My last LTR was one of three plates that was promoted, after evidently insufficient vetting (4 months), I got burnt when she confessed a year into the relationship to cheating in the first few weeks of her asking exclusivity.

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I'd love to hear some approaches that you men have utilised to vet women?

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My current approach is what I use in negotiations, I ask a question that is heavy, and then use silence, women, most women always fill that silence. Some of the questions tend to be, how many partners have you had, etc.

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I also look at actions, rather than her words, so go out to an environment where it's likely another man may approach her and see how she performs.

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I'm not looking for another LTR but I know in this regard I've made mistakes and I want to improve.