English isnt my first language so I try my best to explain.

I notice that women , most of the time, are attracted to the people who got a similar character.

If the woman is someone who loves to talk much, laughs a lot she will be attracted towards a man who doesnt keep frame most of the time, laughs a lot, takes her out to different places etc.

If the woman is someone who is generally quiet, reads books, stays alone at home at weekend she will be attracted to the kind of guy who I would describe as the typical James Bond. Clever, calm, classic dressed etc.

These are experiences I made and saw most of the time. Not long time ago I saw a post on TRP that you should never adapt your character and attitude because of a woman.

Wouldn't the best sexual strategy be to adapt the way you talk and the way you present yourself to the woman you are talking to?