So my current group of friends consists of 4 guys. The true alpha of the group is a Marine, very muscular, and 10/10 looks wise. He can get any girl he wants.
Another one of the guys is a larger, not muscular but still strong guy. He currently does not have a job, yet can still get some dates.
The other guy in the group is very short and not as muscular, but is currently in a LTR of 11 months. Very Beta, but obviously can get a girl.
And then there is me. I’m 6’2 and not bad looking, but I’m very skinny. I try and work out 1-2 times a week, but work always gets in the way.
The thing is, of all my friends I’m the most successful. I work for myself for my own company, and make great money doing it. Yet, women would rather go for my friend that doesn’t have a job.
It’s also annoying because strength is always a laughing point with me. All the guys are stronger than me, and they know they can get away with basically anything because I can’t do shit.
It’s just gotten to the point where I’m fed up. I know the answer to the strength and muscle is hit the gym more (somehow), but how do I work on being seen as an equal rather than lower on the totem pole?
EDIT: Honestly had no idea this would blow up. I really just reached a low point last night and needed to vent. All of the comments below are incredibly helpful, and I’m taking all of them into consideration to fix my issue.
Y’all are right. I’m a bitch. I need to stop making excuses to make my situation somewhat comfortable, and put in the work.
Thank you all.