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Women not being able to take rejection without turning extremely malicious?

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May 21, 2019
86 upvotes

Don't get me wrong I haven't exactly been rejecting women left and right, but for the past year or so I've been trying to recover from a very painful brain injury - so although I've still been trying to stay slightly social with friends at uni, I've had no intention of any real degree of involvement with women.

The amount of genuine malice I've received from some women who flirted with me, only to then realise that I'm not equally interested, is completely mind-blowing. Things like emotional warfare or mocking my situation, and just trying to reverse their embarrassment onto me in any way they can.

It seems to me they are not actually able to comprehend that not every man is guaranteed to them - which is absurdly ironic given how they go on about how disgusting it is for men to feel 'entitled' to them. They literally practice what they preach against.

Have any others of you been forced into a similar sort of situation where you see this same sort of thing first-hand?


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Title Women not being able to take rejection without turning extremely malicious?
Author flatcologne
Upvotes 86
Comments 39
Date 21 May 2019 06:13 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/239107
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/br6u1q/women_not_being_able_to_take_rejection_without/
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[–]goomerall376 points77 points  (5 children) | Copy

This is normal and you should get used to it. Heck, sometimes married women or women with boyfriends may feel jilted if you don't pay attention to them.

Women are very insecure and if they can't get a guys attention she will start to doubt her attractiveness.

[–]RunawayGrain30 points31 points  (1 child) | Copy

Women are very insecure and if they can't get a guys attention she will start to doubt her attractiveness.

Pretty much that. When it happens she doesn't want to admit maybe she isn't attractive, so she's gotta work out why it's your fault. Generally she's also paranoid that your lack of interest is going to be visible to others, thereby lowering her standing, so she starts broadcasting her version to smear you in the hopes that she can contain the damage.

[–]relationship_padawan10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ahh. The good old hamster spinning that wheel. And yes, agreed with everything here.

Generally women aren’t used to getting rejected and don’t know how to handle it, hence they act like children and in turn become hypocritical in what they believe.

[–]omega_dawg9316 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

see ayesha curry's bullshit all over Instagram.

all that money... family... etc and she's whining about NOT getting attention from other men.

but before marriage, she was on Instagram complaining that guys need to leave her alone bc she's engaged.

you can't please them bc they are constantly chasing "happy" their whole lives.

[–]User-31f64a4e8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Women are very insecure and if they can't get a guys attention she will start to doubt her attractiveness.

When a man declines a woman, he threatens her status. This is much more of a threat to her then the mere loss of a sexual opportunity. It is a threat to her standing among the sisters!

[–]truthbomb9990 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ayesha curry

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (1 child) | Copy

I have rejected like 3 girls in my short stay on this planet. 2 of them took it really well. Like they walked away and never spoke again. The third one accused me saying how nice she was to me and how much of an asshole I am. So I guess, it depends on how entitled the girl is. Does she come from a coddled, privileged family ? Do her friends treat her like god's gift to Earth ? She'll take the rejection very harshly. Just my two cents.

[–]innibinni6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

You rejected them and they never spoke again? How did you crush them that bad?

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy

The amount of genuine malice I've received from some women who flirted with me, only to then realise that I'm not equally interested, is completely mind-blowing.

Delicate egos and entitlement, yes. It's normal and you need to take steps in life to protect yourself from their backlash.

It seems to me they are not actually able to comprehend that not every man is guaranteed to them - which is absurdly ironic given how they go on about how disgusting it is for men to feel 'entitled' to them. They literally practice what they preach against.

Part of female privilege these days is the right to be a complete fucking hypocrite without anyone questionning it.

Have any others of you been forced into a similar sort of situation where you see this same sort of thing first-hand?

Yes. It's completely normal. They get mean and vindictive.

As the old guys said: "Hell hath no fury like a woman spurned". They weren't kidding.

[–]watchguy450 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

How do you take steps to protect from backlash?

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don't get involved with anyone at work or college.

Don't flirt too much.

Tell them early that you have a GF.

Don't be too nice (they get dependent) or too mean (they get attracted).

Maintain great relationships with everyone else so that there is bias against them when they get bitchy later.

[–]Distractingyou32 points33 points  (2 children) | Copy

This girl in my school liked me one day she started talking to me but i didn't find her atractive (she wasnt fugly but not my interest) and i was on my own shit playing some game on my phone, i was being nice and tried to pay some attention but the fact my answers were half baked and i didn't put attention to her caused her to be angry with me for the rest of the semester lol even my friends who defended me later she accused me of being fag just cause that entitled bitch and their solipsism can't handle that a videogame sometimes is more interesting than their bullshit some chicks are just crazy lol still it doesn't matter i have improved my game and this week i am going to approach new people i am a fucking virgin so it's funny that some of the girls think i am a player and idk how the fuck they got that idea i suppose not giving a fuck and talk with confidence makes their hamster rolling

[–]Speedracer1111 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Treat women like children.

[–]User-31f64a4e3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Children with guns.
In this case the state may actually be the one wielding those guns, but the guns are at the beck and call of m'lady.

[–]rebuildingMyself4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Most girls, when rejected, react the same way a beta autistic guy does.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Did you just call me a faggot?!

[–]Soon_As_I_Nut0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hahahaha

[–]arcwhy4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

*every person has their childhood selves inside of them, you’ll see it when they become highly emotional

That said, women are highly emotional, so you’ll see it all the time, especially if they get rejected. Just look at kids who thro temper tantrums when told ‘no’

[–]MatSapientia5 points6 points  (5 children) | Copy

Online just a couple of days ago, she sent me her interest, her profile has barely any information, just gender, age, location.. . And there it goes (transition):

  • Me: your profile is empty, who are you?
  • Her: well, we’ll get to know each other
  • Me: sure, here is my whatsapp number <number>
  • Her: (ignoring my previous invitation), how’s it going?
  • Me: (my interest is bleeding) it’s awesome, going on it’s feet.
  • Her: is that all you’ve got?
  • Her: what’s your name? How old are you? What do you do?
  • Me: (had enough of her crap) check my profile, information there should be enough for you as a beginning. Take steps to show your honest intentions if you want me to take you seriously.
  • Her: you don’t tick right, you are a total idiot. (Blocks me). (End)

I wonder what got on her nerves. This isn’t even a rejection.

I rejected many girls before, when I’m too subtle about it, they tend to try harder thinking I didn’t notice their availability enough. I don’t want to offend them but sometimes it’s just a given. Some took my rejection gracefully, very few became unbelievably aggressive calling me names and accusing me of being shallow, took every chance to ruin my public image.

[–]duta27 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

Well tinder is garbage. The women on there are too. Success on there is odd. I would get a lot of matches- very few responded to “sex?” And some wanted friendships (stupid I know). As much as they are emotional, if we show we are mentally secure guys then we have a chance. The rest is very multifactorial, which is why this ends up being a numbers game

[–]ImNotSue0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Well, by TRP standarda those on tinder wanting friendships are just looking for providers / orbiters. More testing of how much you give them before they give back (if at all, reluctantly, etc). Can't count out that some women are BP and awkward even on a hookup service.

[–]duta20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don’t think they look for orbiters always. They just want the cream of the crop. If you are hot, you don’t have to do too much- obviously be charming in as few words as possible. Meet and then trp becomes the game. It’s just a way to meet people, it’s just harder to use the app if you aren’t physically beautiful- facially more than bodily.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Sounds like a guy trying to catfish you.

[–]Twenty_league_boots1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Definitely

[–]thrwy754793 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Based on personal experience, most of the time, it's true.

Generally, girls can't handle rejection. Pussy is all they have, so rejection cuts much deeper for them.

[–]omega_dawg932 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

nah... they have waaaay more than pussy but bc of their egos and shallowness, they can't see past their pussy.

but they want you to value them for more than just pussy... while it's the only thing they value themselves.

no matter how loud they scream, the end game is always, "don't give him any sex." that's why not giving a fuck about their sex drives them nuts.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

This post along with most of the replies sounds like incel talk and mental masturbation:

I wasn't interested because I was playing videogames. I've rejected many girls before. She was mad at me because I rejected her.

Unless you're already banging multiple girls simultaneously all of these "rejections" are going on I'm your head and you are overthinking simple social interactions. If your smv is low, you aren't rejecting anyone. You're just hiding behind these excuses to protect yourself from your own fear of rejection. Go read the side bar and increase your smv and start spinning plates. I guarantee you won't be posting this type of shit then.

[–]FilthyStylish3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

The reply I was looking for.

[–]SpinPlates3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Look at everything from a nomadic tribesman perspective.

Denying a women your rescources (food, protection and security) 20,000 years ago was basically a death sentence for her.

Some of those urges still live in us today. Same way some men will throw a tantrum when a women denies them of sex (i.e reproducing)

[–]Buchloe1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Man I actually hit a chick up recently, told her I was into her and whatnot. She wasn't interested, wanted to be friends though. I wasn't mad or anything, but said I'm not really into that, I liked her but didn't really want to hang out with someone I was into that isn't into me back. She got bitchy instantly. Like I'm a mega asshole for not wanting to go along with what she wanted.

[–]ikeurbantraut0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Happens. Crazy how some take it

[–]xx-Rain_Maker-xx0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I've noticed this behaviour in women that are pretty but not incredible pretty. They are usually the most entitled because they are the ones who receive all the attention. They are not used to rejection, and when you reject them they'll try to make your life hell. It's pretty frustrating, specially when you have to see them regularly.

[–]scanfan20220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Entitlement. A woman can behave like a total brat and can't fathom that you wouldn't want her.

[–]AlertConflict20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

disdain the things you cannot have.
If she can't have you, then you're useless to her and serve no value to her.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

When I want to get rid of a girl with minimal fuss, I usually find that convincing her I don't want her doesn't work as well as convincing her that she doesn't want me.

Depending on the situation, I accomplish this by either going beta-like, or coming on waaaay too strong sexually.

[–]Soon_As_I_Nut0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Remember women’s decisions are based on emotions not logic. So if you give her anti-tingles she will then proceed to take it out on you I find.

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K180 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Many women live for male validation and attention. Doesn't go well when they don't get it.

[–]BiasedBavarian0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Okay so one time when I was 19, I was banging two different chicks at the same job(retarded I know) which was Wally World. Instead of continuing to bang both, young, and stupid dumb ass me decides one of the plates, let’s just call her plate B was too clingy so I dropped her like a wet football. Mind you plate B had better pussy and I am not exaggerating when I say she’s given me one of the best 3 bjs I’ve ever had in my life. Anyways while I’m chilling with plate A one day, I’m over her house and her brothers are over, back then I had broken my arm/wrist playing football, the previous year and held off surgery, so I was in a cast until I could get my procedure.

During this time they gave me all types of addictive pills, but I never took them, I sold them to her brothers and friends who were all drug heads, anyways plate B is blowing my shit up, literally like I’d met the girl a month before and I hit two entire days later, I just didn’t take her serious, plus I was with plate A this day, and plate A wasn’t half bad at sex herself, plus she was older and it’s kinda of always been my thing to get older women.

Anyways, Plate A sees plate B calling and starts to taunt her, well Plate B decides both Plate A and I are gonna lose our jobs(she tried it!) I was honestly gonna get back to her but before I could even go on lunch break the next day I was in the office, and being told a relationship complaint had been filed upon plate A and I. She filed a god damn complaint to corporate because I ignored her for a day, and Plate A took my phone while I was distracted and posted some provocative shit on Snapchat(snap was popping) and we somewhat had mutual friends.

I say this to say, women cant rejection, especially if another woman is involved. Not only did I nearly lose my job cutting plate B off, but my car was tampered with, back windows shot out, yes SHOT... I mean sheesh. Crazy part is she texted me after all of this happened still wondering if there still was a “thing”! Crazy bitch... Crazy part is we still follow each other on Twitter and I could smash again if I wanted, but I know better than that.

[–]thesquarerootof10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

They can’t handle rejection well because they don’t get rejected a lot. I have rejected about 3 women in my life and it felt good . Why ? Knowing that a woman finally feels what it is like getting rejected is satisfying. They can get a small taste on what it’s like to be a guy.



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