Most of newbies like me who struggle, here’s a theme that might be the same for you. I think it all started with my self belief that I’m attractive. Even if the other person calls you ugliest person in the world and that hardly bothers your inner core belief that you’re attractive, you’ll easily notch way above than you can imagine. I had a learning mindset so I took the dive: So I met this woman, and shit test started as soon as I met her. Oh you’re this and you’re that, I just smiled it off because I know women are children and just treat them like one and never take anything they say seriously(ofcourse you should know what’s too much of an insult but most wont go there and would just troll around). You’ve to draw your own line of what’s too much and what’s not. Less ego = more lays because you never take shit personally.

Moving on I reached her room, dogs were crazy barking and all. I remained calm and then went to town. I’ve realized that it’s not a skin friction after all this time so I never put anyone on pedestal. Ofcourse a smokeshow makes might stun me, but I’d appreciate her beauty and just talk to her like normal human because she stinks, shits and is hairy like everyone of us. She had blood, bones and shit in her intestine no matter what her shell projects. Keep this idea in mind while willing to fail and you’d never be intimidated. Anyways as soon as I nutted on her face, I said this was good and left. Back home and focused on my daily goals. Until someone passionate catches my eye, I don’t indulge and here’s a big fuck you to my mind if it ever entertains ‘oneitis’ concept. Oneitis is a cancer, kill it in its first appearance. Godspeed and believe in yourself!