Summary: The underlying theme in all of the advice for how to score with women is that you have to make a woman want to fuck you. A woman can’t make herself want to have sex with you. That is beyond her power. All she can do is give you the chance to make her feel something. Making her feel something and making her want to fuck you is your job.
If we’re asked the question “how do I score with women” and want to boil all of the possible answers down to their simplest common denominator, the theme across every possible answer or technique would be “make her want to fuck you”. Looking hot, talking with her a certain way, touching her a certain way, acting a certain way in general - everything that falls under the umbrella of “being attractive” - is designed to make a woman want to fuck you.
Because women are driven primarily by their feelings. If she’s feeling the moment, she’ll have sex with you. If she’s not, she won’t. You can’t always control all of her feelings, just some of them. Even if you do everything right, sometimes you still might not score, and other times, you may think you did terribly but she won’t be able to keep her hands off of you.
A lot of Red Pill men worry about investing too much into a woman. Mostly, guys don’t want to be cheated. They don’t want to buy a girl a lot of drinks, or take her on dates and wine and dine her, or really spend all that much time and energy on her at all, just for a hug goodbye in the parking lot. And they sure as heck don’t want to agree to be a girl’s boyfriend, or God forbid marry someone, and end up giving an inordinate amount of time, attention, and resources just to end up in a low-sex relationship.
Investing a lot in a woman makes many men uncomfortable because it’s a gamble. When you sit at a bar and buy a girl’s drinks, it’s not a prostitution arrangement. You’re not buying sex. You’re buying the chance that she might choose to have sex with you, if she’s feeling it. When you take a girl on a date, same deal. You’re not buying her agreement to go home with you afterward. You’re investing in the chance that she might, if she’s feeling it.
Even when you marry a woman, you’re not entitled to sex with her. You agree to let her have unrestricted access to your combined finances, and to give her half of everything you own plus a recurring support payment if you ever get divorced, all for the chance that she might, if she’s feeling it, choose to have sex with you periodically. And maybe she’ll also choose to treat you decently, help out around the house, and so on. If she’s feeling it.
Women don’t sell sex. Not directly. Women sell the chance for sex. Women sell you a spot at the audition. Whatever you invest in a woman, what she’s selling you is a few moments of her time, to give you that chance.
On paper, this sounds like a really bad deal. Why would you invest your time, your attention, even your money or other resources, all for just a chance to score that might not pan out? Aren’t women giving you something that has next to no value, a mere chance at sex, for things that have real value, like drinks and dates?
But remember, women are driven by their feelings. Deep down inside, they know this, too. A woman knows that if she feels it for you, she’s going to have sex with you. And if she doesn’t feel it for you, she’s not going to want to have sex with you. She wants to find a guy she is feeling it for so she can get laid tonight. And she doesn’t know if you’re that guy or not. Part of her is hoping you can make her feel something, because she wants to feel something and she wants to get laid by the guy who makes her feel it.
In the eyes of a woman, giving you that chance is most definitely a thing of value. She doesn't feel guilty taking your drinks at all. Because when a woman gives you that chance at sex, she is inviting you to try your best to make her feel something. To make her want to fuck you. By giving you that chance, she is open to the possibility of feeling it for you and is giving you the opportunity to make her feel it. And if she feels it, she’s going to fuck you.
A woman cannot make herself want to have sex with you. That is beyond her power. All she can do is give you the chance to make her feel something. Making her feel something and making her want to fuck you is your job.
So the next time you’re out, keep women’s feelings in mind and approach with the idea that your job is to make a woman feel something. When you end up buying a woman a drink or taking a girl on a date, don’t think about it as a woman possibly trying to screw you over. She’s not trying to cheat you. She just can’t make herself want to fuck you. She’s hoping you can make her want to.
She wants the same thing you want: sex with someone she’s feeling it for. Her job is to screen for guys that actually have a chance at all, but after that point, everything else is your job. Remember that how you look, how you act, game - these aren’t robotic lists of rules. They have a purpose. The purpose of looking and behaving a certain way is to make women feel something.
Be observant and pay attention to how women are feeling when you interact. Most casual sex girls are pretty numb. That’s why a normal guy walking up, being nice to them, having a normal conversation, and showing them some attention is boring. They don’t feel anything. He’s barely even visible. For that kind of girl, you’ll need a little more aggressive game. But if you’re trying to pick up her mousey but still cute friend, you might need to tone it back a little after gauging her reaction. Once you can read a woman’s feelings and play them like a fiddle, making a woman want what you want becomes second nature.
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