Question in the title - have never been able to get past this. In an 8 month LTR with a 27 yo HB7-8 who is extremely feminine, submissive, innocent-seeming. Very strong relationship with her dad, never shit tests me. Cooks for me and does my laundry. Rarely goes out drinking and when she does, she’s back in bed by 9 pm (even on weekends). Constantly compliments me on my body, and tells me she loves me every morning and night.

I give her good dick frequently, she almost never turns me down unless she’s sick or something. In fact, she wrote in her journal at the beginning of our relationship that I was the best sex of her life, and in both of our opinions it’s only gotten better from there.

A few red flags: tattoos, smokes weed (sometimes we do together), does have a fair amount of guy friends. Has a sister who ran with a group of mega-Chads in the past. She hung out with them, don’t know if she hooked up with any of them as far as I know (probably did). Did lie about her n-count when I asked her like a dumbass. Told me it was less than 10, then when I pressed her on it she said it was really in the 15-20 range. My n-count is much lower. Outside of that though, has never given me a reason not to trust her.

I can’t get past this insecure feeling, even though it seems like I am her Chad. This girl is very relationship-oriented and is madly in love with me, and I don’t want to throw away something that feels great. Have you guys been in similar situations, and been able to get past your own mental blocks about what her past might have been? This sure feels like I’m just being insecure...need some advice. Thanks all.