To start, I'm talking to a few other women, just curious what could be the deal here/how I could have played it better. 7-8/10 Brazilian chick, 3rd date no sex so I ended the date, took her home and kept it moving but wanted to know what you guys thought of her situation/if I fucked up some game.

Date 1: took her to a private club on the ocean I am a member of for a drink and we split a meal(I normally dont do meals). Got her to my place, lots of making out(30+ mins), got a handjob, she wouldn't let me fuck. She said how she thinks I like to take things so fast.

Date 2: went for a hike then back to my place. same as date 1 but this time I got a bit further as she let me suck her tits(nipples rock hard) and I felt her pussy from outside her pants(it was dripping wet and I mentioned that and she admitted it). She still wouldn't let me fuck or get her naked. She mentioned "I know what you want."(meaning sex) and said "no sex." and that "I'm strong." I replied "I'll make you weak then." and she said "maybe." and we went back to making out.

Date 3: while confirming the date, she says she has to be home by 9:30pm to "re-allocate the rooms with her roommates" as the local college just let out for summer and she asked if it was ok with me. I made a post and TRP said to proceed as usual so I did. Got her back to my place, make out and the energy wasn't quite as good but still decent. She stops my escalation attempts. She then tells me she broke up with a guy she was dating for 4 months, 3 weeks ago and I gathered she wasn't over him. She then answered a phone call from a guy she was speaking Portuguese with for 1min. She then said it was a friend(was probably the ex). Also, she told me I am taking things so fast(again).

I then calmly said I was taking her home as she doesn't seem over this other guy and that she needs to figure things out herself. I also said it wasn't cool as she wasted my time and money(probably shouldn't have said that part). She was apologizing a bunch and seemed flustered. I dropped her off and left.

I actually legit liked this chick and she was great at kissing but I knew I had to move on with the way the 3rd date went. She didn't put out and I obviously wasn't her priority so I dropped her off and kept it moving. Not going to be her second choice. But I am curious what you all think of this? My guess is her mind is fucked up and still feels some loyalty to the other guy and even though I got her horny she didn't want to fuck because of feelings for that other guy and didn't want to fuck me if she ended up going back to him. Also, maybe I gave off some bf energy by taking her to a nice place 1st date.

What do you all think as to why this situation happened?