Was plating this girl for a while, decided I’d start seeing her for more than just sex.

For the last few months I’ve applied a lot of push and not enough pull. I tried being aloof etc but really went overboard. Kind of the ‘uncaring asshole’ but too much so.

I know she wants to do dates, texting, be cute and all that shit, but she is too afraid to because I’ve behaved so distant and shit, and I don’t know how to transition from that to being... romantic I guess? How can I put her at ease, let her be the girly ‘cute’ girlfriend she wants to be and not try to copy my stubborn aloofness?