I’m the Runt of my group and I hate it

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May 19, 2019

So my current group of friends consists of 4 guys. The true alpha of the group is a Marine, very muscular, and 10/10 looks wise. He can get any girl he wants.

Another one of the guys is a larger, not muscular but still strong guy. He currently does not have a job, yet can still get some dates.

The other guy in the group is very short and not as muscular, but is currently in a LTR of 11 months. Very Beta, but obviously can get a girl.

And then there is me. I’m 6’2 and not bad looking, but I’m very skinny. I try and work out 1-2 times a week, but work always gets in the way.

The thing is, of all my friends I’m the most successful. I work for myself for my own company, and make great money doing it. Yet, women would rather go for my friend that doesn’t have a job.

It’s also annoying because strength is always a laughing point with me. All the guys are stronger than me, and they know they can get away with basically anything because I can’t do shit.

It’s just gotten to the point where I’m fed up. I know the answer to the strength and muscle is hit the gym more (somehow), but how do I work on being seen as an equal rather than lower on the totem pole?

EDIT: Honestly had no idea this would blow up. I really just reached a low point last night and needed to vent. All of the comments below are incredibly helpful, and I’m taking all of them into consideration to fix my issue.

Y’all are right. I’m a bitch. I need to stop making excuses to make my situation somewhat comfortable, and put in the work.

Thank you all.

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Title I’m the Runt of my group and I hate it
Author JB-Enterprises
Upvotes 80
Comments 103
Date 19 May 2019 10:52 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/238966
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/bqna6a/im_the_runt_of_my_group_and_i_hate_it/
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[–]Andgelyo123 points124 points  (27 children) | Copy

You are fucking 6’2.

Can you imagine the possibilities if you were to gain 20-30lbs of muscle and confidence?

Lift and intake 500 more calories a day ASAP.

I don’t care if you have to wake up 4:30am in the morning to do it. Just do it.

You could end up even being the new “alpha” of the group.

[–][deleted] 19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy


and I agree that lifting is important but this guy is really off as well in his game. read The Book of Pook now.

[–]doubtless_abyss16 points17 points  (7 children) | Copy

Lol he will never be more alpha than the marine

[–]KaiSmashSmashSawmash6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

I know some pretty beta marines...

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Most soldiers are.

[–]KaiSmashSmashSawmash0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Why is that you think?

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

They're manipulated to endanger their own well-being so shitbags like me can live and fuck their women.

[–]LeonardoDiDraperBond 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

Not because the marine is 'more alpha' than him. But because group dynamics are set. You can't become the alpha of a group you were previously a beta of.

[–]Andgelyo10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Absolutely not. Your telling me, a runt who is routinely picked on in school then suddenly beats the shit out of his bully is still called a runt? Get that shit out of here. We are in the red pill son, nothing is set in stone

[–]SalporinRP198 points199 points  (16 children) | Copy

I came into this thread expecting you to say that you were 5'5 or some shit but you're 6'2.

Ok you're skinny... So eat more and lift?

Not rocket science

[–]tazih 1 points [recovered]  (14 children) | Copy

You guys are idiots... working out isn't going to help this man. The fact that he posted this should give yall a clue.

[–]beginner_50 points51 points  (5 children) | Copy

For sure has some Elliot Rodgers touch too it. "Hey I'm 6"2 and run a successful business hence I'm entitled to get women."

[–]Loop_loop55 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

I like to think this sub tends to help people like this, rather than dismiss them as lost causes.

OP is cureable.

[–]harm_and_amor4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

It’s not so much that they’re dismissing this guy for being unfixable. I think they’re pointing out to the original commenters that OP’s path forward is not as directly related to his perception of being the “runt” as it would seem by the title. OP is clearly ignoring other TRP and seduction teachings, and found some ludicrous feature to blame for his inability to get women rather than looking introspectively.

[–]tazih 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Truth. I don't know what happened to trp but if the secret to life was getting jacked, let's just say this board wouldn't need to exist.

However big this guy gets, he will still view himself as the scrawny guy. He'll just focus on another feature like his jaw or ears or whatever. A key trp teaching used to be that you are a boss on the inside. You don't need to be huge to get girls or be happy. Then with that knowledge you went out and got jacked anyway.

Dude missed step one and everyone is just telling him to go to the gym like it will cure his self perception, as if his self perception is based in reality.

[–]Atheist_Utopia0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is actually a good mentality to have IF you actually initiate.

[–]zamahx11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Literally the answer to this is: quit being a little bitch. Looking for his ego to be stroked or something.

[–]Ziczor 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

People don't know how hard it can be for a tall skinny person to gain reasonable amount of muscle weight.

[–]m4t311 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Terdmuffin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

While this is true the juice is definitely worth the squeeze.

[–]SoulRedemption0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Spot on

[–]SalporinRP0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

It's not going to solve anything but it can help. Gaining 20 lbs of muscle made me more confident. I'm pretty sure it would make anyone more confident.

[–]thrwy7547949 points50 points  (2 children) | Copy

The true alpha of the group is a Marine, very muscular, and 10/10 looks wise.

Does he wear a sign that says "Alpha"?

[–]Antonella006 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]teabagabeartrap3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Alpha Industries ;D

[–]truthbomb999108 points109 points  (3 children) | Copy

-I try and work out 1-2 times a week, but work always gets in the way.-

Gotta work out more than that, 5-6 times a week, 1-2 hours a day. Never skip leg day.

You never are going to want to do it. It is going to hurt, you should be sore the next day.

Obviously, diet matters, a lot. Eat more protein. Keep your carbs in check.

The only thing stopping you are the bullshit excuses you keep telling yourself. Wake up earlier and just get it done.

[–][deleted] 42 points43 points  (1 child) | Copy

Agreed. Lift. AND -

if your friends are pulling quality girls then you are with the right crowd. You are lucky that they accept you among their number. stay around them and watch and learn from them.

And read the side bar. You're being skinny is not the main problem here. start with the Book of Pook. You may want to try the audio version, freely available on YouTube. I pulled eights and nines after reading the book of Pook, and I was a skinny ass kid (6'1" though) living in a one bedroom shitty apartment.

[–]rare_specimen_indeed11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

This. Your friend group is going to lift you up. And the more shit they give you while doing it the better bc you're obviously fucking something up

[–]NIbenioncd71 points72 points  (3 children) | Copy

You dont get girls because you care too much, start not givining a shit

[–][deleted] 24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy

This op. Just don’t give a shit and live life. More too life than women and getting dates.

[–]AntiSharp 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

This is worthless advice without any practical guidance. Along the lines of, ‘just be confident, just don’t be afraid, just be smart/cool’.

[–]Timdeuces9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Mentality is huge, though. The advice sounds vague, but if you get the right frame of mind, you're gonna fill in the blanks and specific details of what to do.

[–]onionknightofknee17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol, a 6 2 guys complaining. Lol. Getting buff aint hard, growing tall is

[–]DeborahBinLaden40 points41 points  (5 children) | Copy

You’re failing your friends shit tests. If you’re too much of a bitch to A&A your own friends’ banter, how are you going to pass a bitches test


Kisses xo

[–]Pokeylaw5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

How do you pass a shit test like that, I'm pretty good when it comes to comebacks and shit but when a person points out an obvious flaw of mine say like muscle and strength for OP what then?

[–]1Terminal-Psychosis5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

That it bothers you is the fail here.

Water off a duck's back.

See, there are boundaries we have, external and internal.

Shit tests are mostly internal because it's not polite to just punch people, and we don't usually carry swords anymore.

What are OP's chinks in his armor that this bothers him?

What can he do about that? Even if he gets super buffed, a fragile ego shows, ESPECIALLY for women, but dudes pick up on that too.

As others have said... A & A, and mean it. How to do that?

Examine those chinks in the internal armor and re-think the beliefs behind them.

[–]mrmaika103 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agree and amplify.

[–]DeborahBinLaden1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, you’re skinny and you know you are so why wouldn’t you agree and amplify? They can smell the insecurity a mile off.

So long as you give a fuck about it, it’ll matter to you.

It honestly baffles me that even after understanding what shit tests are, people still give a fuck what people say to them, it’s all a fucking game have some fun man.


[–]garebear1995915 points16 points  (3 children) | Copy

It’s sounds like my old problem.you have the money and the height.just because you are skinny isn’t why you are the runt.if you did Brazilian jui jitsu for awhile you could easily take any of them to the ground and choke them out(even your marine friend).

It sounds like you have failed earlier shit tests from them and your on the bottom of the totem pole.

You don’t get as many girls because you don’t have the attitude,in my case I just didn’t have confidence in myself.

It just sounds like you get intimidated by stronger men.you let them walk all over you because you know they can overpower you.what is the answer to that?bulk up or learn BJJ.

I’m not social to begin with but if I’m in a social situation where you feel belittled why the fuck are you still there?do you HAVE to hang with them?are you just not happy with yourself so you have to always have company?

My advice is to ditch them and walk into a BJJ gym and Go as much as you can.you will bulk up and learn how to choke/dislocate/break bones.youll make real friends there,not some superficial shit.

As somebody that mainly does Muay Thai BJJ dudes scare me.ive had dudes 5’6 make me tap out in seconds.

Edit:I’ll go further and say fuck all these dudes telling you to lift.whats the point of being bulky if you don’t even know how to fight?Having the confidence that you KNOW you can overpower the average joe will result in confidence in every interaction because in the back of your head you think “if this guy tries shit I’ll grab him by his head and knee him/choke hold/go for the legs and ground n pound”.youll have the knowledge to win a scuffle so you will assert yourself more,not take shit.the percentage of people who have any knowledge how to fight is very low.and the people who start shit almost NEVER know how to fight.

[–]TheTastelessBatman2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Wanted to start fighting lessons soon but didn't know where to start. Thanks man. Going to try out BJJ. Any other advise?

[–]garebear199594 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Look for a dojo with good reviews.be humble and ask question to more experienced people,they’ll be happy to help.dont wait,just fucking walk into a good gym and commit to the art because you’ll kick yourself later for delaying.

[–]TheTastelessBatman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks a lot brother man.

[–]BrodinsOats13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’m the runt 6’2”

Boo fuckin hoo. Hit the gym dude.

[–]chickenpthrowaway123[🍰] 28 points29 points  (0 children) | Copy

Start going to the gym. This should have been the first thing you learned here. Get some new friends, abundance mentality, or at least start standing up for yourself.

[–]Jabbermouth8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do this for 6 months:

  1. Eat at a caloric surplus of 500. Make sure you get 1g of protein for every lb of body weight.

  2. Follow a 3-4 days a week weightlifting routine. The routine doesn’t matter. StrongLifts, PHUL, Ivysaur 4-4-8, Greyskull LP. Literally just pick one and go to the gym.

Congrats you are now 20-30 pounds heavier and are no longer the runt of your group.

[–]bosslevel_6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Push ups and squats don't require much time. Eat more, sleep more, no porn. Consistency.

[–]1rad_dynamic5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

No such thing as not enough time.

Not enough time = Not a high enough priority

Get your fucking shit together, eat more stuff. Literally anything. Eat a tub of peanut butter a week, go McDonald's, order starters, mains and then desert. All whilst smashing it at the gym. Fuck your mates, don't give them any chance to piss you off. Focus on yourself yesterday not your friends today.

[–]Nighthawkdragon87 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Maybe call a Wambulance

[–]CharlesChadworth5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Have said this before. My 6'1 friend is model looking guy with a chiselled body #nohmo.. I call it as I see it. No joke he could be a calvin Klein model. Absolutley no fucking idea girls like him and no confidence at all. Don't get me wrong he still has had alot of girls but nothing compared to our 5'10 skinny friend who is a beast at MMA. He is able to choke out our friend in a heart beat even though he is almost twice his mass.

Due to this confidence he doesn't back down and doesnt give a fuck about people. He will probably get into a fight one day and lose ,however until then he has confidence oozing from him. He is the one with the highest n-count out of our group.

Lifting is a must ,however it is not the be all and end all. You could be like my mate, ripped af yet oblivious to signs of interest or just too damn shy.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

And then there is me. I’m 6’2 and not bad looking, but I’m very skinny. I try and work out 1-2 times a week, but work always gets in the way.

Get the fuck out of here and into the gym you bastard.

Change that from 1-2 times a week, to a proper weights regime, I'm going to guess you're under 30, so I'd expect to see 6 days a week, with a solid protein diet, eating 4 times a day, clean foods, eggs, spinach, chicken breast, salmon, etc etc.

1-2 times a week!!? You're letting your body waste away 5-6 times a week?

Be straight with us... do you smoke cigarettes or smoke weed often? Whats your average alcohol intake a week look like?

What other bad habits do you have lying around in your closet?

Get the fuck outta here... jeezus christ. Millenials.

[–]the6thpath3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Have you tried asking your Marine friend for help? I'm the Marine of my friend group but I'm always the one pushing my friends to go train at the gym, or to be active. I'm sure as a friend of yours, he'd want to see you succeed.

[–]beginner_2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah lift more but much more important:

eat more.

If you are already skinny, lifting more with out eating more will have a limited effect. If your not the CEO of a fortune 500 company, you have time to lift. I get it. It's hard if you work 10-12 hrs a day and then need to lift. People don't get successful and fit by sitting in front of the TV.

[–]dark_rabbit4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

The answer is exactly what you think and exactly what all these guys are telling you. Make working out your life. Eat more then you can, bulk up. Get dates, even shitty ones. Build up that abundance mentality. When you start viewing yourself as a viable option when women are around, so will everyone else.

[–]menial_optimist5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

  • goto gym 5 days a week
  • train mma do build confidence and be able to kick your friends asses

then you will no longer be runty

[–]Nis_law2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don't compare yourself with your friends. You gotta self reflect and ask what is your priority list? Does health and fitness come first or money or game?

[–]Endorsed ContributorAuvergnat2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

There are few things that inspires more contempt than a man bitching about a situation when he already knows what's the problem and how to fix it...

Appart perhaps a man who has good genetics and money bitching about a situation when he already knows what's the problem and how to fix it.

Read this: https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/3509/don_t_talk_to_me_like_a_bitch

[–]SniXSniPe1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Brah, if you think it's 100% looks and money (and I'm not saying these don't help, it should be obvious), I got some bad news for you.

If you have a shit personality, you're going turn people off.

You also keep mentioning strength--- women don't give a fuck if you lift heavy. They care more about you looking strong than being strong.

[–]TheRedPillKing1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

So many comments here just about height weight and shit. I think it's your self esteem. It's very low. Read 6 pillars of self esteem by Nathaniel

[–]InscrutablePUA1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You know what you need to do. You're already 6'2" so go fucking lift and eat. And if you think you're eating enough, you're not. So eat more. At least 500-1000 cals over TDEE. Making excuses about work getting in the way isn't going to help you at all.

BTW if you want to A) win fights, and B) get girls, then you need to also train a discipline such as BJJ and also fucking practice approaching, escalating, and closing. If you want to be lazy get on a dating app... seems like being 6'2" is enough to get laid on tinder.

[–]Hambone_Malone1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I work 13 hours a day and still find an hour to lift. What is your excuse exactly?

[–]SoulRedemption1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Alot of comments here talking about work out.

But it looks more like you are lacking in the "way you present yourself" department.

This includes frame, shit tests, personality, behaviour and other things which fall into this category. From a physical stand point (do not ignore the gym comments, it is essential), not sure if you are standing up straight and really feeling yourself when moving around. I dont know if you are timid and awkward in convo. So do a checklist.

One suggestion is, step out of your head, act as a third person and see yourself from outside perspective, in a situation, so you can evaluate. Dont let ego get in the way, really look at yourself. You need to identify what you need to improve in order to do it effectively. Good luck

[–]Ryabemo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just leave them. Even if you work out and get buff, they’ll still see you as skinny Jim. If you feel like a runt amongst your friends then you have pretty bad friends.

[–]throwawaydegar1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You sound whiney.

Not trying to be a dick but I'll bet its nothing to do with how much you weigh. You kind of sound like a bitch.

Like, you know what you need to do (workout) but in acknowledging it you also note the excuse for why you can't (work gets in the way).

You also talk about how your so successful but can't a get a girl and are fed up. I mean.... Its just not attractive.

By all means work on the weights and the gym but I think you need some work on insecurity and self esteem as well. Read the sidebar and try to find some self worth/belief.

All the best.

[–]cadaemos1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Listen up buddy, If they are really your friends. Then they want to support you in becoming a more masculine and succesful man. Because it benefits the whole group when everybody is good at getting laid and everyone is a cool guy.

I used to be (still am but distance separated us) in a group of 3 friends and we all support each others weak points. 1 is bulky but not very confident, the other has money and muscles, but is bad at studying, the other is thin but confident asf. We all help each other work on the weak points.

EDIT: If ur really just a joke to them and there is no sign of any equality and ur just the joke of the group, then you have to get the fuck out of there..

Of course you can go work your ass off in the gym. You have to do it 3 times a week consistently and use all the possible supplements, cuz you seem to have the money for it anyways, but you also have to get confident. Let them teach you how to become confident. And start not giving a fuck, because if you dont give a fuck, then A. You come over more confident and B. Even if ur rejected, you dont fukin care...

[–]oldschooltx1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Here they go with the lifting bullshit, as usual.

He’s never going to reach the top of this group... the marine is always going to have the pick.

He needs to switch this group... create his own or just go solo.

I’d rather do that than spend ANY time as a beta.

I have a friend like that who is a former navy that’s goddamn Ken doll and there’s no fucking way.

He’s a great dude and I love being around him, but the dynamics are set.

He’s got two other betas in his group that back all of this up a thousand fold.

I can pull pussy when we are out because I am 6”4 (I lift dis dick on your mommas chin), and know how to steal a woman’s soul.

But my navy buddy is always going to get the pick of the 10s as long as we are in that group, and that’s what I’m after.

So I left the group.

He hates it and always wants me to come be a part of it but that’ll never happen.

The same thing happened with this dude I used to work for.

He was a short fat piece of shit but he owned a successful business and understood social dynamics

He turned me AND the navy dude into his betas by having us come work for him.

I ended up quitting that job because of it.

It’s hell to be a beta when you are naturally an alpha.

I am the alpha where I go, if you can deal with it cool if not I gotta bounce.

You want your own betas, even if they are thousand times skinnier.

A couple of your own Good beta males will take you light years farther than staying in that group or lifting.

[–]sebastianconcept1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

To optimize attracting women, every man needs to try to increase 3 parameters:

  • looks
  • game
  • affluence

You are doing good at affluence. Great. Don’t do like all the sheeps and overcompensate what you have already optimal enough. Go for investing in the other parameters.

Get a good coach to help you with lifting, diet and supplements. And use your discipline to invest in improving body shape. That will increase your looks.

About game, stay calm about comparing yourself with other people. That’s a useless goal. Be light and stay humorous when they joke about you that’s masculine. Getting annoyed by insecurities is feminine. Stay manly by being secure, light and humorous. Let them play with you and learn to laugh together with them. What if you agree and amplify their bro-tests?

[–]misls1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yet, women would rather go for my friend that doesn’t have a job.

You have no confidence. This is why people on TRP tell you to lift, meditate, start a martial art or to work a tough job.. It builds confidence and character. Looks like you need to set out on your journey to build your confidence and character.

[–]_Last_Man_Standing_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

lift brah...
If you can't make it to the gym do calisthenics 6 days a week at home...
all you need to get started is a pull-up bar...
and eat... eat a lot...

[–]cafeitalia0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It is not about the body composition rather the mindset when you are 6'3". Don't blame anything else but your mentality. As long a you are not at far 6'3" which means over 220lb non weight lifting weight you can pull almost any girl you want if you have a good frame and now to dress well and have an idgaf attitude. The more you give a fuck the less you will pull. 6'3" height already puts you at top 10%.

[–]Aymane2210 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How much do you weigh?

[–]zaze120 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It’s just gotten to the point where I’m fed up. I know the answer to the strength and muscle is hit the gym more (somehow), but how do I work on being seen as an equal rather than lower on the totem pole?

You know the answer,but you don't want to nothing about. Red pill is not the "we do all the work for you bro pill". You have good money so invest in a good gym focused on strenght training or in a good coach.

[–]mickymark10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It’s your belief system that needs to change. They’re poking at your insecurity as a form of “alpha” competition. If you hold frame every time, you will succeed.

[–]GoldenshadowRic0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The fact that you work for yourself is already a leg up man. If you don't mind me asking what do you do? You might just have to structure your days differently. Also have out with different people as well. Sound like you need a more diverse group of friends. The fact that you're over 6 feet is already a big leg up on most guys with the way society sells guys these days.

[–]RevolutionaryPea70 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I try and work out 1-2 times a week, but work always gets in the way.

So you don't lift.


[–]goblinboglin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The cure is time.

And hitting the gym with eating enough.

You'll get bigger and stronger over time and that will cure your problem brother.

Don't worry about it.

[–]chfux0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If you struggle to add weight and dont have more time to workout, I would recommend running 500mg Test E for 10 weeks and see how it goes

[–]MCA_T0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Seems more like a confidence issue than muscle/size, at 16 year old I made 6.5 big roid heads back down to me, not because I was tall, muscly or trained in the arts of combat, because I was fearless and ruthless in my actions. you have the frame that you are too skinny and cannot do anything so your always ready to respond accordingly

[–]Best_coder_NA0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Monk mode?

[–]powermetalvictory0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Leave that shit group and meet girls through meetups on meetup.com. You're tall and successful. Muscles don't matter since women prefer a handsome face and confidence.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

"Quick question. How is strength my weakness?"

[–]ChadTheWaiter1000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like you’re too much of a nice guy. Or you look young as fuck. Which of the two is it?

[–]BurnoutRS0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

"I try to work out 1-2 times a week but work always gets in the way"

"I preemptively inscribe failure into every thought I have"

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

but work always gets in the way.

Fix your life or change jobs or find another way to work out.

and they know they can get away with basically anything because I can’t do shit.

They sound like shit friends. Find better.

but how do I work on being seen as an equal rather than lower on the totem pole?

Find smaller friends....... and frankly nicer ones.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You're not special.

Learn the methods and work hard, like everyone else in here.

[–]soundspoon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol you're 6'2 and crying. I'm 5'3 so I should be giving up all hopes then

[–]Final_Pantasy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

work always gets in the way

Fucking excuses mate. Go before or go after.

Eat a shit ton. I do Soylent + Protein Powder. Easy to get 600+ calories for each of them. Add a heaping scoop of peanut butter to all your meals.

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Dude you’re such a faggot. You’re crying at 6’2”

You’re like a white chick cpmplaignig about patriarchy

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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