Do you guys really just ignore it when girls send you selfies of themselves?

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June 4, 2019
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I’ve seen guys in here say that when girls send you pics of themselves it’s just to get attention and or compliments, and to just ignore it. I’m asking because I met a cute girl and she got my number and was texting me and sending me pics of her the next day. She’s currently in a diff city so I’ve pretty much been ignoring most of the texts because I suck at texting if it’s not for logistics. Is this hurting me more than helping?


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Title Do you guys really just ignore it when girls send you selfies of themselves?
Author fuckboychadlmao
Upvotes 65
Comments 55
Date 04 June 2019 02:38 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/240741
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/bwjjgk/do_you_guys_really_just_ignore_it_when_girls_send/
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[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev215 points216 points  (18 children) | Copy

If they aren’t nudes, I reply ”Too many clothes.”

[–]_Ulan_73 points74 points  (3 children) | Copy

Neymar is that you ?

[–]Jabbermouth32 points33 points  (2 children) | Copy

I understood this reference. Hope he beats the case.

[–]ahackercalled4chan12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

[–]alphabachelor17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good as she was a lying slanderous thot.

[–]TBtgoat23 points24 points  (4 children) | Copy

Nice

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (3 children) | Copy

Nice

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy

Nice

[–]ThatKidinAfrica13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's why you are a Senior.

[–]QawL4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Damn. I needed that so much before.

[–]Throwaway12352345212 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I know it’s a late response, but I just want to thank you for sharing this advice. It worked for me last night. I’m new to TRP and this is my first break through. Thank you man.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’m glad it worked for you.

[–]NeuroBoss311 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This line is money

[–]UriahTheChosen57 points58 points  (1 child) | Copy

Hit her with the double tap “haha” if you have an iphone.

[–]BurntYams2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

holy shit LOL.

[–]Yashugan0025 points26 points  (2 children) | Copy

you'll find that if you don't react strongly, they send a lot more. they want that reaction, the chase it. They demand it!

[–]EvolvedVirus2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I had a weird one. Sent me a photo with another guy (some random fat guy). Sooo weird.

Anyway so I just complimented the guy's suit.

[–]ZeppKfw0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I love your friend's suit (No Homo Tee hee)

[–]OilyB27 points28 points  (2 children) | Copy

Ignore her, just comment on her surroundings.

[–]xddm265310 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

"Nice lamp"

[–]ZealousFeet6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Indifference, me gusta.

[–]Rage815020 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

Recently had a plate send me a selfie of her at work wearing a white shirt and jacket. I responded with "nice outfit but how low does that v-neck go?". Within 5 minutes I had a fresh nude.

[–]amwfhunter63 points64 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think you are looking too much into it. The rule typically is to ignore but in the early stages if you have definitive plans to fuck her, I would say give her just like 5 to 10 percent attention until u stick your dick in that. But when and if u do that just know your time frame window is limited.

[–]babybopp28 points29 points  (0 children) | Copy

You are part of one in a group text. Ignore her or escalate

[–]_Ulan_33 points34 points  (0 children) | Copy

She wants validation. Period. You can either comment on something in the picture : "I've got the same bras", "You hair looks curlier on this pic", "Pretty face doesn't know how to clean her room"

Or go straight : "Someone want some attention here ?"

It also depends whether you are trying to fuck or going for a plate/LTR. For a fuck you would keep teasing her, but for a P/LTR you can start to teach her what you like/don't like.

[–]SalporinRP9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah because 95% of the time they're sent to you and 15 other guys.

Only time I don't ignore is if the caption is something that could only be sent to me.

Example: I'm texting with a girl and letting her know I'm doing something specific tomorrow and she snaps me a pic asking how that thing went.

[–]Gordon-G8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Indifference is the difference...act aloof, dgf attitude. Always want to have the power, you’ve got it now, don’t give it away by chasing her, giving her compliments/attention/validation.

[–]TFWnoLTR5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

The ones who sent selfies I ignored wanted to meet and fuck sooner and more often.

The ones I replied to with compliments and requests for more would flake and show disrespect on dates and would have taken too much effort to close.

Just my 2 cents. I now ignore all selfies or comment on the background rather than her. It's working pretty well.

[–]Pluglord1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The ones who sent selfies I ignored wanted to meet and fuck sooner and more often.

The ones I replied to with compliments and requests for more would flake and show disrespect on dates and would have taken too much effort to close.

Holy fuck this sounds so trp logically but so fucked in reality. This coming from a guy who had the luxury of being able to learn this from other guys and not the hard way.

[–]Anacondainahonda7 points8 points  (6 children) | Copy

Roissy was right about birthday cat emoji.

[–]That_Deaf_Guy8 points9 points  (5 children) | Copy

Elaborate.

[–]Thor-Loki-12 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dude, just how many other guys is she sending pics to?

Figure that out, then figure why she's doing it.

Then get her to send nudes.

[–]awkwardtouching 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

I'm assuming you don't mean nudes? Regular selfies I ignore completely.

Still, you met a girl from another city and you plan on meeting up? Either move quickly or use this opportunity to work on your texting game. You can't just ignore a girl for 3 months then try to show up in town and bang her.

Bang her once, then you can start longer periods of ignoring her because you'll have that one experience to reference and keep things exciting.

[–]fuckboychadlmao[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

When I gave her my phone to add her number she hit the call button to get my number too I guess. After that night I was planning on waiting 2 days to text her but the next night she texted me and asked if I was okay from the night before (I was super drunk), with a pic of her. I replied the next morning and after that there was too much time in between texts. I assumed she probably took an ego hit from me waiting so long to reply. I barely texted her that day and accidentally left her on read. I know I look like a dick to her right now but I’m trying to figure out how to respark the situation and plate her. She only lives an hour away.

[–]LilLoserFreny0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yup, it’s just attention seeking behavior on their part.

[–]blonderbot0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

What if they ask to see your piks first?

[–]xddm26533 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

🍆

[–]ChesterRickman0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Ignoring is the best reaction. Like shit, I've found out letting a bitch wonder is the best thing you can do. If she doesn't like you in the first place then it's going to be difficult, but shit's left up to chance if the sparks are there.

[–]thegoldengoat190 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

By ignore, do you mean leaving her on read? Or by responding with a selfie of your own, or commenting on her surroundings?

[–]ChesterRickman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Leave her on read and then after some time continue as if she never sent it. In my experience this is when they start sending them more and more often trying to get a reaction.

[–]Endorsed Contributormallardcove0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If not ignore, criticize

[–]Xerexes38690 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's awkward if the girl isn't beautiful. It just becomes a chore and I just send her a 👍

[–]CrimsonShiv0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Don't read into it too much (if you can help it). It doesn't 'mean' anything (at least for you anyway). Go meet more girls!

[–]the13thmonk0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

yup

[–]Fulp_Piction0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The rule of 2/3, but probably 1/3.

[–]geo_gan-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Never got a sexual selfie sent to me in my entire life. But then again I don’t have a life.

[–]Idris007-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Old plate of mine had an outburst at me because I used to reply to her nudes hours later with dull responses. She had a low self-esteem issues so I nexted her



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