Always trust your gut instincts. Always.
I met this girl shes 28 I'm 27. She comes from a very similar background to me (religion and culture) which is quite important in my opinion if I want to build a good solid LTR with a TRP mindset.
We met up 3 times. Along the way I found several red flags
She smokes. Chains. Look at the 26 more signs shes a slut article on ROK for more info on this.
She dressed sloppy on our first date. A pet hate of mine. Hair was a mess, very casual and theres me dressed in a smart attire.
She has a tattoo above her ass and on her finger. I looked closely and it was the name of her ex boyfriend. She's getting it removed. Yikes.
She insisted on not playing games, yet at times despite being "mature" I assumed it be an easy ride. It wasn't she played a bit hard to get, didn't live up to promises of messaging etc.
She has a shit job - She lived abroad but moved back home recently. Her job is pathetic, literally but she believes she's putting in the effort into something that is worthwhile. Typical.
She goes out. ALOT. A lot. Every weekend theres a "party" or an "event." This leads onto one disgusting attribute of her, she's flakey as fuck. I put her in place after a cancellation that happened twice in a row. She didn't like that.
Shes been arguing with her father. Her father said "why are you going out all the time? How are you supposed to find a good partner this way? What the hell kind of job is that youre doing"
I naturally like a fool ignored these inklings. I decided to genuinely give it a go.
How wrong was I. I didn't go full beta more like 20% as I was told she was a good girl. Only ever been with 3 guys.
Sunday we lie in bed on effectively our 3rd date of talking non stop for 7 weeks. She's there, we do things. I make her cum, she sucks me off and effectively (apparently) intimate for the first time since her ex.
She tells me how she doesnt want me to be a rebound and to be more then this and be with her effectively. It was a test. I didn't give in, she wanted me to sort of ask her out. But I chose not to.
The next 4 days pass and her contact is minimal. She is again, playing hard to get, being flakey (even with work) and essentially just being the same idiot even if shes got a cock in her throat.
Not a good quality girl for me.
We spoke last night and some of the stuff is hilarious. I discussed with her how she was saying one thing, acting another and frankly I wanted to hear her "truth" and admit what I knew she wanted to say:
- I've had a boyfriend since I was 17 I've never been single.
- I like you and want to fuck you so bad, but I love being single I love the "freedom"
- All my friends (who i know are 6s and under shes an 8) are single, that doesn't help!
- You want something more, so do I, but I want to be single and enjoy my fun!
- I didn't tell you this, I was engaged. My last bf, was my fiancee. We were going to get married. But I was on antidepressants. He was a bum, he had no life and I fell for it as I wanted to live abroad. (I've seen her fiance. He's fat hes short, and lives in essentially a shack with his mum. He just used the nationality card and she had no prospects so essentially it was a holiday romance made permanent. She ended it when she realised wtf was she doing.)
I suggested to make it casual and hang out whenever to which she responded "but I love the freedom! I love not answering to anyone." Let me tell you, I never ever made her feel this way, this is class a "cock carousel" thinking.
This was the killer. She then went "I am still young." Shes 29 in several months. Sure...
So I told her there and then "enjoy your fun, enjoy your bars, enjoy your clubs, enjoy your freedom, goodbye"
She cried on the phone, and I was very distraught as I genuinely enjoyed her company. But at the end of the day, the red pill is right all along.
I'd never met a 28 year old so immature in my life. But thats what the bar club scene and modern feminism does to these girls.
EDIT Have balls. Do not be mugged off. Even if youre tired of the clubbing scene, learn to trust your instinct, and to ignore that pretty little face and tell it to fuck off when you know you deserve better.
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