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Guys who aren’t getting married, what’s your plan after age 40?

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May 28, 2019

I’ve never had the desire to get married, even pre-RP it seemed like a huge loss of freedom for what appeared to be a little reward.

Yes, if the BP world was real, I’d love nothing more than a wonderful, beautiful, loyal woman, but I’m old enough to know that doesn’t exist under most circumstances.

The next best thing I think is to become wealthy and be a sugar daddy of sorts.

At least the commitment is predictable (do you have money or not?)

Maybe just marry a 20 year old in my 50s.

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Title Guys who aren’t getting married, what’s your plan after age 40?
Author GoingToMakeItBrahs
Upvotes 137
Comments 192
Date 28 May 2019 04:45 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]1ForeverNandrolone467 points468 points  (54 children) | Copy

I’ll be 51 tomorrow and I’m divorced with no kids. Everyone here is acting like 40 is old. In your 40s, you can still easily date women in their 20s.

I’m 51, I’m in good shape and I’m good looking, ymmv. I spin plates. I date a couple of women my age. If you are in shape at 50, you are probably in the top 1%. You will have your pick of the litter of women 45-55 years old. They aren’t actually hot but can be pretty good looking for their age. You can easily find ones that will do practically anything for you just because your dick works.

I’ve got some younger plates. They are harder to find than in your 40s but it’s not terribly difficult.

In a few years, I will retire to Asia and find a woman about 20 years younger than me. I’ll settle down for a comfortable retirement. Hopefully when my dementia gets bad she’ll smother me in my sleep and I won’t have to live for years with terrible dementia like my father did.

[–]Poop_Dawg_123 points124 points  (0 children) | Copy

Holy shit what an amazing comment lmfao

[–]128bitworm60 points61 points  (8 children) | Copy

Happy birthday, friend 🍻 I hit 51 on Wednesday.

[–]1ForeverNandrolone11 points12 points  (7 children) | Copy

Thank you and happy birthday to you too. How are your 50s treating you?

[–]128bitworm6 points7 points  (6 children) | Copy

Thank you! Its going to be wild. Am preparing to take a huge leap of faith. Wish me luck 🙄

[–]marcus8crassus2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

Tying the knot?

[–]128bitworm3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy


[–]oldschooltx4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

We have a buddy out here in our squad that shreds it at 50. He’s dominating the 20 year olds. It’s really a sight to see. He’s not rich or anything either, just has a solid frame and is good shape. Very inspirational. Makes me excited about 50.

[–]128bitworm6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

It is definitely something to look forward to. How you maintain yourself physically and mentally dictates how time will treat you. People come and go, you have to make the most of the time you have with them. Focus on yourself and the rest takes care it itself.

I started serious gym and stuff on three years ago. From barely able to bend down to pick up the barbell, I can now deadlift about 245lbs. My back is much stronger, I had to redo my wardrobe 6 times, and the 7th time is coming up. Still can't run though, but I can play some squash. Each addition to my routine has been awesome...and I feel fine!!

Now 51 is almost here. I will continue the momentum I have built up. The solitary life is awesome and I will stay with it as long as I can. Live your life as you see fit. That is really all that matters.

Cheers 🍻

[–]GandMeChattri1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Wow, an old man who uses emojies 100x than I do.

[–]128bitworm1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]MarioBuzo39 points40 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you are in shape at 50, you are probably in the top 1%.


In a few years, I will retire to Asia and find a woman about 20 years younger than me. I’ll settle down for a comfortable retirement. Hopefully when my dementia gets bad she’ll smother me in my sleep and I won’t have to live for years with terrible dementia like my father did.

Amen to that. You're a man with a happy plan.

[–]InstigatingDrunk26 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy

In a few years, I will retire to Asia and find a woman about 20 years younger than me. I’ll settle down for a comfortable retirement. Hopefully when my dementia gets bad she’ll smother me in my sleep and I won’t have to live for years with terrible dementia like my father did.


[–]zazzomicron23 points24 points  (2 children) | Copy

Agree. This is bullshit. I'm 40 and my girl is 29 and I date 20s all the time. Stop giving a fuck about a damn number and go be awesome.

[–]1ForeverNandrolone3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

This times a thousand. To me the most important aspect of TRP is to realize that as a man you are the captain of your life. No one is going to give you anything, you have to make your life happen. If you want to be better then be better. If you are happy with the way you are then own that too but don’t be unhappy when things don’t go your way because you didn’t do the work.

[–]BusterVadge0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Me too. I've been too busy with real life shit lately to date but my last plates were 28, 29, and 26. My LTR before that was 25 when we met (I was 43).

[–]Red_Pill_Brotherhood6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good insight to read even as a young guy. Just be careful not to end up paying for the whole family like many asian women expect and also Thailand has some really messed up divorce laws on western men I hear.

[–]Lukap29512 points13 points  (10 children) | Copy

Risk of dementia is reduced if you have a habit of reading, so I advise you to start reading. Btw its funny to me that I 'll be 18 tomorrow and I am giving advice to a 51-year old man.

[–]Bing_Bang_Bam21 points22 points  (7 children) | Copy

I'm reading this, is that enough?

[–]Lukap2952 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I meant literature.

[–]marcus8crassus-1 points0 points  (5 children) | Copy

Check out audio books

[–]Project_Zero_Betas6 points7 points  (4 children) | Copy

No, it's not the same. Different parts of the brain are activated when it's audio or visual stimuli.

[–]marcus8crassus0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

My thinking was if he doesn’t read currently, this could get him excited to do so and help build a new habit. Even if not, stimulating the brain will result in at least some positive results.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

My thinking was if he doesn’t read currently, this could get him excited to do so and help build a new habit.

Fair enough.

Even if not, stimulating the brain will result in at least some positive results.

It's completely different parts of the brain, not the same end-result from a neurological perspective.

[–]marcus8crassus0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Any brain-related, neuroscience texts that you’d recommend?

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lot of it is from reading economics and behavioral finance, I've read so many that none in particular stand out wrt this specific topic, but here's my GR list if you want to browse. Feel free to ask any questions.

[–]1ForeverNandrolone5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

I read a good bit and so did my dad. He was in pretty good shape til about 85. I’m not talking about early dementia. I just don’t want to live past a certain point. I’m doing enough risky stuff that I think I don’t have to worry about living past 85.

[–]antoniofelicemunro-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

My plan is starting the day I turn 70, I’m going to do a bunch of crazy things and let fate take its course. Do heroin, rob a few banks, get in some fights, who knows. If I survive, I’ll have cool stories, if I don’t, I’ll have lived a good life even before 70 anyways.

[–]GreatMenderTeapill1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

slow clap intensifies

[–]ElvisDimera2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

You gonna get the asian pregnant? Thats my dream

[–]1ForeverNandrolone4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’ll be 60 and she’ll be 40. So... doubtful? I won’t have kids in America because of how ridiculously expensive it is here to raise kids. Maybe in Asia, it’s not too irresponsible? I’ll have to wait and see.

[–]its-mystery2 points3 points  (6 children) | Copy

I’m 19. I constantly think that i should avoid women in these years as they require time investment and focus on career building but as i get older, i’ll start lagging behind in one field of life. Any suggestions? Any other general life suggestions are welcome too

[–]DickMystery3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Had that same feeling, but guess what. They're fucking/dating people who have absolutely nothing but some looks and/or game. Yes they require some time investment, but that'll also develop your game. You're good enough already, you can only get better. Also, start lifting if you haven't yet, you're still young, if you lift seriously you'll look awesome in 2-4 years (depending on how quickly your body will mature). Better than >90% of the guys probably.

[–]1ForeverNandrolone4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Essentially, I agree with this guy. At your age, you mostly want to date girls so that you can develop your game. Very few girls at this age will help you with your mission. Also, you want to date girls younger than you but that is impossible or very difficult at your age so gaming girls is a bit of an uphill battle.

[–]its-mystery0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Will try to up my game with girls now

[–]its-mystery0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Have been lifting for 1.5 years. It’s Best thing an adult can do.

[–]HotN00b1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

i did this to some degree.
27, about to retire super freaking early.

the issue is that i developed a lot of hatred towards sluts. women get to fuck, sleep around, and then get your hard earned cash? the cash that you spent all your life working for and building up!

What did they do? fucked random guys.

i can't get myself to date any girls who aren't virgins, and i can't ask women if they are virgins because they usually blow the fuck up. i also will not sleep around and play the pua game, because that's hypocritical and detrimental to the current state of things.

in a few years, i will be retired and i won't have to worry about them blowing the fuck up and getting me fired or something. then i will go around asking girls if they are virgins.

[–]riggedved0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

True. Same case with me. But I have given up on virgins. I wish we could go back to the times when women married when they were 18 to older dudes. That plan just downright appeals to me.

[–]Furrealyo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This man speaks truth.

[–]recursoinominado0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hopefully when my dementia gets bad she’ll smother me in my sleep and I won’t have to live for years with terrible dementia like my father did.


[–]ThinSpiritual0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You can easily find ones that will do practically anything for you just because your dick works.


This is the truth we need.

[–]virtualvirgincake20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Stoicism at its finest

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

lmao. but this is truth.

i met a divorced 44 yr old a few weekends ago.

if you guys don't know, women get more overt in their communication past age 35... they tell you what's up upfront. all the "I'm an innocent little princess" bullshit comes to a complete stop.

this broad told me... I'm just happy when i meet a guy who can still get an erection. then she took care of her biz.

[–]Sonny_Luna0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like you're on the road to victory, my friend.

And happy birthday, fella.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If you are in shape at 50, you are probably in the top 1%. You will have your pick of the litter of women 45-55 years old

If you're in shape at 50 you can easily get hot women 30+. I'm not far off that and can get girls <30.

[–]modSlyGradient[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Consider yourself pointed, +1

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Gobraves440 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

“You can easily find ones that will do practically anything for you just because your dick works.”

Doesn’t viagra make everyone’s dick work in their 50s age +?

[–]1ForeverNandrolone7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’m on TRT(tren replacement therapy) so I fuck like a champion that’s a little different than Viagra. 😊

Honestly, lots of guys won’t do what’s necessary to maintain their virility even taking something as benign as Viagra.

[–]DeathByToilet-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just reading this comment makes me happy. Im loving the humor as well ha.

[–]ramfex21-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

You know the saying ‘As a man thinketh so is he’ . Assuming you are going to get dementia just highly increases your chance of getting it. Study dr liptons work.

[–]mustache_mustang-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I salute you, old timer

[–][deleted] -4 points-3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Retire in Asia and be a sexpat... Man, how pathetic. Enjoy living your "alpha" life.

[–]1ForeverNandrolone0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What “alpha” life should I be living?

[–]goomerall377 points78 points  (1 child) | Copy

Early retirement man. Get out of the rat race and enjoy your life man. Screw marriage.

[–]VigilantSmartbomb4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Narcissist45690 points91 points  (4 children) | Copy

Retire early in Thailand and bang whores till I croak.

[–]opper-hombre133 points34 points  (3 children) | Copy

Watch out for the lady bois!

[–]SupremeBBC16 points17 points  (2 children) | Copy

I mean, one could be into that lol

[–]eagerlearner73218 points19 points  (1 child) | Copy

You certainly are..

[–]VigilantSmartbomb1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

His name checks out lmfao

[–]Jackrabbit71018 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

Recently quit my job 20 year factory job to pursue music, spent years putting things into place. I honestly don’t know what I’d do without music! More of the same. Trying to avoid relationships, can’t see my self ever getting married!

[–]JaYogi41 points42 points  (3 children) | Copy

Become Keanu Reeves

[–]RuleTheOne10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Lol He is a perfect example. Plenty of money, large house, dog and respect.

[–]geo_gan1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

He was behaving a bit strange on graham norton show recently though.

[–]DeBrawnMD2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Amen to that

[–]128bitworm41 points42 points  (24 children) | Copy

50 years on earth. Single. Solitary for as long as I live independently. Once I need constant help and supervision, am packing up and leaving.

[–]jm517 points8 points  (5 children) | Copy

When I can't look after myself any more, I've told my kids to park me in a 3rd world brothel.

[–]128bitworm0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Hmmm 🤔...never thought of that! Probably coz I got no kids. But then, also, I like a simple life, and I have observed that women are a complication.

[–]jm510 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Women are a complication and kids are a real pain when they get to their angsty teens.

Access visits worked out well for me. Get to see the best of them and let their mother handle most of the angst. Then have a beer with them once in a while when they're adult.

[–]128bitworm0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

It takes a lot of though, planning, patience and fortitude. A load of effort I don't want to partake in. So I 'enjoy' family life through my few married friends. That b nuff 4 me!

[–]jm510 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Not for me, I coasted and in BP terms, it just happened.

Other peoples kids can be good fun. Their parents see them every day. Friends of the family see time lapse snapshots of them.

Being a favourite uncle is cool job. No paternal responsibilities, set boundaries and allow them total freedom within those boundaries.

[–]128bitworm0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Don't know if am the favourite uncle. I am rather old fashioned regarding behavior, manners and discipline. So the kids can't quite get away with stuff their parents overlook. But that aside, I try to spoil them as much as I can.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (17 children) | Copy

Packing up and leaving - what do you mean?

[–]SupremeBBC34 points35 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like he's gonna off himself

[–]SuperiorConstantine21 points22 points  (9 children) | Copy

Leaving earth

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (8 children) | Copy

Where tho

[–]thrownawayisland16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy

You know, the farm. Where Lassie went.

[–]DeBrawnMD0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I thought we could visit whenever we want....

[–]RememberWhenEye3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy

65 and out club. There's no point to life after 65.

[–]antoniofelicemunro5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

BS. 65 is when you start pumping your body full of drugs and roids to keep your youthful vigor. Once that’s not enough, then it’s over.

[–]Enlightened_Chimp1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Im def getting on dat TRT therapy. No reason not to when you're that old.

[–]JarHeadJoseph-3 points-2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Super expensive

[–]Enlightened_Chimp2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Im gonna be rich so thats ok

[–]128bitworm10 points11 points  (4 children) | Copy

Exactly what it seems.

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Go little miss sunshine and just blast heroin until the mortal coil unravels

[–]128bitworm1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Haha! The mortal coil will unravel anyway. I prefer to see it happen with my own eyes in real time. Thanks for the suggestion though!

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

My bad, I meant when you're like 65 and ready to cash in

[–]128bitworm0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No worry. One way or another, it will happen. Cheers 🍻

[–]rebuildingMyself3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Opting out

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev40 points41 points  (3 children) | Copy

I'm 51. My OLTR1 is 23. I date/mate/plate women in their 20s, with an occasional exception for women in their early 30s who have kept it Right, Tight and In The Light.

As for a game plan, you can start here: CorporateLand

Skip down to the "After Hours" section.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Wow thanks

[–]DeBrawnMD8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

For anyone else reading through this thread,

Vasiliy's content is some of the best.

Read and heed

[–]foomasters1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks for linking CorporateLand. This is definitely sidebar material!

[–]Ricky469 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

Aging is not bad I'm 59, never married, no children. I make a great living in a scientific field. It keeps my mind sharp and the work is interesting. I date women much younger than myself. I am not sorry I did not settle down. My life is my own. There are mostly positives.

I would be remiss if I did not mention the potential downsides. As I get older I realize I need some people I can trust. My parents have passed. I gave my financial power of attorney to a friend I've known for 40 years. He is trustworthy and wealthy himself. I also have a good attorney who drew up the papers. I have another friend whom I've entrusted with my medical proxy. She is a friend of thirty years. What happens if I get sick must be addressed. This is the pragmatic side of the red pill.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Seems like mostly upside though. What field are you in?

[–]Ricky4691 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm in physics research. Very interesting and I get to see new discoveries being applied to technology.

[–]Ryabemo1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

So... are we close to finding a cure for aging?

[–]Ricky4691 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

LOL I wish we were. Believe it or not while we have discovered more about aging than we did before, being able to "fix" it is another thing. Most organisms are designed to live a certain life span then die. This fuels evolution. Mutations that cause an organism not to reach reproduction age do not get passed on but after reproduction the mutation matter less. Aging makes sense to keep a population healthy. The problem is as sentient being humans are fully aware we age and die, that sucks LOL.

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten38 points39 points  (23 children) | Copy

Same as my current plan. I have a 22yo bisexual OLTR and we are on the search for a long term shared girlfriend.

Until we find her we are fucking hot girls together. It's awesomely easy when she is the initiator via social media. We basically DM hotties in our area after I find them on various apps.

I will put a kid or two in OLTR one day if it keeps going the same as now. I'll put a paternity and residency agreement together with my lawyer so everyone is taken care of if we split or someone dies. I may allow for a wedding.

Stay plan is the go plan. Continue being awesome.

[–]party_dragon4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Is it an open LTR, or one-sided open (you fuck other girls), or closed “we only fuck other girls together” style? Approximately how old are you?

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'm somewhere around my 30s

We date and fuck women together, but once they're vetted I'll take one or more of them when she isn't around, she just needs to know they're vetted first.

I am the only dick, and OLTR only fucks other women when I am present.

[–]Narcissist4569 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Goals af.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

That’s amazing man, I’m jelly

[–]virtualvirgincake21 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Having a bisexual gf looking for another girl for your group is like having a car that drives itself. That is the goal imo

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy

I may allow for a wedding.

Between you and a girl or the girls themselves?

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten1 point2 points  (8 children) | Copy

Me and OLTR1, but no legal marriage.

I'm pretty sure we'll have a "girlfriends table" if that ever happens. I'm throwing a party for July 4th and we're inviting several of them plus usual guests. I'm hoping 3 to 5 of them get horny and we have a little orgy in my room. I'll write a field report if it happens

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy

Me and OLTR1

If you do proceed with adding OLTR2, OLTR3, etc., aren't you worried about them feeling excluded, or of "lesser" status?

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten4 points5 points  (6 children) | Copy

No. They know they're not first but we don't shove it in their face and basically treat them like a girlfriend. Also, my frame is rock solid and they all love following the lead of a masculine guy. Pimp hand strong basically.

They get all their needs fulfilled and OLTR does most of the heavy lifting in the feelz department.

Keep in mind we would only "girlfriend up" legit bisexual women who can develop an emotional relationship with OLTR, the "bi-curious" and ones that mostly want to fuck me are pretty much plates and don't last long.

Examples / In Practice

OLTR is blackanese and has been with me for 6mos, OLTR for 2. Upgraded herself through excellent behavior and asked for/worked for the partial commitment. We brought in other girls right around the time she asked for an upgrade. OLTR genuinely enjoys watching me dominate & make other women orgasm - in her words, it's hot because she can see my sexuality in third person instead of first. Porn in real life with a submissive kink.

Main GF has been around 2mos. She is 24yo half white half Afro-Brazilian. She is 5'9" and thick with excellent fake tits and an ass you would expect from the ancestry. Fun, outgoing, highly energetic and open minded personality which jives with us.

She has regularly been the "girl you do a 3some with" in her friend group and always felt there was something missing from that arrangement. The idea of a legit polyamory setup intrigued her, so she proactively "liked" the Hinge profile I created for us and I closed her from there. OLTR likes her because she is much bigger than her and we dominate the fuck out of OLTR together, and then I fuck GF into submission after (usually). GF also gives great massages and that is one of the few things OLTR is trash at. GF is also fascinated by OLTR's ability to squirt and we have been teaching her how, slowly. They can all squirt btw.

Side Pieces/Works In Progress

Red headed slut. Turning 25 soon. She was my plate before this went down and not really OLTR's type but she will Do. Literally. Anything. OLTR has a mean girl streak sometimes and likes to push limits with this one.

Recently-ish divorced Jamaican. 26yo. Award winning smile. Hadn't fucked a girl since college/before marriage. She is interesting because she is so innocent/out of the game. We basically reintroduced her to having fun.

18yo college rower. Black with a tight body and amazing curly hair. She's 18 so there is literally no personality yet. We kinda caught this one as a fluke off Tinder and OLTR convinced me to try it out. We'll see how it goes.

I just realized I am fucking a lot of black girls recently.... I was on the Latina tit for awhile.

[–]AwkwardEmpath1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I've always thought about having a relationship like this. It's great to see a real example of it. I'd like to be where you are in about 3-5 years. Definitely going to be following your content for advice, thanks for sharing man.

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good luck and remember you need to keep that pimp hand strong

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

and OLTR does most of the heavy lifting in the feelz department.

WRT the other girls and making sure they feel included?

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yep. Anxiety and comfort tests are way easier to deal with when they can just vent feelz directly at each other in womanese. OLTR is very self confident and secure which helps.

Tbh though anxiety episodes are pretty rare. The one multi week lasting gf we lost was starting an LTR, she didn't freak out or anything. She just thanked us and moved on.

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[–]TheScarletScholar0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is what I'd call an ideal way to do it. Damn.

[–]BlackjointnerD0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Hey man Im in a similar situation but the girls me and my ltr find always flake..Any tips on how to get a girl comfortable with a couple? Have talked to about 3 girls who act interested but then don't follow through

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

Step 1: Create "woman seeking woman" profile on Hinge and Tinder

Step 2: Look sexy as fuck together, with a mix of photos of you being awesome and her looking hot

Step 3: explicitly state in bio you are looking for a 3rd and "open minded" about where said 3rd fits into your love triangle

Step 4: get your dick sucked and balls caressed by two girls at the same time

[–]BlackjointnerD0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Lol Bro Iv literally done all that..guess I just have to be patient, my city might be the problem and have to just deal with the spectrum of my area

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Swipe Online Dating is 90% photo quality. If you're not getting matches you're not that hot or your photos suck.

[–]BlackjointnerD0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I get matches its just the following through part...could probably improve picture quality though, we are a 8.5/10 in the looks department..we both have banging bods. Maybe its in the personality? We get girls in group chats and stay flirty and sexual, set up dates but they lose interest i guess

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I game them by myself because OLTR is so hot she never had to try in her dating life, I don't trust her skills.

I make it clear I am running the show in my relationship and on the date. I basically game them like I'm single and put the moves on. The only Serious Business question I ask them is if they've done it before.

The best possible answer is they've done 3somes but that's not enough. Disqualifying answers are "I'm just curious/not sure" and its derivatives. Warm but not hot answers are things like "haven't done it before but excited by the idea".

Like all OLD there are gonna be flakes. That's life. Seems like you're getting matches but had some flakes and could have closed 1 or 2 better.

Be your masculine self and reel these freaky bitches in

[–]ElvisDimera0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

What is a paternity or resident agreement? Why would you pay for the woman after you split, willingly? Isnt that voluntary alimony?

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Paternity basically prenegotiates child support (can never escape that legally).

Residency or cohabitation agreement establishes that she has to gtfo with her stuff if you break up with her. It's complicated but essentially tries to eliminate "lifestyle" and "common law" issues.

John Cena had a public spat over his cohab agreement if you want to Google a real example

[–]Davidskylarkk10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Keep some cocaine in the pocket...

[–]Narcissist4567 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Please elaborate.

[–]Musicgoon8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

I got married at 27. It blows goat! Divorced raped and 1kid later. It's my opinion you're not missing much. Now, in my 40's I take good care of myself and look really good. I have no problems dating younger 20's plates. I enjoy my lifting and making music. Working on my mission and travel. I enjoy women and multiple relationships. And I'm much happier and fufilled.

Two people sticking together out of obligation sucks. Having women spend time with you because they WANT you and you choose them, is a much healthier feeling. I choose my life. I make no apologies for who and what I am. I spend time and energy on building myself. Not living for a woman.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks, this is what I always suspected, glad to hear it again.

[–]whuttupfoo3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

I pick up chicks with my friends who are in their 40’s. Note the average man that age can’t do this. These guys are extremely successful in life, millionaires. But that’s what my life is going to be like in my 40’s. You don’t need to be a millionaire to live like that, you just need not be blue pill.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

if I was a millionaire, I'd be fucking slaying chicks everyday. NOT because of the possessions, but because I'd be in total control of my schedule, which means I'd be doing things that keep my mood up all day.

[–]amwfhunter8 points9 points  (23 children) | Copy

If I get too old and ugly I'll sugar daddy it. But right now I'm closing in on my 40s in a few years and I still look young so I'll keep this and may be get some Botox.

[–]Monkitail5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

It’s crazy how easy it is to sugar daddy it. Got a friend of mine that looks like Danny devitos version of the penguin. The fucking guy eats like him too.

Anyhow dude sold a company for 8 million plus. Hes slaying these industry sluts left and right.

[–]amwfhunter9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

Well because it is the most honest type of relationship . It is basically prolonged or even exclusive prostitution.

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[–]amwfhunter6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Who knows ,who cares. But chicks are dumb either, if you are her top priority she might not want to piss u off. It is all about frame and respect. Paying her is just to be able to rid of her without issue.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (18 children) | Copy

What do you do to stay young looking? Exercise, avoid certain foods?, sleep cycle?

[–]amwfhunter19 points20 points  (17 children) | Copy

Exercise, eat healthy, 7 hours of sleep at least. Intermittent fasting, early morning workouts, routine chiropractor and massage. Regular medical and dental. I'm also Asian so it helps. Genetics.

[–]Indythrowaway22 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

Can confirm. Dad is Asian. Mom is Irish. I look fully European though. Asian women can sometimes spot it because of my eyes. Point is, I'm 41 and women think I am under 30 years old. I also hit the gym with frequency. I get approached by women 25 and under a bunch these days. They are very forward. Some of them are looking for a SD to solve all their problems and are hustling.

[–]amwfhunter3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

I am in mid 30s, I dress like I'm in my 20s so they just think I'm a trust fund kid or something and I never tell them what I do for living. But never sd position, they legit want me to be bf.

[–]Indythrowaway22 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

I work in the ghetto every day. Seems like everybody's got some kind of hustle out here so my worldview gets a little distorted.

[–]amwfhunter11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

No I think all girls have an agenda. Whether they like you because you're hot and they cheating or want u for cash etc. I'm a surgeon and I own another side business that I operated before I went to school which coincidentally also paid for school. so I never know what they want. A good looking girl can disarm most defences but my mind is so far gone red pill that I am skeptical even after their actions prove otherwise. So not distorted at all. It is better to be pessimistic than optimistic given what is potentially at stake when you account for north American society, feminism and this metoo shit

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy

What exactly is intermittent fasting? Is it eating all your meals within a 7 hour window or something?

[–]bestsparkyalive3 points4 points  (10 children) | Copy

A maximum 8 hour eating window

[–]amwfhunter2 points3 points  (7 children) | Copy

I do a 6 to 8 hour eating window

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

So it’s literally just eating 100% of your meals within 6-8 hour window?

Damn I’m pretty close, I eat most of my food, 80% within that window.

[–]Red-Nerd135 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

That's basically it. Shove the rest into that window & you're good to go.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I will shove it

[–]themasculinemonk0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

You can even try the Snake Diet. You go 48-72 hours of fasting then have a 500 calorie meal, then continue fasting for 48-72 hours until you reach your goal weight. . Depending on how fat or skinny you are. After you reach your goal weight you either do OMAD or do alternative day fasting or eating two days of calories in one sitting then do 48s. It also incorporates dry fasting. It's suppose to kill all viruses and eliminate all the bad cells in your body which makes you younger or eliminate excessive skin.

[–]Monkitail5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Maybe when I’m cutting. I’m still bulking brah

[–]StopGaming12340 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

So you basically want to day

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Can you do IF while bulking? Or is it best left for cutting phase?

[–]bestsparkyalive1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It’s usually left for cutting. You want to always be in gain mode when you’re bulking

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don't get married, idiot.

Don't be a sugar daddy, either. Your guidance and masculinity are far more valuable to modern women.

Learn game, stay in shape, and die in your own bed at age 90, with a belly full of a wine and a 21-year-old girl's mouth wrapped around your cock (a la Tyrion).

[–]Roto2esdios6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

hookers. In big quatities

[–]ultimatrev6664 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, that's what I'll probably do too, OP. I'll wait until I save enough from working as a software dev for the next 15 or so years then start sugar daddying it up.

[–]s96g3g23708gbxs867342 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Honestly I don't understand what you mean. I can have a woman to love and children without marriage...

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Like polygamy?

[–]DeBrawnMD3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just not getting married.

[–]mytime557 points8 points  (7 children) | Copy

My plan is to live fast and exciting life so that I don't reach that age, I don't plan on reaching that age so If I somehow do I'm not sure what I would do

[–]KaiSmashSmashSawmash14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]StopGaming12344 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I hope you do steroids if you are already determined of that lifestyle.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

What are you doing exactly to live that way?

[–]mytime553 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Taking risks

[–]bigdaddypapadad7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

Like no condoms?

[–]StopGaming12342 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I mean I don't use condoms either. Yes, I am crazy. So far nothing bad happened.

Keep in mind I am not pulling random club or street chicks - that would call for HIV.

[–]mytime55-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yep 100x better with no condom, always pullout though

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[–]Thizzlebot1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

In the words of Bam Margera "do whatever the fuck I want". Obviously not ruin my life like his but you get the point lol

[–]Yougotredonyouagain1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck bitches, relax on beach. Eat, drink, sleep.

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K181 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

To all the guys thinking 40's is old...hold off on that thought. Ask yourself where that story has come from? Is it all those dad bod, beta, depressed fucks you see around?

Don't believe the hype. I'm 37, so not too far off, and do much better now than my 20's. Women in their 20's aren't a problem. Seriously, keep lifting, keep learning, keep swallowing the pill and MAINTAIN YOUR FREEDOM. Follow a mission, a path. Men in their 40's are either going to go completely downhill, or become exactly what most women want. A leader, experienced, emotionally in control, secure, dominant, and bucket loads more status than her.

A lot of the shit you younger guys are trying and hoping to do, we've done, or at least I know I have.

The '40 years is old' line, is just a massive shit test. I've NEVER had it be a problem with any woman in their 20's. Ever.

[–]whiffofass 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

I'm starting to feel old at 29

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K181 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

wipe that shit. For me, once I hit 30 I realised I was still young as fuck. Hell, I've known older guys who told me any thing below 40 is still a boy.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Guys who aren't getting married

This should be ALL guys.

Marriage is not a safety net for men, it's a massive liability for no benefit.

even pre-RP it seemed like a huge loss of freedom for what appeared to be a little reward.

You're wrong about the "little reward". There is ZERO reward. It's all costs: her strengthened position isn't just a potential loss it's an ACTUAL loss. She negotiates from her position of power, this translates into a net cost as you negotiate from a position of weakness. Look, it's just fucking dumb for men to marry.

Yes, if the BP world was real, I’d love nothing more than a wonderful, beautiful, loyal woman, but I’m old enough to know that doesn’t exist under most circumstances.

That dream doesn't exist under ANY circumstances.

The next best thing I think is to become wealthy and be a sugar daddy of sorts.

How about wealthy and hot.

Maybe just marry a 20 year old in my 50s.

Do not fucking marry. What's the advantage??

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks man, you’re right

[–]MarioBuzo3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

but I’m old enough to know that doesn’t exist under most circumstances.

It does exist. Just be richer, and have a solid game to always be on top.

The next best thing I think is to become wealthy and be a sugar daddy of sorts.

That's a nice recipe to be fucking miserable. Have some money and be a stud, you can get a nice chick easily then. Even after 40. Just don't be boring, a gimp and unhealthy.

[–]DiskKiller20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don’t know why some people obsess about marriage. You can have a fine long-term relationship, with kids and all, without sacrificing your finances. So when I’m 40, I might settle down, but not get married.

The marriage part in the deal doesn’t strengthen the bond in any meaningful way. It’s the opposite - it actually incentivizes your woman to leave you by offering her (your) money.

[–]Gordon-G-5 points-4 points  (10 children) | Copy

Use half age plus 7 yrs.


50 / 2 = 25 + 7 yrs = 32 woman good with 50 yr old man.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Anything of legal age, IDGAF as long as she’s game

[–]Gordon-G2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

yes bang the biscuit but never marry

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

I think you mean half your age minus 7, so 50 / 2 = 25 - 7 = 18.

[–]DeBrawnMD2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol Life goals

[–]StopGaming12342 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Mine seem to never get older and always stay 18.

[–]xddm26535 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

my favorite place to pick up girls, is a high school graduation

[–]KrustyKrabReject1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy


[–]MarioBuzo-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Lol I like that.

[–]Gordon-G1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It’s an old Chinese formula

[–]Alek-Reason 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

Their plan is to be a loser that is the shame of their family.

[–]teefa2 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Are you a Muslim by any chance?

[–]Alek-Reason1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

No, I'm a atheist. Pretty anti Islam actually.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

My family doesn’t care about already, and I did everything they wanted me to do. So fuck them

[–]Alek-Reason2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

The death of family is the death of our culture.

We need men and women to come together, working side by side raising kids.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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