Former plate told crazy brothers that I used her . How should I proceed ?

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May 27, 2019

Word just got back to me that they were looking for me the other day. Didn’t know she had crazy brothers before plating or else I would have next too many women out here and I knew I wasn’t looking for anything serious. I saw her red flags and decided it wasn’t worth it and she wanted commitment. Told her brothers I used her for sex and manipulated her and they’re going to beat me up if they see me which is highly possible and they’re always together so I’m going to get jumped. How should I proceed ?

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Title Former plate told crazy brothers that I used her . How should I proceed ?
Author new2019throwaway-
Upvotes 68
Comments 92
Date 27 May 2019 05:48 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]ShotgunTRP135 points136 points  (0 children) | Copy

Be on your guard

Prepare to run

[–]benmarvin40 points41 points  (4 children) | Copy

Stop plating latinas

[–]new2019throwaway- 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

O shit how did you know ?

[–]benmarvin19 points20 points  (1 child) | Copy

This has to be a troll post. No one is this stupid.

[–]spiceb0ss10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Must have grown up sheltered 😂

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lmfao. Welcome to the club gabacho. Next time keep your pimp hand stronger when she starts acting up

[–]beachbbqlover104 points105 points  (4 children) | Copy

I would record everything that suggests this is going to happen, and file a police report.

You may be able to get a restraining order placed, or they may just let it be known they're aware of the possibility which might dissuade them.

But not only that, if/when they do jump you, it'll be a pretty clear and obvious premeditated and conspired assault/murder and all 4 of them can enjoy prison.

[–]_-resonance-_83 points84 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yeah dude, don’t sweat. If they murder you they’re totally going to jail.

[–]beachbbqlover0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's how the law works. Or rather, doesnt. It's also illegal to take most precautions.

[–]Enlightened_Chimp42 points43 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ya.. just stay in public areas (that are likely to have cameras) for a bit as well.

And for a long term strategy you should be learning self defense, one form of striking (Muay Thai/Boxing) and one form of ground game (Wrestling/Jiu Jitsu) so people don't fuck with you. There's really no reason not to learn it.

[–]UncleEskel63 points64 points  (22 children) | Copy

First off, next her yesterday. Block her and swerve this shit.

Carry a knife if you don’t have a ccw, avoid secluded areas, and deescalate any attempt to jump you. Defensive posture, talk them down. Push comes to shove, make sure you look like the victim (fear of serious bodily harm or injury) and gut a motherfucker.

Be hard to find and it’ll blow over.

Edit: That recording advice is good too. Texts, voicemails. Might want a dash cam if they actually do start following you, some people really are that crazy.

[–]PythonInterp21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy

The "next" part of her is also wise.

Better advice is to get restraining orders on her and her brothers.

If possible, get out of town for a week or two.

[–]RipoffLeperDig 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Firearms > Knives

There's really no winner in a knife fight: the loser dies on the scene, the "winner" dies in the ambulance.

[–]Dane5010 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well said. In a knife fight everyone gets cut.

[–]whiffofass 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

You can stab someone who attacks on in the US? In most European countries if you use more force than the other person you are automatically at fault. Even if you shoot or stab someone who breaks into your home I think.

[–]QueenSlapFight13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes. In most of the US you can respond to the reasonable fear of grave bodily harm with lethal force.

[–]Twenty_league_boots8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, Europe is completely fucked in that respect. What a joke. They place the rights of criminals above the rights of law abiding citizens.

[–]RichHomieCole23 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy

You can use anything in self defense. I would hate to live in Europe with that flawed manner of thinking

[–]porkmissiles4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Here in Canada there was a case where a guy's ex had two people break into his house. I believe he took the knife off them and killed one and hospitalized the other.

Even here where we say sorry to burglars he was not charged.

[–]melungeonmuscle2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Carry some mace too

[–]ReformSociety3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Pepper spray > knife

[–]W_O_M_B_A_T24 points25 points  (1 child) | Copy

Restraining order, especially if you have witnessed saying they were asking about you.

[–]Irtotallynotrobot1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes for sure.

[–]thy_shall_win15 points16 points  (16 children) | Copy

You're missing out way too much context. Which country do you live in? Who told you? How did they tell you? Who do you live with ect.

Would need to know more to make a better judgement.

[–]new2019throwaway- 1 points [recovered]  (15 children) | Copy

USA New York , heard at the barber shop . Said they were looking for me in a red Honda which is the middle brothers car so I knew they weren’t bullshitting . The brothers never liked me . I live alone

[–]Twenty_league_boots39 points40 points  (1 child) | Copy

At least you're in the US. If you were in Brazil you'd be fucked.

[–]LabelMeIntrovert0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Man they stabbed that “junior”! Kid to death in new York over someone’s sister getting double teamed... the fucked up part is they killed the wrong kid... idk if I were him I’d do like everyone is saying, record everything and carry a defense weapon, preferably a gun if it’s licensed.

[–]Rommel22110 points11 points  (3 children) | Copy

Pocket sand is legal in every state. Use it.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

You're joking, but i'm seriously contemplating..

[–]Rommel2215 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'm not joking at all. I legitimately carry pocket sand. I even have a special pouch I bought for it. It uses leaf-springs to stay closed instead of a drawstring, so it can be deployed with one hand in a smooth, easy motion.
Edit: If anyone is interested in my preferred pocket-sand pouch, look up "davis archery scope cover" and get the small version. Large only fits in cargo pants pockets, but reaching low for a cargo pocket is usually not viable in such a situation.

[–]RuleTheOne0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Might have to look into that

[–]iwviw13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’ve been in this position before. I laid low low for like 2 months and the issue disappeared people moved on. It’s a sucky situation but it’s part of the game of being a Mack daddy!

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

do you have a firearm?

[–]ivan_mcnasty14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah don’t carry a knife like other people said here, that will just get you killed.

A knife fight 1v2 is still a losing battle if you don’t have the right training.

Get a pepper spray and file a police report. Block the girl and never respond to her again. Avoid all the regular places you go to for a few weeks where she may have known you to go, that’s where they will come looking.

It should die down and they will get tired of looking eventually. Carry the pepper spray with you now in case you run into them in a month or two.

[–]hamagiclamp26 points27 points  (3 children) | Copy

When you're outmatched, fight dirty. This isn't some sanctioned wrestling match. Kick em square in the nuts 2-3 times as hard as you can don't hold back. This will cause a guy to go unconscious. Gouge an eye, fishhook a cheek, bite, whatever it takes. Assume your life is in danger because it very well may be.

[–]Delirious_Solipsista11 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy

Been training for almost a decade, I confirm this guys tells the truth. Once it starts, you need to be the most violent to get out of that shit in one piece. Don’t think you can learn BJJ in a week, violence is all you have if you are not trained already.

[–]Snowaey4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

BJJ is useless if you're outnumbered, the others will just stomp/kick your head as you're submitting one of them

[–]Delirious_Solipsista0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It was just an example - you should never go to the ground when fighting in the street, too many variables you can’t control.

[–]ugluk126 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy

Buy some pepper spray.

[–]Classy_Amir38 points39 points  (4 children) | Copy

Do not, I repeat, do not carry a knife. It's possible that they will take it from you (if you're not trained) and use it against you. Also, in a knife fight, the loser dies on the street, the winner in the ambulance. So, it's a big no no. If you live in the US, I'd be surprised why you don't already own a firearm! If you do, get one. Get a Glock 17 or 19. It's cheap, reliable, and deadly. In case you don't, get a pepper spray and learn to use it. It's quite easy and it HURTS! Even a stun gun would protect you.


[–]benmarvin7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

OP said he's in NY, good luck getting a carry permit within a year.

[–]QueenSlapFight-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is he in the city?

[–]james33744 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah, he's in NY. There and California aren't gun friendly.

[–]Classy_Amir1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's not like it's the second amendment but okay

[–]liberty11274 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Keep your piece condition 0.

[–]SpinPlates8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Start your cardio training now.

I recommend Brooks or Asics.

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[–]cumberger1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

keep something in the waistband

[–]jenovajunkie0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Involve police, there's no harm in that. If her brothers want to act all "gangster", I'm a fucking grown man; no one needs to deal with that harassment.

[–]Distractingyou2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

To be honest contact her and the brothers in Facebook or something and tell them you weren't ready for a relationship and that it wasn't your intention to hurt her sister, tell them you feel like a bad person for not moving the relationship deeper and that you have trust issues cause your father or some girl in the past gave you pstd, i can't be in a relationship right now cause i am going monk mode and find purpose and peace on it then just cut all forms of comunication

I swear most of this problems are caused by a lack of comunication, find a way to talk to the brothers and well i would still buy a weapon and learn to use it, fuck that bitch and her brothers

[–]rizzyfromthe93 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

get in the gym and start lifting


[–]xNightly17 points18 points  (1 child) | Copy

You think lifting weights will suddenly teach you how to fight effectively and defend yourself?


[–]rizzyfromthe90 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


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[–]Bedtimeshine5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

Id take that shit to their front door, drop some real truth about their sister, and tell them if they wanna square up... nows the time.

[–]dpgproductions24 points25 points  (2 children) | Copy

Why would you willingly walk into a 2 or 3 vs 1 scenario all over some dumb broad talking shit lmao

[–]carb0ncl1mber1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If it were me, I’d try to contact them. Set up a meeting between them and yourself (with some of your boys as back up) and have a conversation. Tell them you really like their sister, you didn’t mean to manipulate her, she just has hurt feelings because you didn’t feel the same about her, etc., and basically come across as the nicest guy possible. Show them respect for wanting to protect their sister.

If they aren’t going for it, tell them you’ve already filed a police report for harassment and intimidation but will have it recalled if they end the beef now.

[–]NDMagoo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Platos_slow_brother0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Have an attorney send a letter threatening a PPO .

[–]DiosJ0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Pepper spray

[–]uptimex0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Buy a shocker. It is an efficient weapon. But I would suggest to make a proactive move. Call or go talk with that guys saying that it just didn't work out and in your world men and women are equal, noone uses noone, "you conservative shits". Courage always wins.

[–]surreptitioussoidog0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

  1. If you have anyone who will collaborate what you're saying file a restraining order. (hit first and hit hard)

  2. Get a body camera like the cops have. They're only 150 or so on Amazon.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ain't no bitch worth bodily harm

[–]flatbushwick0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If you don’t have a gun or a knife a Couple D batteries or rocks inside of a long tube sock is a dangerous weapon too.

[–]communistcontrolact-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Carry a big kitchen knife

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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