Last weekend was spent with GF, during that time we had an interesting conversation that allowed me to put words to a concept we talk about around here. Me and GF were originally talking about relationships and what guys do and such.

GF: Guys should try to make their GF happy

Me: No they shouldn't, she'll get bored of him and he'll become her ex.

GF: Why is that, you should do things to make me happy

Me: There is absolutely nothing I can do for you, or give you that will ever make you happy.

GF: {Weird look on her face}

Me: Think about it, girl asks daddy for a pony for christmas. On christmas he gives her a pony and for about 10s she's happy. Then she complains that the pony isn't pink and is now unhappy. Girls always complain about something being wrong.

GF: Yeah....

Me: So what can I give you or do for you that would possibly make you happy? There would always be something missing and eventually you'd get bored with it anyway.

GF: {Return of Weird Look}

Me: Now here is how you can be happy. Firstly I make myself happy by doing things I enjoy and seek my own goals. I then include you in those things that make me happy and by doing so you'll then feel happy.

GF then buried her face in my chest and initiated make up followed by sex later.

This is a concept we talk about here, focusing on yourself and doing stuff for yourself. Women are drawn to men who are self fulfilled and happy. They draw their happiness from us, they value subjective emotions and relationships over objective goals. So don't ever try to make a girl happy, instead make yourself happy and include her in that happiness.