Treat a whore like a lady and a lady like a whore?

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May 24, 2019

My father, who I'd say is pretty red pill, has an n count of over 300, always stood by this advice. He's casually dated several strippers and he said they always went crazy when he treated them like a proper woman (wouldn't try to get in their pants on the first date etc.).

I'm wondering if this has to do with treating girls in ways they are not used to is what they like. Any opinions?

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Title Treat a whore like a lady and a lady like a whore?
Author divine_pizza
Upvotes 59
Comments 24
Date 24 May 2019 02:35 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]SwoleyMoleyFrijoley171 points172 points  (7 children) | Copy

Call the pretty ones smart and the smart ones pretty.

[–]The-Wizard-of-Oz-4 points5 points  (6 children) | Copy

What if they're both pretty and smart?

[–]FanaticMind44 points45 points  (2 children) | Copy

Then they are crazy.

[–]The-Wizard-of-Oz-8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Soon_As_I_Nut2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

All women are crazy.

[–]Monkitail4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

The abandon ship cause they are over your pay frade

[–]The-Wizard-of-Oz--1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Forget it

[–]truthbomb9990 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's a trap!

[–]asktrp4433138 points139 points  (3 children) | Copy

my dad always told me, "get a truck and bang them in it so they don't figure out where you live"

[–]Kabuki43183 points84 points  (1 child) | Copy

Hi son

[–]ChadTheWaiter10016 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Don_Draper2723 points24 points  (2 children) | Copy

A good guideline to follow.

It's not always clear but often times you can just tell when a girl has a high n-count but is easily DTF (Tinder dates, club girls, etc.) Of course if a girl is DTF you obviously want to smash as quick as possible, BUT, if you make HER wait and game her as if sex isn't all you're interested in she may go crazy for you. Major hamster spinning. These girls are not used to guys "wanting more".

Then, when it comes to the seemingly more conservative girls who are all green flags and such, treating them "like a whore" will definitely interest them. If they are legit then they are most likely bored out of their minds. They follow the rules and their family's beliefs. They get approached by a ton of nice guys who tell them they're "wifey material". You come in with the "I don't care what you have planned tomorrow morning, I'm fucking you all night." mentality and you best bet their frame is gonna get rattled and they're going to be very interested.

[–]EvolvedVirus4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like major bullshit. Sometimes even a slightly offensive joke can make these chicks flip out or block, let alone a really dark joke.

How you gonna text a girl after the first date and say "don't care what you have tomorrow, I'm fucking you all night." Just going to reek of desperation for sex. Which is the #1 killer of attraction for girls.

If girls want sex, they can get sex. They'll propose it no worries. Your first paragraph might make more sense for most women but each woman is different. Guys who don't aggressively push for sex fast enough: rejected. Guys who DO push aggressively for sex fast: also rejected. Each woman has a weird sensitive tolerance level that as soon as you cross the line, boom, you're out. Women have such a plethora of choices that they can do this.

[–]WIA20XX42 points43 points  (1 child) | Copy

I've heard it before, and it doesn't match my experience.

The church girl has an inner stripper. Lot of these nurses and MBA chicks want to be taken for an emotional ride, doesn't want to think, just react. Jesus take the wheel. She needs a breather now and then. In terms of sex, she's not trying to get ass fucked on date 1, she's trying to get swept off her feet, and then get kinky.

A woman who was blazing fine back in her day, that was way too picky said to me one day, "My only job is to show up and look pretty". I see that sentiment with a lot of women.

The stripper only has church girl elements for her children. You're either a man that takes her life by the throat, or you're a customer. She expects you to fuck her, but you can't let her think that you think that she's easy. Because no chick likes to think she's been figured out, but on the other hand she's figured out every dude. (Yet somehow she can't hold a man...)

From a guy pov, chicks are weird.

What they say they want is not what they get, not what they make themselves available too. See what her exes look like, see what her matches look like, but then have her describe dudes.

You'll see how full of bullshit she actually is.

The idea of an equally yoked partner, that honors and respects and obeys, that's a frame set by Christianity and the culture.

With the pill, no fault divorce, women making their own money, alimony and child support, plus modern technology that lets her get dick at the swipe of a finger - she has zero incentive to do anything with a guy that she doesn't feel.

She may lose in the long run, but she won't realize this until it is too late. Much like my "show up and be pretty" friend still going to mixers in her late 40's instead of her children's graduations.

[–]Pooptrition-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

How is this the 2nd most upvoted comment? This dude is almost certainly a virgin.

[–]BigDickEnergy1237 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

They went crazy because they're used to an inordinate amount of attention. And the fact someone doesn't want her is literally a mindfuck to her.

Girls who are out of this world hot tend to be used to guys swooning over them and it's mind-blowing to them to have someone not attracted to them.

[–]tefllifestyle5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thats a nice mentor to have

[–]Corporation_Pull-in15 points16 points  (3 children) | Copy

Except all women are whores

[–]UWantThisName361 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I don't understand this mentality.

It has a negative connotation towards women because they want sex, yet we're all literally on a sub for men where we discuss how to get more/better sex.

This double standard has to die.

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[–]Zanford3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

It sounds like "treat them like a lady" to him did NOT mean to act like a beta orbiter or wine'n'dine them, but rather it was what TRP would call self disqualification or aloofness (acting unfazed by the stripper's sexuality).

[–]jm511 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nice guy doing his covert whoremongering with his crush might get the same negative emotions as a client treating a whore like a piece of meat.

I'd end up BP with normal [sic] women but did fine with crazies/whores. Not RP as such, just me being me and them finding that to be perfectly acceptable. Maybe I saw the whores as equals and the normals as above me?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

True. I would not date stripper's because they have daddy issues and all that but yeah. They are used to guys drooling over them, your dad stood out and I am guessing he knew how to converse with a woman

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