Unmarried 35-year-old woman reflects on her adventurous life of fun & travel : "This woman’s .. life plan is that she chose whatever made her feel good from age 18-35+, and now wants to enter into a marriage..."

dsade · 2019-06-26T18:24:30+00:00

Wait, you mean nobody wants to buy a used car from a rental agency that has had 1000 asses farting in the seats and has 300,000 miles on it?

Nushuktan-Tulyiagby · 2019-06-26T19:20:17+00:00

She has a boat load of debt from moving around, all ex's want nothing to do with her, and her eggs are drying up. When they hit the wall, they hit hard.

AnEyeForAnAye · 2019-06-26T18:09:41+00:00

You know, the next few decades are going to be really fucking fun. It's literally the frog in the boiling water. Where the boiling water is the time and the frog is... well, fucking everything. From the financial system, to the male-female 'relationships'.

Dilfy · 2019-06-26T20:11:26+00:00

She'll be fine. She'll find some loser guy to marry her, have a kid(s), then divorce him and start the cycle over again. Assuming she's not a total dog. At least she seems somewhat conscious. Most girls like her continue their lifestyle blissfully unaware for many more years...

redpillschool · 2019-06-26T18:14:46+00:00

A lot of guys reminisce about the days of yesteryear when women would save their most important asset for their future husbands.

This train has left the station. Women are always going to prioritize "feeling good" every day, every year.

The payoff for women to get married is only slightly more good feeling than not after age 35 or so, when they've squarely hit the wall and no longer court the attention they did before.

This doesn't mean we can turn back the clock. It means that marriage, as an idea and as an institution, is dead.

Your next move is determining either what your family goals are, or deciding to enjoy the decline.

If you have your sights on family, what's the next move? Finding a country where the conditions are right to lower that age-to-fun ratio for women?

Smerdakas · 2019-06-26T20:14:03+00:00

Don't hate her, she's just looking for a d̶e̶s̶p̶e̶r̶a̶t̶e̶ ̶b̶e̶t̶a̶ ̶t̶o̶ ̶e̶a̶t̶ ̶t̶h̶e̶ ̶l̶e̶f̶t̶o̶v̶e̶r̶s̶ good guy to share her life with

Avskygod0 · 2019-06-26T20:14:53+00:00

They're starting to become aware of emcelism. Funny how everything is inverse for women huh

huggyblossom · 2019-06-26T19:00:10+00:00

All the good relationships in my friend and family circle came from the mutual agreement that both parties are responsible and act as one mechanism in the long run. Women respect their man and consider the fact that if they misbehave above set boundaries everything is over.

When you have the women going full throttle to be a party girl or explore her feminism bullshit, she ends unhappy as F in her mid 30s (3-4 examples and several very close girls on that road at 30-31), because she waists her best years to have a growing relationship and discover how to act long term in a LTR (And nope 2-3 years of sex in her youth years are not a count since both parties can mutually agree to have only the fun and no responsibilities). When the girl lacks those qualities she won't find a healthy LTR.

I love my girls, but I won't give them an advise about dating/sexual life ever. I just feel sorry they will be miserable with that attitude to life. Girl power is very nice and can work up to early 40s if you have quality genes and looks, but I won't ever pick such a girl. I myself do not consider myself top notch, but I am above average in all aspects of life and I have plenty guys like that that will pick any time of the year 25-27 year old to impregnate instead of a ''better quality'' middle aged cougar.

hazelstein · 2019-06-26T19:07:49+00:00

Women SMV is like cars the newer and unused it is, the more it cost.
Men SMV is like houses/properties the older it gets, the more it becomes valuable.

No man wants to marry, a woman railed by her high school or college football team. But Every girl wants to marry a guy, who fucked a lot of women.

If the society had not made it so difficult for men to live and so easy for men to rant, what we are seeing today wouldn't be possible. Patriarchy is best for family and society.

kellykebab · 2019-06-27T01:50:01+00:00

FFS, not everyone has to get a STEM degree (and many people absolutely should not), but yes, committing to something in a serious way before 35 is a very good idea.

9of2 · 2019-06-26T23:59:29+00:00

Would she sign an iron-clad contract that stipulated that any court-awarded moneys, OF ANY KIND, (child support, alimony, ANYTHING, would immediately be refused or transfered back to the man?

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I really wan any lawyers here to weigh in and suggest any ways this may be legally possible.

winteryknight · 2019-06-27T02:57:46+00:00

Hey guys, I'm the author. Thank you for the comments, and for reading the post. I think I got the story for this post out of the WAATGM subreddit.

What I thought was interesting about this lady is her interest in marriage as a means of making herself happy, and helping her out financially.

As a serious Christian, I'd only be interested in marriage if the marriage produced some sort of return for God. As a man, it's my job to lead the relationship to produce that return, e.g. - raising influential children in a stable long-term commitment.

Looking over the decisions she made, I noticed that she had no interest in letting a man lead her in any enterprise like that. She hadn't chosen leaders. She didn't talk about investing in a man, or letting him lead. She didnt think having children or homeschooling were priorities. Obviously, if she thought marriage was supposed to produce anything important, she would have focused on it sooner rather than later. Her choosing all these other things clearly showed that she didn't see building a marriage with a man as valuable. She didn't see husband father abilities as valuable.

I just found myself thinking "there isn't anything about REAL marriage you want". She wanted fun, financial support, and to keep up with her friends. This literally has nothing to do with partnership of male and female natures a permanent marriage commitment, focused on results. It's not at all how I (at least) envision marriage.

I'm not here to make her happy, because I already have a Boss.

Mgtow_troaway · 2019-06-26T23:34:50+00:00

Don't be fooled, these are basic bitch self realizations, they aren't catalysts for change or psychological self mastery.

She isn't maturing. She had a couple of experiences in a row that made her realize she can't pull like she used to, which indicated that's she's crossed the apex of her SMV, and so now she's looking to cash out.

Is a gambler who feels like his hot streak is over and wants to cash out for the night a more "mature" gambler? Or was this all part of one process?

Notagain6352 · 2019-06-27T06:51:24+00:00

This is what happens when women try to live like men. An adventurous life is more well suited for a man, while an innocent and sheltered life is better for women

FereallyRed · 2019-06-26T22:23:25+00:00

She fought the wall, and the, wall won.

Bing_Bang_Bam · 2019-06-26T19:21:16+00:00

Even if she did married, she would still end up divorce raping some poor idiot.

Bear-With-Bit · 2019-06-26T21:32:43+00:00

This is how the lies of feminism destroy women. You cannot have it all, girls.

Theorymeltfool1 · 2019-06-26T18:58:50+00:00

No assets?? What the fuck, I’m in my mid 30s and have close to a half a million stashed away. The fuck was she doing with her time?? (That last question was rhetorical, we all know what she was doing). 🤣🤣

omega_dawg93 · 2019-06-26T20:48:55+00:00

you guys need to all buy the book "sex at dawn" and read it thoroughly.

it relates true human nature based on evolution to cultural stuff going on past and present.

my opinion... not the book's: we are in a big time decline to "life as bonobos" meaning pussy is worthless & used up, but always available. they don't care about their wombs... so why should men? the daddy doesn't matter and the village will raise the child (your taxes).

women will destroy themselves in a quest to be "equal."

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-06-27T17:09:00+00:00

So another woman, having gone out and ridden a mile of cock and given the pussy up to every Drug Dealer, Outlaw Biker and Escaped Mental Patient, discovers that "Eat, Pray, Slut" turns into "Eat, Pray, Cats."

Men: "We prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos."

Drama ensues.

itwasntme19 · 2019-06-27T08:48:29+00:00

Women live in a state of deep self delusion. They basically want as many sex partners as they can get during their best years, they want to be sluts. When the party is over they want to be respected like the women who weren't sitting on every cock they met.

Cesare_MA · 2019-06-27T03:38:49+00:00

The whole STEM circlejerk is starting to be a bit much. I’ve seen engineering curriculums/exams at your average universities; even the mentally handicapped could pass with decent marks. STEM only means something if you’re in a top 20 ranked program where the median IQ is 1.5-2 standard deviations above the mean. That’s 90th-95th percentile. Odds are this random chick never fit that profile.

Mr7FootCock · 2019-06-27T09:09:43+00:00

Modern woman are all heavily used goods. The days of pride and dignity are long gone. Marriage is fundamentally worthless knowing they are a essentially cum rags

redpillcad · 2019-06-27T11:07:07+00:00

Well, she definitely planned ahead well with one thing:

Acquiring and loving a cat

[deleted] · 2019-06-27T16:34:50+00:00

Lol the travel the world type is a special kind of slut. Why do women always feel the need to do this alone?

I know a ton of women who have done the backpacking abroad with friends or solo thing. I know very few who have done it with their SO. The funny thing is there’s nothing stopping you from traveling with a boyfriend or girlfriend. you don’t need to be single to explore the world unless your idea is really exploring international dick.

The self delusion these chicks have is absurd

Spicychickenaholic · 2019-06-27T06:23:35+00:00

A man who was interested in marrying her would have:

….told her no to sex before marriage (because the more sexual partners a woman has, the less happy she will be in marriage, and the more unstable her marriage will be).

…led her to become better at being a wife and mother, by discouraging her thrill-seeking, traveling and wasteful spending, and instead encouraging her focus on a STEM education, career and getting debt-free.

…led her to develop a Christian worldview in which she would understand the importance of marriage and children, and learn to sacrifice her own interests to love and care for others.

This author sounds like a religiously fundamental autist.. insisting your woman has a STEM? Wtf? Encouraging her to make as much or more money than you and having her be self sufficient??

I dunno wtf this is, it's not a good idea and not particularly red

Turcey · 2019-06-27T00:40:04+00:00

Get this stupid christian shit out of here. Religion is the ultimate blue pill and goes against everything that the red pill is about. We confront and understand the harsh realities of the world around us, not bury our heads in the sand for comfort.

Plus this girl has already come to most of the same realizations that this stupid article talks about. The article is dog shit pandering with nothing of substance to say.

chazthundergut · 2019-06-27T06:48:16+00:00

My life's plan was to work like a donkey until I turned 35 and start doing whatever makes me feel good at age 35+

I didnt even have to wait till 35. Life is amazing.

EdmondDaunts · 2019-06-27T05:38:06+00:00

It is interesting how women respond and reflect the econosocial aspects of life. They are hardwired to judge resources.

Screwing around until 35 is analogous to living on debt and beyond your means only to have the bill come due. This last generation only managed to build wealth (if even that) in their 30s and 40s.

The middle class (which used to be populated with more young families) was hollowed out in the last 20 years (thanks Alan Greenspan) and it is continuing today.

Women get this intuitively. Probably as they are larger consumers.

ArborioRice · 2019-06-27T16:22:14+00:00

So, who are the men in this group of marriage-minded men? How do you recognize them? Marriage-minded men are interested in marriage because they want to lead a home. They will have invested a lot of time learning how to protect others, how to provide, and how to debate and lead on moral and spiritual issues. Marriage-minded men see the marriage enterprise as a way of advancing the causes that they care about most.

Dare I say this is typical tradcon delusion. The "marriage minded men" are the same meek betas who play by the "rules" hoping to snag one of these broads, only to find themselves googling "why won't my wife fuck me" after a few years. Your marriage minded man--devout christian or otherwise--couldn't protect or lead himself out of a paper bag. Happy Wife, Happy Life! said every married churchgoing man ever.

At the very least some--SOME--of these men are waking up to the idiocy of the modern strong, independent woman looking to find herself.

Lateralanouncer · 2019-07-01T03:06:00+00:00

Lmfao. I’m 40 and woman in the 30s are like hot potato. Pass them on before you get burnt.

5etho · 2019-06-26T21:04:14+00:00

lol, i stopped reading when ChRiStiAn VaLuEs pop up in the text