A quick field report. The short version of how we met is basically me joking around when I saw her in the gym about Arabic and how it sounds funny. I speak four languages so picking up some Arabic was fun. She was shy at first but when I didn't show desperation by just walking past and making some funny comment before I go lift, she started coming over to use some dumbbells etc close by me and we'd chat about random shit. Fast forward, I got her number eventually and after 3 lunch dates she came over to watch a movie, we had 3hrs because her family (she lives with them) didn't know. Strangely, the connection was solidified in the beginning because we joked about Americans and how they're so baffled when they hear someone with an accent, as if you're some alien because that's the first thing they comment about when you speak. There must not be accents in America. Both of us have been there multiple times.

She's a muslim (doesn't wear the ninja suit or cloth helmet). Lives with mom and siblings, father is not around. Full lips, big ass, nice tits, caramel skin. At first it's kissing, I had to teach her how. Then rubbing her pussy and she finding out what an orgasm is. The next time she was over, we fucked slowly because it hurt and bled on my bed. (forgot the fucking towel).

Now, it's been a few months and she can't get enough. I was brutally honest in the beginning, told her exactly the type of man I am. I like women, I like sex, will never move in with a woman nor marry or kids. Multiple times. She stayed. When she comes over she immediately takes the clothes off and we fuck like rabbits.

Her family runs with pretty wealthy families from Asia. Sounds like there are multiple guys everyone is trying to set her up with. She hates it. She loves me, goes fucking crazy when she doesn't see me for 4 or 5 days and even admits it when she's here. Willing to do anything as long as I'm happy. Tells me how all these rich guys try to buy her stuff and propose, and I"m making her cook me dinner. She eats that shit up. She'll lie to her family about going to meet a friend but shows up at 22:00 at night to fuck me. Tells me when some dude wants to take her to dinner or try to date her. I constantly Agree and Amplify and ask to be invited to the wedding so I can wear a skirt because I'll be the first gender fluid guy at a muslim wedding. She's baffled as fuck on why I"m not jealous. She knows I like women and constantly would try to get mad at me when she thinks I'm with someone else.

Point of this post is her words when I asked her why she doesn't just settle for one of the rich dudes from one of the families and her response was "I don't love them and never will. They're too nice. I love only you because you drive me crazy, even if you will never marry me". I also have to admit, that this is the first time I've experienced a girl being so deeply in love with me. It feels good, but I'm smart not to fall in that trap. I have 3 plates at the moment apart from her, it keeps me grounded to not be so focused on her and the feelings that arise in me.

She creates a bit of drama over text when she misses me but it vanishes when she's here. Everything on her part is in secret. Her culture doesn't matter (no sex before marriage) and religion doesn't matter (rationalizes that "god" wants his children to be happy).

A girl will fuck a guy under any circumstances...if it's the right guy.

Takeaways from this experience:

  1. Don't act needy. Open a girl wherever, make a comment but make sure you're the one cutting it short and leave with a grin on your face.

  2. If it's an area where you see her often, increase the time you wait to leave and keep chatting looking for common ground to relate to each other.

  3. Always keep it fun and stay detached. Agree and amplify the fuck out of stuff when she tries to shit test you or make you jealous. I consider it to be one of the most important skills to pass shit tests and attempts to make you jealous

  4. Always have two in the kitty (From Heartiste, RIP his blog).