Why do betas always call Chad a douchebag?

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May 13, 2019

Ive known a few Chads in my lifetime.. one of my best friends, one of my football teammates, a few classmates growing up. These guys were pretty stand up guys, friendly and genuine with others, got all the girls, they were true high value guys. But even then there were always rumors about how they were douchebags, always coming from what seemed to be from beta males that didnt like them.

This has been a common theme ive noticed about all the Chads ive known and met. Why is this a thing?

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Title Why do betas always call Chad a douchebag?
Author Cholo4Trump
Upvotes 99
Comments 50
Date 13 May 2019 07:05 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/238238
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/bo07e5/why_do_betas_always_call_chad_a_douchebag/
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[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed223 points224 points  (3 children) | Copy

Little dogs bark at big dogs.

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (1 child) | Copy

I raised a German shepherd mixed with a Rottweiler and started to notice the little dog issue early on. They made a lot of noise and picked on him when he was a puppy. Once he hit 115 lbs he stopped having any issues, but all those issues were other dogs the whole time.

He hardly did any barking, he was very comfortable and happy and a good boi. I think his size, just like the size of a man, certainly helped his mellow disposition.

[–]TheRedPillRipper4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’ve grown up around huge humans all my life(Polynesians) and can honestly state that some of my family are the most gentlest humans on the planet. With women though; totally different story. Though beautiful and rich it’s is also an inherently violent culture. We love women but it’s not uncommon for violence to be used as a form of expression.

I’m blessed to be born with what the west calls a silver spoon so was raised with higher expectations and my father who is slight compared to my uncles and cousins I’VE NEVER SEEN ANGRY. Dude’s ICE COLD yet when he speaks; all my uncles listens.

My eldest brother; totally different. He’s a HUGE human and exudes power; yet has picked up our father’s softly spoken way. When my uncles listen to him though it’s not the same.

The difference is respect. My brother is just a diplomat with political aspirations. My father however has earned theirs through his actions. He dragged a seemingly tiny clan into relevance with his mind. He’s got a PhD in Law and EVERYONE defers to him because of his status.

I’m different again. I’m known as the fixer and have a reputation of being smart(I’m not) although I currently only have 2 bachelor degrees. I’m loud, outgoing and love humans. Yet my style of communication is covert. I lead people to conclusions they believe they found themselves.

The one thing that’s similar in all our leadership styles though is this; our power is implied.

Just like the big dogs.

[–]frick-a-frack0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sometimes the shortest answers are the best.

[–][deleted] 76 points77 points  (1 child) | Copy

Because many time they are. But that's what makes them irresistibly attractive to women. It's not your manners and high IQ which attracts women but your ability to talk to them and not give a fuck about the outcome.

I made it one of my goals to become a bit of a douche bag too. Not just for women but myself too since I am too agreeable and avoid conflicts.

[–]circlingldn2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Become high value first before you become a douchebag

No one wants to be around a average looking douchebag...but a douchebag who can control a night out/give others fun...yes please

[–]Siccunt9951 points52 points  (5 children) | Copy

I used to be beta af and i saw alphas like douchebags.

Fast forward to now,when i can proudly not longer consider myself beta anymore.I see shit in total 180' turn.

Sure alpha can come off as a douche but in reailty he is far better man than beta.Betas ain't good just nice.

I was just nice,gossiping people,masturbating like a fucking perv,giving shit to my parents,full of rage,jealousy,resentment, and phaggot chromosomes.

[–]Aggressive_Beta13 points14 points  (3 children) | Copy

betas aint good, just nice

No that’s not true. Betas are more likely to be douche bags than alphas. They are the ones who will challenge you to a fight because they’re mate guarding and you’re going to “steal his girl”. They’ll also throw you under the bus any chance they get if they think it will help them get pussy

[–]Siccunt995 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

My view of nice is:pretending to be good.I never said that beta can't be a douche i just said he acts nice.

There are also aggressive betas but i wasn't one of them,at least in public settings,

I could have even been agresive one but thanks to god i was scrawny at the time so i didn't have the balls to act out my resentment.

[–]LSDparade4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Toxic masculinity comes from beta men.

[–]screenmagnet1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

As does sexual harassment!

[–]Magnum99482 points83 points  (0 children) | Copy

They need an excuse to shit on him because they are envious. Which they think they do by calling them something that sounds inferior in their world. Or if he is good looking, they say he’s probably gay etc. Of course the end result is as we know extra free commercial for successful guys.

[–]Bruchibre12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

He's a douchebag because he goes to a girl and says "I want to fuck you" while Billy Beta courts her for weeks or months, and he's a douchebag because the girl says "OK" and feel validated bu the attention while Billy Beta becomes an orbiter.

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points  (1 child) | Copy

Because jealousy is easy? Because you hate that you are not this guy and you are not man enough to take the responsibility on your shoulders.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Because jealousy is easy?

The correct answer.

[–]donkeydodo9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

Projections of their own insecurities. Subliminally, they are envious and feel threatened; a man with the power to be humble is a powerful man. Small men, with low SMV, do not possess this power, and for this reason alone they're jealous, and on top of that, they feel threatened as well.

However, because our biology says to us to blameshift everything that's wrong outwards instead of accepting that we ourselves may be the cause of something, they claim that Chads are douchebags. What I mean by this is that these AFCs project it on someone else, that it's someone else’s fault that they're small and have a low SMV, instead of accepting that they're not contributing to building themselves into becoming the strongest versions of themselves.

Now, there are a lot of cases in which "Chads" are douchebags. What I mean by "Chads", is that they’re insecure, fake-alpha men. Because they're insecure, they berate other people to appear higher in a hierarchy; I believe this to be why Chads, in general, are seen as douchebags - too many of the people who have a "Chad" title are douchebags. Then the rest of the Chads get smudged in with these, no matter if they're douchebags or not (they rather have to disprove the idea that they're douchebags).

[–]Br1anRee0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Very nicely put sir!

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because they jelly.

[–]empatheticapathetic3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Some of them treat men like they treat women. They're douchebags.

[–]TFWnoLTR3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Same reason ugly chicks call hot chicks "plastic" or "fake". Jealousy.

To be fair, the term douchebag is typically used to refer to the kind of self-serving attitude that makes a Chad so attractive to women in the first place. The term was coined out of jealousy.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because betas are just girls with dicks - same reason girls call each other bitches when they are competing.

[–]jrr6415sun1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because most of them are by definition

[–]ShotgunTRP1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because ogre and stan wail on gilbert and lewis

Its a timeless tradition

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why is this a thing?

Jealousy primarily, coupled with trying to bring them down.

Betas know that girls find them attractive, so they try to belittle them or pull them down or make them look bad. It doesn't work, but they really do try.

[–]ShockFalcon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Kinda true, i know almost everybody at my school and one of my classmates who doesn't even leave the class keeps on judging the guys in the football team or the guys who have girlfriends as douchebags, for no reason. The guy bitches about everyone, even me for no reason and then gets angry when no one laughs. Why?

[–]zxcvb78090 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It is passive sexual strategy. It is a weak way of trying to take out the competition preemptively.

[–]rDiothe0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

1) envy

2) Many times “betas” are conditioned to be “nice” guys so they don’t understand the naturally cocky self-image of some Chads. Men are men all around. and many chads just feel more justified in being cocky than less secure guys because they have a better self image

This is something anyone can change

[–]imtheoneimmortal0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

People will always talk shit about others and judge them even if they do charity

Best thing is to don’t judge and see your life

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Envy, Jealousy, Resentment

[–]MegladonBass0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I know quite a few people that say/think I’m a douchebag, would this be a good thing?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Because they wish they were him.

[–]Ohboohoolittlegirl-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy

They don't.. Being Chad is not being a douchebag.. If they do, these guys aren't really Chads, as Chads attract men and women alike.

[–]Azkik0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is "positive alpha" vs "negative alpha."

There's a very good argument for negative not actually being alpha, because he undermines himself through his inability to maintain a coalition and becomes powerless, which ain't alpha.

[–]circlingldn-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah men love being around hot stone cold killers...#quityournonsense

[–]Ohboohoolittlegirl0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Learn to read and then understand what you read.

[–]Dextorian-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

They have to justify the fact that he’s better than them by belittling him. It’s just jealously and also they can justify the fact that they are actually living the best life when in fact it’s actually the opposite way round

[–]injesterstrust-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Jealousy. Everyone wants to be the good looking guy who gets all the girls

[–]JarydNei-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Oh my god.

[–]KarlskyWB-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy


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