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Dear Red pilled dudes with a below 5 inch dick

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May 25, 2019
90 upvotes

Are you able to spin plates regularly (and keep Them for a bit )?

How would you rate your sex life ? Have you ever gotten rejected/ghosted after sex without it being game related ?

And most importantly, what would be your tips for a guy struggling with his own below average Pepe who can get women to his bed regularly?

(Reposted but in a different way ,, I’m hoping mods are ok with it )

Edit : thanks for the input , I might be the only dude here with a sub 5 though


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Title Dear Red pilled dudes with a below 5 inch dick
Author Colby-MAGA-covington
Upvotes 90
Comments 155
Date 25 May 2019 12:16 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/239581
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/bsobyj/dear_red_pilled_dudes_with_a_below_5_inch_dick/
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[–]FreedomEpiphany80 points81 points  (39 children) | Copy

Kudos for owning that up. If you get regularly laid, you are Chad brother, don't worry about what other people have to say about it.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 21 points22 points  (38 children) | Copy

My main concern is about being able to spin plates though , and not failing to actually get a chick off by fucking her .

I’ll try to improve my foreplay , but Going down on her like a beta bitch because you’re not good enough to get her off with your dick isn’t the objective here .

[–]rockyp3235 points36 points  (16 children) | Copy

5 is more than enough my dude don’t let your confidence go down.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 82 points83 points  (15 children) | Copy

It’s not even 5 though lmao, toxic positivity won’t solve my problem bro .

[–]rcwhitaker104 points105 points  (0 children) | Copy

lol toxic positivity, i like that

[–]rockyp3216 points17 points  (3 children) | Copy

Well try to bang some chicks and if you notice there’s a problem come back. If you haven’t faced one yet then don’t create one that’s not there if so do jelqing, no fap, no porn, get very lean to maximize size

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I ve clarified this a million times now , I’ve gotten laid twice and instantly ghosted after by 2 chicks who were both throwing themselves at me (because of looks , so the attraction was there until the end)

If you think not jerking off will make your dick bigger ..

[–]rockyp320 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Maybe it was ur dick? Maybe it wasn’t could’ve been a lot of things and you won’t know for sure unless you ask which u probably won’t do you just gotta work on everything else and maybe they just moved on for no reason. If u don’t have 10-15% bodyfat then your size will suffer a bit so get lean and jelq all I know is jelqing takes a long time but u gotta be safe with it

[–]gloriousfart13 points14 points  (5 children) | Copy

dude there was a post here some time ago about enhancing dick size naturally, and i found it :

https://archive.fo/isGiN#selection-2875.107-2879.32

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Thanks a lot man , I’ll have to try it out .

[–]gloriousfart0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Welcome, pls let us know in the future if it works properly

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I’ve saved this comment and I’ll report back after a couple months .

[–]gloriousfart1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thx man, good luck

[–]superbad4life1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Opened this and thought it was only going to talk about one thing... man gets into it! Thanks for finding!

[–]Gobraves441 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Girth is more important. Are u at least 4.25-4-50 circumference? Then you are gold.

[–]empatheticapathetic5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

What’s that measurement based from?

[–]Gobraves448 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Average girth I recall from a study. Think avg length was just over 5. As others have posted, giving an orgasm is 90% mental

[–]Matthias_Foley350 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yep. You set the table, and she comes to eat

[–]ohyesimthatguy 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

Going down on her doesn't make you a beta bitch. Im fine in the size department and I actually enjoy it and since ive gotten good at it eating girls out turns me on more than I ever thought it would. Call me a bitch all you want but something about eating a girl out and taking a sip of red wine every few minutes is amazing. You'll be able to tell when she's a couple of minutes away from cumming, at that point put your dick inside her at an angle so it hits her gspot and play rub her clit. Don't get discouraged if she doesn't cum. Sex gets better with plates as you fuck them more and more and learn what works for each specific girl.

Girth is more important than length anyways. Sounds like your length is between 4.5 - 5 inches? Thats enough to hit her gspot What's your girth?

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

what’s your girth

Bad too , never measured but average sized condom slips right off .

[–]beiberwholee696 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Here’s a tip. I’m not below inch but closer to 6. It’s hard to make a woman the first time. So the key is to get good at oral. If you can make her cum the first time via oral, then it’s easier to make her cum after that no matter your dick size. And at the very worst you don’t make her.m cum with your dick but atleast you djd if orally which is a lot more than most guys can say.

[–]FreedomEpiphany7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

You may have a point there.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

a couple more tries and I’ll know for sure 🤷‍♂️

[–]FreedomEpiphany2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

👍

[–]bighoopsbecky7 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy

Wait.. Going down on chicks makes you a beta bitch? Just FYI, if a female does not orgasm from PIV alone, it doesn’t mean you are “not good enough”. Im confused about what “the objective” is...? You’re worried your size may not please a woman but you’re also stating you’re mentality is above pleasing a woman. This entire thought process is actually pretty detrimental to your mental health and sex life. If your objective is to bust a quick nut then why does it matter how big/small your dick is? If your objective is leave your plates satisfied then maybe you should view sex as a whole encompassing experience. Honestly I don’t think women care that much about size they value the experience and connection, even if the sex is casual NSA. I think you got it wrong. IMO the dudes that I have encountered that don’t go down on girls are actually the bigger pussies than the ones that do. Not because they don’t do it, there just seems to be a correlation. They actually affect their own experience and perceived attraction by not being comfortable enough in their own masculinity to want to please a woman during sex. Any natural alpha will aim to please and they don’t need to swallow any pill, the chick will be back regardless of the situation. Maybe you have no rotation because you are trying to think a certain way but it reads a different way and women lose attraction because you miss the point.

[–]NeoPlayer43 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Not OP, but I have a question. I used to love going down on girls until I got concerned about sexual health and not getting STD's. How do I overcome the fear of getting STD's by oral sex?

[–]truthbomb9991 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

By learning what STDs can or can't be transmitted by oral sex. Herpes is the most likely risk.

[–]furcryingoutloud1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Going down on her like a beta bitch

Your problem is not the size of your dick, it's the size of your brain.

[–]ambidexia0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Alligator brain

[–]furcryingoutloud-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ooooh, that is such a cool insult, can I borrow it? Or is it something only jacuzzi communists can use?

[–]dusara2170 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

How is going down on a girl beta?

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] -1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

Because it’s the complete opposite of being dominant. She’ll lose respect for you .You can do it to return the favor but that’s about it .

[–]dusara2171 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

it’s the complete opposite of being dominant.

Bullshit. If I push a woman onto the bed, pull her pants down, start eating her out, and make her edge right before I move on to PIV, that is the definition of sexual dominance. Being capable of giving a woman an orgasm with nothing but your tongue and having complete control over the pleasure you give her is the definition of dominance. The only thing a woman is going to feel towards a man that can make her experience multiple orgasms as foreplay is going to be intense attraction and desire.

[–]screenmagnet0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Cuff her ankles above her head or ear her out in a sex swing. As long as she feels immobilized, she will feel she is submitting her pussy to your tongue.

If you want to kick it up a notch, edge her, make her beg for your permission to cum, tell her she’s not allowed to cum until you tell her, and then force so many orgasms out of her that she begs you to stop.

Add a ball gag for a twist.

[–]umizumiz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well, it sounds like that IS the objective here...

[–]comu_nacho63 points64 points  (10 children) | Copy

A bit of science for people's peace of mind: the average human erect penis is about 5.2 inches long (13.1 cm) with an standard deviation of 1.66 cm (0.7 in), from a 2014 study of over 15,000 subjects from around the world. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/bju.13010. Other studies give results around that ball park. With that mean and SD (Z score = 1.208), percentile 90 (longer than 90% of the population) is just over 6 inches. Porn's monster dongs are mostly small girls, trimmed pubes, camera angles.

Here they do a great demonstration of how that compares to a normal woman's body and hand (NSFW) https://unravelingsize.wordpress.com/

And also, there is a correct scientific way of measuring the penis they use in these studies. They measure above the penis, pressing a hard ruler to the pelvic bone (because belly fat shouldn't affect the penis length). https://www.getroman.com/impatient/penis/how-to-measure-your-penis/ So that could add an inch or two if you're overweight, to what you think your penis measures. Another reason to lift and become leaner.

[–]Vikingcel31 points32 points  (2 children) | Copy

God bless whoever made that wordpress site.

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K184 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

'Try to straighten out any curve you may have, but be gentle; it is possible to fracture your penis, though it is unlikely you could do it to yourself without meaning to'.

What in the fuck? Damn, that'd be funny.

[–]Vikingcel6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Crack your unit open like a fortune cookie.

[–]Strikingable7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

I wanted to link this to him, thank you mate. I think this is definately sidebar material tho. (The unravelingsize link)

[–]Vikingcel2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm all for it getting sidebared. Every guy is insecure about the D.

[–]whiffofass 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

If that's true I should be doing pornos (8x6 in). Too bad I can't perform for shit since I have problems holding an erection during sex without ED meds. Probably because of fapping 2-3x everyday and hours of porn.

[–]storinoranges 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

Lol you should stop that

[–]whiffofass 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Easier said than done.

[–]Gawernator1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Interesting

[–]rcwhitaker25 points26 points  (1 child) | Copy

I had a buddy in college, absolutely great looking guy, teeny ween tho. Girl i was banging had banged him once before, said he had the smallest dick she'd ever seen. Maybe 4 inches from what she said.

Dude fucked more girls than anyone i knew in school, frankly, but again his face was probably second to none so.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

I might be in the same situation, I’ve been blessed with the look to attract chicks and I’ve gymmed enough to have an attractive leaner body but at the end of the day if the sex is bad they won’t come back.

[–]Vikingcel109 points110 points  (6 children) | Copy

Inb4 removed again

Edit: I think it's retarded. Our boy here has a baby dick but can't get redpilled support because he's a choosing beggar for not wanting "i got 8 inches and size dont matter" "ayy eat her cunt or somtin" "sidebar and lift" type of advice. Mod probably got a small peen too and doesn't like being reminded.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas30 points31 points  (0 children) | Copy

LMFAO

[–]omega_dawg938 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

holy shit. lmmfao! damn.

[–]StopGaming12347 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

I got 8 inches but have severe erectile dysfunction to the point I frustrate girls and I never see them again. Once a girl even cried for god knows what reason because I couldn't get hard.

I would trade size for proper function...

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Kek

[–]Sad_boy_23 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Haha lol coming from a virgin autist

[–]Vikingcel2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Will trade dick size for social skills, any takers?

[–]fatbloop15 points16 points  (2 children) | Copy

You're stressing out over something you've realized after banging 2 girls.

TWO girls.

Jesus fucking Christ.

Two is not remotely a big enough number you can base these theories on.

In all probability they ghosted you because of completely different reasons. You're just looking to blame that on something you have no control on instead of self reflecting and seeing what you lack. Heck, they might have ghosted you for something not that's even your fault. I promise you, your dick size isn't a problem. Maybe some girls won't like it, but with most girls, it's not an issue.

Max out your looks. Read Sex God Method. Learn to use your fingers and your tongue. Fuck 20 girls and if they all ghost you immediately MAYBE then you can start forming these theories. Until then keep fucking.

Godspeed brother.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

I’m only stressing because they were incredibly into me , like it’s ridiculous when a chick who’s throwing herself at you ghosts you after sex , twice .

I’ve maxed out my looks already, I could probably get leaner but that would be not maintainable and my hormones would take a hit , so there’s no point.

But I do hope you’re right and I’m wrong , I just don’t believe it.

[–]oooKenshiooo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Bro... She might ghost you for the same reason you pump and dump an hb8... She is hot but also annoying and you want nothing more than the sex.

[–]truthbomb99920 points21 points  (4 children) | Copy

Dude not all women are looking for monster dicks. I've had multiple women nope out of sex with me. If you have a fit chick and she isn't too deep, you should be able to make her happy, plus she isn't going to be scared to do anal. Get your abs and physical fitness right and they won't care

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

I’m relatively fit , and probably an inch below average size . I think a lot of people here underestimate the difference can make .

I’m not trying to ltr, and I can get laid . I wanna spin plates and that requires good dick

[–]CommercialMajor0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Bro, you are being so fucking negative, how the hell did you even pull those girls? This must have lowered your confidence a lot. Damn, how could you deadass ever pull a girl with this type of confidence? Every fucking comment is, I'm fit but I have a small pp and I am saddddd

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I believe it s my looks , but I most likely have waaaay lower inhib than you’ll ever have , and i never was and never will be intimidated by some thot or unable to approach her without stuttering . I grew up a Russian white guy in a Arab country and I had to toughen up real quick or else I would have literally gotten sexually assaulted.

I’m not even joking , the kids here s idea of bullying you is to straight up just stick fingers up your ass and beat the fuck out of you if you defend yourself. It’s funny but also severely fucked up if you think about the smaller and weaker kids who’ll turn out fucked in the head because of it .

Massive tangent but all I’m trying to say is that you don’t know me , don’t make baseless assumptions like that

[–]An_Actual_Politician0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Spinning plates requires you to be fun and exciting. That's it. If you're someone her friends would fuck at first glance then believe me, they ain't goin anywhere.

[–]rockyp329 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy

Dick would be like the last thing to work on. If your able to get the chicks naked then your doing a good job but there’s no resin to worry about that if you can’t even get them naked yet

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

I can definitely get them naked. The problem is getting ghosted after (despite her being incredibly into me before , I’m guessing because of my looks , so it’s definitely the sex ).

I’ve gotten laid twice and that scenario has happened twice , the problem is obvious here .

[–]rockyp325 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not necessarily that’s just ur assumption. Are u good in bed? Did they jsut wanna hookup once then dip?

[–]_-resonance-_2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you’ve gotten laid “twice,” then they probably don’t come back bc you still need to work on your confidence game. You’re self conscious and they can sense it. That is most likely the issue. Learn to not care. Put your pleasure first. Women cum best when they know you’re not trying to make them cum, but also that you know what you’re doing. It’s a weird paradox. They need to know you know you’re the man.. which makes you have to try less, which is better for everyone.

Try to make her cum, and maybe she will, but why try? Not saying don’t make your women cum. Just saying: don’t try, and it will be so much easier for her.

Also, have your women been cumming? If not, you gotta try to make them cum ;)

[–]Nitsujsith6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Girls fuck other chicks, and they dont even have penises.

[–]omega_dawg9312 points13 points  (7 children) | Copy

relax fellas... put your units away and roll-up the tape measure.

girls don't measure penis size... they measure, "time & attention."

they really don't give a fuck about how they make you feel... they're worried about how YOU make THEM feel.

but when you are fucking, be sure to fuck them. well. don't fall for the hollywood romantic shit, but don't fall for the porn shit either. just be into the moment, passionate, and attentive.

use toys, tongue, dick, fingers, shampoo bottles, beer cans... whatever. just make sure she remembers that you were NOT playing during play time.

dominate her. you are the porn director, the producer, the financier, and the male talent. direct her and (respectfully) have your way with her.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

girls don’t measure penis size

Bullshit .

They don’t have to take a fucking ruler to my dick to figure out it’s small, when they can barely feel it inside after getting railed by a another guy before me who made her scream , she’ll know,

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

if they ALL say this, then you either have an issue with your parents (genetics) or god himself.

but don't get mad with the girl(s).

just learn how to eat pussy really well, and ask if they're into anal. they can cum that way too.

[–]Fucty_Artsy-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dude you got some severe confidence issues the way you are thinking. Vaginas are a very sensitive thing with many nerves and first thing you think when she „can barely feel“ anything is you are at fault? There are a million other things why she didn’t give you the reaction you obv wanted from her. Stop getting into your head over this and enjoy the fucking.

[–]bighoopsbecky 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

Good answer. There’s so much bad advice flowing through this thread it’s ridiculous.

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

what's funny is that on reddit, comments like, "well, i've got 7.5 inches, and blah...blah, blah," are common.

worldwide average = 5.5 inches.

reddit average = 7.5 inches.

the internet is a wonderful place.

[–]bighoopsbecky 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

The internet? Lmao. The world is a big dick contest. It’s so dumb.

Like get over your dicks dudes seriously, I don’t get it.

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

men getting over dick size is like women getting over their facial flaws or better yet, small tit size.

guys compare themselves to porn guys and watch the women's reactions etc. they need to be reminded that they're actors, camera & lens tricks, the guys use pumps before scenes, and the women are usually small... Google "ebbinghaus illusion."

there's a lot going on.

[–]Twenty_league_boots8 points9 points  (4 children) | Copy

OP, you're getting a lot of blue pilled advice here. The harsh reality is that yes, having a small dick absolutely will make it more difficult to retain and spin plates. This sub is big on The Sex God Method, which is an excellent book but downplays the disadvantages of having a small penis. The reality is that being fucked by a smaller dick does not make a woman feel as dominated or "taken" by the man. She may not even be aware of it consciously, but it affects her underlying feelings and attitude.

I am not saying this to make you despair. But you have to realize that you have to get EVERYTHING else mastered. Read The Sex God Method, even though it's wrong about penis size, because it's a great book in terms of dominating a woman sexually in other ways, and this is really your only hope.

Even giving women orgasms is not enough. I have talked to a woman who said her small dicked boyfriend even gave her PIV orgasms but she STILL missed and craved the feeling of being full and stretched and dominated by a dick.

Because you can't do this, you MUST dominate them sexually through aggressive, dominant, mentality and manipulation of their emotions. It is possible.

Again, I genuinely am not trying to be demoralizing. I'm a realist, and a man has to know, understand, and recognize his limitations in order to overcome them.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yea I know that you’re being honest , and I understand that this sub is filled with blue pilled advice about how no matter how ugly and short you are you can just make up for it by having a strong frame , so I expected the same kind of responses for this topic and I ll just have to filter through them.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Yeah idk you are probably right. But I don’t think all girls need a big dick probably more like 50/50.

Last year I got a girl to blow me who was was dating this guy for 4 years. Her boyfriend was the tall jacked type. Probably had a hammer. I’m 5 feet 9 140lbs. My dick is 6x4.2. Decent length but very below average girth. I told her as a joke, yeah we can date if you want, but you’ll have to break up with your bf.

She texted me the next day that she broke up with her boyfriend. I obviously wasn’t into it (even though the head was amazing), but it made me realize that some girls care a ton about being “ravished”. Some girls just don’t.

[–]Twenty_league_boots0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You can't assume anything at all about her boyfriend's dick, though. There's literally no correlation between dick size and body size or height. For all you know, your dick was bigger than his.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Nah she made a small dick remark after I said things wouldn’t work out. Which would of hurt but she begged me to date her so yeah. I think it’s pretty stupid to thing all girls love a big duck when only 1% of guys have big dicks. Plus I have heard from a few girls that the best sex they had was with a small dick. My buddy notorious has a small dick (same frat people speak). I have heard girls say he was the best they’ve ever had. She was also fucking Noah vonley

[–]vincent3653 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Have you heard of penis exercises? There's a sub callrd "ajelqforyou" and penis exercises can help you grow.

[–]VaultGuy19953 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

3 incher here. Once most women find out, they bail immediately despite how much they were into me beforehand. Most of my luck has been with older or post-wall women that have run out of options.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

I don’t know what to tell you bro , must be rough .

[–]VaultGuy19951 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Some women legitimately don't care, but a vast majority do. I've seriously wondered if trying to be red pilled is even worth it because I still can't have a fulfilling sex life. Some say it's all about personality, but that's really only part of the equation.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Redpill knowledge is probably still useful in other areas of your life but I see where you’re coming from if you’re only talking about pursuing women .

[–]VaultGuy19950 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Self betterment is good in general, but TRP is supposed to teach you how to be better with women.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Jelqing. Check out the subreddit. It works bro

[–]boywonder2004 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Jesus Christ. The posts on a fucking Redpill subreddit trying to push pseudoscience exercises (i.e. jelqing) that can risk penile numbness for the sake of an extra cm or 2.

Do you think a girl can tell a difference between a 5 inch dick and a 6 inch dick? a 5.5 and a 5? a 4.5 and a 5.5? No, girls can hardly gauge the size of a guys dick based off of seeing it, let alone off of feeling it.

I'm 5.5 inches long on a good day. Prolly below average girth too. Notice I said on a good day? Performance anxiety + ED (not from the size of my penis mind you) cause my penis to not even be maximal size when I have sex most times. Add alcohol in the mixture and I'm guaranteed to be pushing rope.

But you know what? I've had 0 issue getting girls off when we have sex. Because sex is more than the girth and length of your cock. For women, it is largely mental as well. I can't tell you the amount of times I've made girls cum and then pulled my dick out and it is sittin there at max 75% boner. While stretching the vagina out is important for making a girl orgasm, it isn't everything.

Kudos to you for focusing on your oral game to make girls get off. But if we're being honest here, an oral orgasm is never gonna be as good as an orgasm from penetration. Put simply, girls like to be fucked. That means a meat rod stuck in them repeatedly that will cum and make them pregnant. Your focus on getting girls off is great, but a girl will always prefer penetration orgasm over a tongue orgasm. And just because you have a sub-5 incher doesn't mean that isn't possible.

The fact that you want to spin plates makes the situation more complicated tho. While you can apply a formula for getting girls off to most girls, truth is, you need to be having sex with a girl for awhile to figure out how she gets off. Yeh, I know it sucks, but guys with girthy, longs dicks prolly don't have as much trouble getting new plates off then a guy rocking a 5 incher. You gonna let that stop you from gettin gash tho?

Each girl has a rhythm she likes in a certain position. You should be able to pick up on this within 2-3 fuck sessions. Getting a girl off is all about communication. So don't obsess over that ONS that you couldn't get off that one time after dollar beers. And please, please, please I beg you, don't let this Redpill philosophy of getting a girl off every time you have sex get to you. That means if you're eating a girl out and she is like "Please fuck me", don't go back down to her pussy because you're worried your dick won't get her off. She wants D in P and she wants it now. I've spun plenty of plates where they tell me that me getting them off every time isn't a big deal because the sex itself and penetration is so good that they still crave it. Are they lying to me? Prolly not. I'm a grad student with a fuck-ton of student debt living in a shitty house till I graduate. So I'm not obsessing over it.

[–]VeryTalentedCheff 1 points [recovered]  (7 children) | Copy

You are overthinking it bro, I'm only 7cms longer and I never had problems. Its all in your mind.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 3 points4 points  (6 children) | Copy

7 cm is no joke though .

I’ve had a guy yesterday tell me the same thing , except he was bigger than an iPhone 6, so basically he thinks his above average 6 inch dick is small too . It’s almost as if I’m being trolled now “ hey dude I’m in the same spot as you expect I’m twice as big , I make girls cum though do no excuses “ you feel me ?

[–]Vikingcel8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

you feel me ?

Not really. Is it in?

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

But I m confident about it babe !

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

iPhone6 or 6plus?

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

+

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

For you.

[–]SICFJC1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You can fuck once but probably not twice.

[–]laserdicks1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Where in the Sex God Method is a minimum penis size required?

Women have no idea how big a dick is in inches, nor how tall a man is. What they do know is what level of Tingles TM and toe-curling you got them to.

To them penis size is just another tool of manipulation. However the one place penis size can actually affect them is if they can sense an insecurity about it in you. The slightest whiff of that and they'll mirror it (as people do). They'll often test it in some way as well, pre-emptively checking your frame about it.

[–]uptimex0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Did you know that statistically rich people get most female orgasms regardless of size of their dick? It is because of their status. I am not saying you have to become rich. But forget about dick size and concentrate on inner game and outter game improvement. You shoud accept yourself as you are, as nature made you. We are just another animal kind, made by nature filling the forests.

[–]porn-chicken0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'll spoon feed you what I was trying to let you realise yourself.

Your dick is unlikely the problem. Very few people have monster cocks, despite everyone who says so around these parts. There are a multitude of more probable reasons that you can't even comprehend yet because you're so wrapped up in your insecurity and it's going to hinder your progress.

People keep telling you to ignore it because it's the best solution. Short of risking plastic surgery (if you even can idk), you're just going to have to learn to work around it. You can only learn that through experience of trial and error.

If you're already getting laid, so you're doing something right at least.

[–]iambecomechad1 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

If you want practical realistic advice without toxic positivity (love that phrase) or pointless sympathy I have a few of important points for you:

  1. The G-spot is just 2 inches from the entrance, you can still hit that and give them a tonne of pleasure

  2. Short girls have smaller pussies

  3. You can make a girl go wild by giving good head but you want to do well with your dick too

G-spot and clit are the main pleasure centres, but the one thing you’re going to struggle with is hitting her cervix.

If you put her legs up (bending her knees and putting them on the front of your shoulders in a missionary position) you can maximise how deep you can go whilst hitting the G-spot maximally. That’s the go-to position for making a girl scream, I use it as the finale to sex when I want her to cum.

Try it out and all the best.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Will do , thanks .

[–]Andgelyo0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I don’t have a below 5 inch dick, but I’m a 5.5er to 5.8er on a good day. Girl I’m currently dating isn’t complaining, but there were some size queens (mostly black and Latina chicks) who once called me thumb dick before 😂

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

5,8 is above average, the rest of what you said irrelevant but good for you I guess

[–]CaptDeadlift0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Not a 5 incher but would like to chime in.

Yikes , I personally never went down on plates since you don't know if you'll be tasting sloppy seconds but if it's a LTR or FWB then yeah(seeing her body twitch unwillingly is awesome and turns me on harder).

Most girls have no idea of sizes anyway , they'll say that a guy was packing an 8 incher when in fact he was a 5.5-6.

I had gotten from my current LTR saying I was huge when I am only 6.2 with above average girth (she thought I had an 8inch donger).

Learn to play around their clit and stop finger blasting them thinking that will get them off since most women can't from penetration.

There are a lot of people with a sub 5er here so don't worry and also you can check into PE Gym (basically do exercises to grow your dick and some say they got an extra inch out of it).

I will look into it just for the fun of it and maybe it does work.

[–]xOmegaGruntx0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I fucking lost it at donger

[–]DANYboy520 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Mine is not much bigger than 5. The way I see it Gorillas are alpha af and they got some of the smallest dicks around. And as far as female satisfaction in bed I consider it irrelevant as they are an entirely different species of hominid who get to enjoy the context and process of seduction more than a man ever could

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

We’re not fucking gorillas , and if you’re slightly bigger than 5 you’re slightly above average.

Most people here don’t seem to realize than an inch makes a massive difference here

[–]SalporinRP0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

You've gotten a lot of good advice from other commenters so I'm just gonna say this. 99% of the girls I've been with don't know how to measure dicks for the life of them.

My dick is a shade over 6 inches. Closer to 6.5 if I'm horny as fuck. I've asked girls before how big they think I am and only 1 girl guessed it right. I've had girls guess from 7 inches all the way up to 8.5 (LOL).

In my experience they will always overestimate.

Secondly, female orgasms are mostly mental. Thirdly there are tons of girls out there will smaller vaginas that would prefer a smaller dick. I've fucked a few girls that were too tight for me and I don't have some monster cock or anything.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

You realize being close to 6,5 puts you at the top percentile right ? It doesn’t matter if they overestimate because they’ll know from experience you’re way bigger than most guys , and they ll know I’m way smaller.

They don’t need to fucking measure it , they’ll feel it

[–]SalporinRP-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Female orgasms are 90% mental. And I really think you're overestimating how much women can feel with their pussies. Do you really think a woman can discern an inch of difference from getting fucked? Unlikely.

Sex is mostly energy and technique unless you have a micropenis. You're on the smaller side for sure but I think you're fine dude.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

And you’re on the bigger side , significantly bigger than the average and yet you state your opinion with 100% certainty despite never really experiencing being on the smaller side , and disagreeing with a guy who does (me). What makes you think you’re right and I’m wrong ?

This is why my question was targeted at those who are below 5 inches , because people like you really can’t relate and are incapable of giving me valid advice , just telling me shit I already know but applying it to sex (which I’ve tried and failed ).

It’s like a 6ft 4 model looking guy telling a 5ft5 game with female proportions and facial structure that confidence is the most important thing and looks only matter a little . All of this shit stems from toxic positivity which has infested this subreddit and all it does is waste my time.

[–]Slygore0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I'm sub 3. It was never an issue. I had a few check out after they asked for a dickpic but that's what abundance is about. I actually waited until I was 21 and met 'someone special' because I was hung up / BP about it. Missed out on a lot before that as a result but made up for lost time after I realized 'so what'

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Damn You’re less than 3 inches ? Do you spin plates regularly?(or just fuck around once with them and move on ?) Have you ever made a chick orgasm from penetration?

If you’re a slayer with 3 inches than you deserve some serious respect, give me any tips you have please .(especially for during sex )

[–]jenovajunkie0 points1 point  (24 children) | Copy

Dude, having great bloodflow and circulation helps you out.

Stretching regularly (not the penis specifically, don't be pulling on that shit) may help too.

So diet, exercise, make sure your body is functioning well (trust me, maintaining a minerals and vitamins will go a long way). You are going to have to work with what you got, yeah your not going to be able to "be a great lay because your enormous dick", you don't have one.

If you want to figure how to spin girls, it's going to have to be another way. Don't be ashamed of having to use toys to assist you. Sex isn't all about having spectacular genitalia, only idiots believe that.

Ask girls how many of them orgasmed off just a big dick. Just ask them.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 4 points5 points  (16 children) | Copy

If you’re asking me to use a dildo on a chick during sex ... fucking hell i d rather be a virgin my whole life than do that cucked shit I’m not trying to be a fucking dyke dude

[–]jenovajunkie0 points1 point  (15 children) | Copy

Wow, okay. Well, there might be your problem.

If you ever get into an argument with a girl about how she loves how a big dick streches her out, just let her know that a tight vagina is where it's at. I could have a hefty piece of lumber that I'm working with, but if that sluts vagina is loose, does it matter?

If she's ugly anyway, no big dick is going to want to fuck her more than once, if that.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 0 points1 point  (14 children) | Copy

So if she throws a shit test at me I should get offended , but thief and incredibly defensive by immediately attacking her vagina .

Got it bud

[–]jenovajunkie0 points1 point  (13 children) | Copy

She is attacking your sexual reproduction organ, is there something wrong with giving her some of that shit back in her face?

Men fear they are not big enough, women fear they are not small enough; in the general sense. Hey, you didn't like my advice before; so why are you still criticizing; I'm legitimately trying to help you.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 0 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy

For all I know you could be some 15 year old virgin who can’t even look at women and thinks he can give advice because he read the sidebar . You can’t actually expect me not be skeptical of the advice I get here even if the intention is good .

And everyone jokes about males sexual orgasm , we’re not women so we actually have to have a thicker skin . I’m not bothered by that “attack “ which I wouldn’t really consider an attack .

[–]jenovajunkie0 points1 point  (10 children) | Copy

Well if you're going to go online to reddit, and ask for solutions to something that's concerning or whatever, that's a risk you're going to take.

Focus more on the solution. You asked for tips, not a specific set.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy

It s not a risk I’m willing to take , I can still listen to your ideas , try to process them to the best of my ability and take from them whatever may seem useful to me . We can have an intellectual discussion or we can call each other faggots and move on .

Another guy seriously told me I should just buy a Dildo and use it on her during sex , to “assist “.(I might aswell pay some 6ft 5 black dude to have sex with her and just watch , to “assist “ ) Believe it or not that type of idiotic advice is very common here too , just like any other place on the internet. A lot of very sheepish spineless dudes who can’t think for themselves, but at the same time a bit of dudes who know what they’re talking about and speak the raw unfiltered truth.

[–]jenovajunkie0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy

Well then don't post on here, if you can't listen to advice. That guy, who said to use assistive toys in the bedroom, was me. It's not equivalent to getting another dude to assist you, and you just watch. If that's what you got from that, then I don't know how to help you; you're so insecure with yourself, it appears that you can't be helped.

So, this is solely a you problem.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy

It’s not insecurity, it implies that you’re not man enough to fuck her and must get another dick (not yours ) in the action to satisfy her , which is as cucked of an advice as you can get .

don’t post here

As long as I’m it breaking any rules I can post here as much as I want and I’m not obliged to agree with cucked advice like that .

this is solely a you problem

“ just cuck yourself bro “ yea that s the bullshit advice you’d expect to get from self unaware women .

[–]Twenty_league_boots1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I have asked them. About 50% say they orgasm off a big dick. The rest say they love the feeling of being filled and stretched even though it takes clit play to make them cum.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

And when you factor in the fact that women are known to virtue signal and be dishonest about their preferences (just ask any women if she prefers taller and muscular men and look at hesitant she’ll be before replying ) it doesn’t look too good .🤷‍♂️

[–]jenovajunkie0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well use toys to compensate.

[–]BarackTheObama 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

Yeah hahahha fuck her with a dildo to „assist“ you, maybe even invite tyron to do it lol. Fuck this niggas advice, buy a penis extender and visit peg forums.

[–]Colby-MAGA-covington[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Askwomen Tier advice

[–]BarackTheObama 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Fucking cuck level soyboy advice, i bet he cried when hillary lost

[–]jenovajunkie-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think he was talking about you, I live in Canada; Hilary won here.

[–]whiffofass 1 points [recovered]  (5 children) | Copy

Check out the AJelqForYou reddit. Someone over there went from 5.5x4.25 to 9.25x6.5 doing those stretches and exercises so if you have the time to spend it's definitely possible to grow.

[–]Twenty_league_boots2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Just lol at believing that shit.

[–]whiffofass 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

It does sound unbelievable. I think he started from 6 inches. He had a log with photos and measurements. One of many. An inch should be possible for anyone. I had a priapism once (4+ hour wood) and it gave me some permanent dick gains.

[–]Vikingcel0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How much did you gain?

I'm gonna pop 200mg of cialis and if my dick doesn't fall off, I'll start my pornstar career.

[–]GergedanAnimal0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

what source did you use for priapism ? I heard but couldn't find pge1

[–]SalporinRP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I've heard that shit can fuck up your dick tho

[–]mojokabobo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You should research how to jelq.



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