I post regularly on here, but I'll throw some quick updates on numbers... 42 years old, 6'1" 220 lbs. Over 1000 lbs combo on bench, squat, and dead lift. Almost a year into my MAP.
My wife, like all women, is driven to shit test me from time to time. Before redpill, I was wishy washy at passing shit tests, but the tools of AA, AM, STFU when applicable in combination with stronger frame (I say stronger because I'm not perfect and I still need to improve) have improved my life and my marriage so much.
For all you newbies, the sidebar material and reading the posts on here WILL help you, IF you do the work. Get your mind and your body strong first... (can't stress this enough). This is the thing, you'll get to a point where you won't even have to think how to pass a shit test when you get it from your honey, you'll just be able to do it.
As I progressed on my RP journey, my wife got worse before she got better. We fell into a pattern of her being bitchy most of the time, to her having intervals of being bitchy and submissive, to her being mostly submissive (I say mostly because it's in her nature to poke the bear... she has to... it's countless generations of species survival built into her DNA. Don't hate her for that... embrace it.
Here's my question, and wondering if anyone else has seen this.... sex is frequent and good. However, after a massive bitch throwing shit test, one in which I am able to hold frame and conquer, she ends up floating backing into my frame eventually, becomes submissive, and the sex that follows is the mind blowing type sex we had when we were dating. I'm talking shit in the Sex God Method book. Most of the time, sex is good, but I found this top of the line sex comes after she seeks that emotional rush from testing me, and on some level, she absolutely gets satisfied from seeing me hold frame and submits. It seems to me that this is what she wants and needs. I believe this principle is reflected in the 16 commandments of poon.
What kinds of things (in this context) are you guys seeing in your wives and LTRs?