"Don't put the pussy on a pedestal." We've heard it time and time again, but what's it mean? How do we prevent the pussy from becoming pedestalized? Gentlemen, we understand that sexual strategy is amoral, and must come to terms with true subconscious male sexuality, buried under millennia of social conditioning. We know from this forum that true subconscious female sexuality is hypergamy driven: select for and fuck the top x% of men in terms of SMV by rejecting those who fail to demonstrate such value. Women will take their own female SMV percentile: y%tile and only seek men who are >y%tile.
But what's the male sexual strategy? We can describe female sexual strategy in one sentence, certainly we can do the same for men.
Male Selectivity is Evolutionarily Bogus
Selectivity is a female strategy and male selectivity is only the result of societally encouraged monogamy. Because of marriage, designed to curb hypergamy and now crumbling, you've gotta find "the one" so be choosy. Listen you goddamn horndogs. It's been scientifically concluded that testosterone is the only active hormone in the body that controls for sex drive. Female libido enhancement includes interventions such as increasing the sensitivity of the vagina and taking medications that will improve their mood making them more likely to have sex but neither of these treatments actually increase libido. Women who want their libido directly increased take testosterone. Yup. Plain and simple.
Testosterone Baby
We have on average 20x the amount of testosterone as women. Many have said women want sex for the attention, the validation, it makes them feel sexy, because it feels good, and because it can be used to secure the aforementioned and resources. If you had a very very small appetite or none at all, you'd still eat food, sometimes even gorge, because its enjoyable. It tastes good, you can do it with friends, it feels good to eat. But you wouldn't be fulfilling a physiological cry for something profoundly necessary. Thats the difference between male and female sex drives. Women enjoy sex, men enjoy and have a big appetite for sex. Women don't have that baseline perpetual horniness we experience.
This dramatic disparity in hormones and sex drive is nature's intent for man spelled out. Respond to your sex drive by fucking a lot of women. Fuck as many as possible. Get in tune with that drive and let it guide you. If you have so many women at your disposal that fucking all of them would get in the way of maintaining your SMV, be a little choosier. That only describes an extremely narrow band of men on the SMV spectrum, so until any of us or you are a alpha among alphas, focus heavily on quantity (abundance) then filter from there.
The Male Sexual Strategy Spelled Out
Male Sexual Strategy: Allot time and effort to developing SMV and spinning plates precisely such that your line of direct progeny produces the most successful line of progeny themselves. Your job as a man is to maximize your SMV and to spawn SMV through quantity and quality lays. Since the female strategy is selectivity, the alpha male is he who acts such that he can, and is on a mission, to fuck all the women. No woman is off limits, they are all opportunities for progeny production and in real terms, all opportunities will be exercised.
You've Been Fooled: Female Fuckboy Protesting
Monogamous society has brainwashed us from thinking abundantly with women because its obnoxious, haughty, misogynistic, promiscuous, toxic, and "disrespectful" to women to see them as sexual opportunities and pursue them en masse. HAHA. Seems like only women get to follow their sexual strategy which ridicules any men below them and which devalues 80% of them. Very respectful so to speak.
Alpha male shaming is a shit test and an applied force by women to collectively filter out guys who are only "doing alpha" until the first sign it doesn't work. The fake alphas who are only alpha if it works every time, not the men who ARE alphas. Who do you think you are? Thinking you can just fuck all these girls sleeping around behind their backs breaking all their hearts? Notice carefully: women shame the men who are fucking all the women, for fucking all the women. It's paradoxical. Women don't shame betas and incels to their faces or in the public forum. They're perfect orbiters, they don't want that messed up. Women shame alphas to see who will hold frame on their rakish lifestyles. Women shame, ward against and cry fuckboy about the same men they want and engage with the most: the men who fuck the most women. If promiscuous players weren't attractive to women, they wouldn't be promiscuous players. Being a promiscuous fuckboy and player is actually benevolent to women because you're the exact kind of man woman want and enjoy spending time with as evidenced by the most women choosing to fuck and spend time with them. Dissolve any guilt you have about being a player and "just using them" because female fuckboy protest is never true. The Female Fuckboy Protest that creates cognitive dissonance to this truth is always a shit test, whining that they're not getting the alpha cock, or whining that they want the alpha cock to themselves.
HB Snobs
Just as a test: quit the HB bullshit. Hear me out. Stop thinking in a binary wouldn't bang/would bang paradigm. Start focussing on being attracted to female energy, to women, to sex and less to their individual attractiveness or value. The HB 8-10's will come when you have a platoon of HB 3-7's to fuel your social and sexual momentum. There are virgins who turn their noses up to HB 3's who would gladly rock their socks. Thats a scarcity you simply need to fuck a fatty to get rid of. Guys go several months at a time without at lay turning their noses up to HB1-7. Just go fuck some girls its always better than nothing and more is better than less.
Undifferentiate
I've said in the past treat every girl like an HB 4-6, which is good advice, but even better advice is treat and see every girl as the same. Stop looking for hotties and start looking for and pursuing sex. Fundamentally, any form of pedestalization, establishment of leagues, and alpha female approach anxiety stems from an HB # mindset. Seeing one girl as better than the other and the other worse than the first. When you undifferentiate and start pursuing sexual energy and opportunity without inner game consideration of your worth in relation to hers or her worth in relation to other women, she will sense that she's on no pedestal and her value is determined by her willingness to engage sexually, not how hot or otherwise valuable she is. Her only way to gain and secure validation from this you to deplete your abundance by addicting you to the comfort of her pussy and sexual energy. Sex is a bribe to hoard the alpha cock and validation.
It conveys an ultimate form of abundance, outcome independence because she has no value yet, direct engagement with man to woman energy because you're not approaching women for that which pedestalizes them: who you "really like" (pedestal), but for what you actually want which is sex. Focus on the game and the sex, not on the individual girl herself. You can learn more about a girl and her individual value plucked from a cabinet of 6+ other plates. Its important and should be a goal to get the women you really like (HB 7-10), but women don't fuck men who treat them like HB7-10's, which is why the system should be discarded to focus on the mindsets that will actually get you in bed with HB7-10's.
Application: This is 10X Gaming
Imagine for a moment walking into a bar and thinking in terms of fucking all of the girls there some way or another (#close). Because every girl is a target, none of them are. Your approach will be totally different than if you mentally targeted some cutie you pathetically fantasize about over a redbull vodka before nervously talking to her 30 min later. Guilty. Every time you get mid-game oneitits (a disease of civilized monogamous society) think: do I want to fuck that girl or her and everyone other girl here. Every girl you talk to is further social proof to every other girl there that you are selectable by a large number of women. Expand your frame of reference and aim to cultivate routes with literally every girl there. Even if you don't have the time, or end up not finishing the task, the mindset will lead you to the lays you want. Imagine being flirty and cheeky with chick 12/45. At this point you've built the sexual energy, social momentum and inner state, (wild manic confidence), of fucking 45 women whether tonight or number closing and next daying. You're going to murder the set. What's a set of rejections when girl 12/45 leads to girl 13/44 and girl 14/43. 3 rejections in a row is basically meaningless and you can have fun getting blown out because you have a pool of 12 non rejections to go back to at any time.
Conclusion
All of this will happen if you delimit your abundance by undifferentiating your view of women, focus on enjoying the process/ vibe of game and pursue sex and sexual energy rather than women you've, by definition, already pedestalized.
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