I have this little shitty white dog that lives in my house. My wife took it in as a rescue dog. It’s a maniac with all kinds of anxiety issues. When people came to the house, she would lose her shit and think my wife would be murdered. At times when we first got her I had to put her on her back and rub her tummy to get her to chill the fuck out. Getting angry and yelling when she had a barking fit didn’t work at all. Dogs bark, you can’t get mad.
I planned a few vacations this summer and didn’t tell her about it until recently. I do all kinds of shit and don’t tell her. This is pretty new and hard for her because I really DNGAF if she likes where I wanna go, we are doing it and it’s going to be fun as fuck. I also reject her for sex or stop in the middle of sex regularly. This was the only power she ever had in the relationship. I put her fantastic little pussy on a pedestal and would go to almost any lengths to keep my dick wet. Now that I have an abundance mentality it’s easy to say no to sex I don’t want. The night before I stopped another sex session and went to bed. A lot of non-compliance and shit testing. It was a power struggle and it was important that I held frame and didn’t get butt hurt. I was tired, so I passed out in about a minute.
Dogs bark and women flip out. You can’t get mad at them even if it’s annoying at times. Yesterday wife had a nice little flip out session because she has no frame and is feeling a huge power shift combined with leaving for the day etc. She was trying more power grabs that morning, none worked. I packed everything up and planned to take the kids so she could have some alone time. She said she was coming. I told her she had to apologize for her behavior and promise to be good if she wanted to go. She was bitchy like my 10 year old but complied. A few minutes later she had a full melt down. I had to pin her up against the wall and hold her face and force her to look into my eyes. I told her I loved her and kissed her. She kissed me back and cried. I made her look me in the eyes again, holding her neck and hair by the scalp so she couldn’t move and inch. I told her to tell me that she loved me. She told me she loved me and hugged me while sobbing. Iv'e only done this type of thing in bed, never outside but it worked wonders. After a minute I let her go and she ran upstairs to go finish doing a load of laundry so we could leave. Her attitude totally changed and she was back to being my happy submissive little wife. She was in a perfect mood the whole day and everyone had a good time.
Same shit the next day though. She turned me down for morning sex. I went to make coffee and read. 30 mins later she texted me to come up and fuck her. I said no. 30 mins later she came down and sat on the couch and asked me if I was “mad at her”. I laughed and denied it. She asked to come sit on my lap. I told her she had to straddle me. I moved her shorts aside to check her pussy and she was soaking wet. I told her to go upstairs so I could fuck her. I filled her up with cum and she has been happy and compliant the whole day. In fact, at church she asked permission to go to the bathroom during the sermon and I replied “You are an adult.” Then 10 mins later she said she really had to go and I told her she should. She laughed and said “Oh, I thought you meant to hold it because I was an adult. I am basically a high functioning child.” She is now embracing the idea that she is just a little girl who wants to have fun and has no coping skills or emotional strength. She knows I am unshakable, strong and can be her oak. This makes her feel safe and also very horny.