She thinks. The male has here demonstrated his value, and the female has taken pretty dang accurate notes. Conversely, if a man has had relationships with a lot of beautiful women he has demonstrated high value because he could be with any one of these high smv girls, even for long-term relationships but he chose her instead.

For women, value shaming is similar. If a woman has kept her number at five and her five partners in long-term relationships which ended are Kevin Love, Elon Musk, Bradley Cooper, a doctor and a lawyer, then a guy is going to look at that and think, "well, that is quite a few, but they were all long-term and those are some pretty high quality guys. I'm in good company." This is because this doesn't reflect poorly on him. On the other side, if she's had one night stands with shit mcdick face and his four inbred brothers it's a lot different. Not only has she shown she cannot handle long-term relationships but she's fucked losers, and these losers got her before him, when she was younger and hotter. Men don't want to associate themselves with these losers. He thinks, "Why if this woman has fucked and given her worth to all of these losers (equivalents of land whales and prostitutes) would I take her on?" The answer is he wouldn't. It reflects poorly on him. You are what you fuck, and she's fucked a bunch of losers. Relevant