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Unmarried 35-year-old woman reflects on her adventurous life of fun & travel : "This woman’s .. life plan is that she chose whatever made her feel good from age 18-35+, and now wants to enter into a marriage..."

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Title Unmarried 35-year-old woman reflects on her adventurous life of fun & travel : "This woman’s .. life plan is that she chose whatever made her feel good from age 18-35+, and now wants to enter into a marriage..."
Author redpillschool
Upvotes 422
Comments 154
Date 26 June 2019 05:47 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit TheRedPill
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/243492
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/c5sxiw/unmarried_35yearold_woman_reflects_on_her/
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[–]dsade368 points369 points  (30 children) | Copy

Wait, you mean nobody wants to buy a used car from a rental agency that has had 1000 asses farting in the seats and has 300,000 miles on it?

[–]Theorymeltfool1171 points172 points  (1 child) | Copy

Ayy I’d buy that for a dollar!

Wait, these women still expect men to take them on dates and pay for things?? Nope, not interested.🤣🤣

[–]dsade136 points137 points  (0 children) | Copy

Come on, man...hurry up and impregnate her twice so she can raise them for a couple of years (sort of) and divorce rape you in time to get back to whoring it up at the bar on Weekends without having to do crap like "work".

[–]throw_this_far_awayy92 points93 points  (18 children) | Copy

Please give used cars more respect. I'd actually consider buying one of those.

[–]dsade33 points34 points  (12 children) | Copy

I don't care if it IS a Porsche and USED to be top of the line....

[–]AspiringMurse9627 points28 points  (1 child) | Copy

I quite like the used Porsche analogy. They are beautiful and fast cars (generally), but they're still expensive to maintain (drains your money) when they get older.

[–]Mistbourne14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Problem with that analogy is that Porsches can retain their value decently well if properly maintained, and even go up in value with older models, haha.

[–]FreeRadical58 points9 points  (9 children) | Copy

So you'll settle for being beta bucks for a girl if she was hot...

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

You may have read his post wrong. That or I read it wrong

[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire215 points16 points  (7 children) | Copy

Used (but quality, vetted [like new, but half off at least!]) car = good. Used woman = bad. Therefore, original metaphor bad.

[–]MoDuReddit6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

I fucking hate car metaphors.

[–]Modredpillschool[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

I fucking hate car metaphors.

Agreed. Car metaphors are like when people try to compare a Mustang to a VW Beetle. Sure, they both have wheels but...

.. ok I'm sorry.

[–]themackattack902 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

The original metaphor wasn't bad, you're just ignoring the most important part of it. A Porsche with 300,000 miles on it is always less valuable than a brand new Hyundai. Now if it was a Porsche with 35,000 miles on it, then you'd be correct, but this article isn't about a 27 year old female trying to cash in right before she hits the wall. It's about a 35 year old who is well past her prime.

[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire21 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Hmmmm.... I think actually that many Porsches with that mileage are in fact more valuable than the Hyundai, provided they undergo a bit of restoration. Now I have heard of vaginal restorative surgery, and of course, women can get all kinds of work done, but we all know that it's not the same thing. Also, you have classic cars and such, that hold value. There are a vanishing few number of naturally beautiful women who took care of themselves, were pampered by beta bux hubbies, and thus can hold onto their good looks and youthful appearance for quite some time. They are preferable to slags that let themselves go and fugly women, but you can't have kids with them. But if you're looking for a sex partner, they at least can't get pregnant, or at least, not very easily without medical interventions.

[–]NohoTwoPointOh5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

But you can't restore that broken soul...there's the difference.

[–]Nicolas06312 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

There not many cars like that. And for womens, that's the same. There really are women that are still extremely attractive at 45 and incredible ar 35. They do exist, saying the contrary would be wrong. But that one woman in that age bracket out of 1000.

[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Honda civics and acuras hold their value pretty well.

[–]TheImpossible115 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

Used cars are the best, someone else takes the depreciation hit and you get a good deal.

[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire23 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Yeah, seriously. Who would want a to buy a used car for twice the money and who knows what's wrong with it. The parent comment picked the WRONG metaphor.

[–]throw_this_far_awayy8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

The thing is, no matter what is wrong with a used car, you can fix it with enough time and ingenuity. With a broken female the odds of fixing what ever is wrong there may cost more then you are willing to pay after lawyer and court awarded payments after you are done trying to get her to be someone that is reliable.

[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire21 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Nicolas06311 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Like many cars, it may also just be not worth the trouble.

[–]Tutsks18 points19 points  (2 children) | Copy

Fuck you I still want an AE86 JDM, TYVM.

[–]Brutal131 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Drifting, mate?

[–]Tutsks2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy


Delivering Tofu uphill both ways.

With style

[–]Modredpillschool[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

I know, it sounds crazy...

[–]henriquetomio1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Bluepill cucks will buy it for sure

[–]dsade0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That was kind of the point of my follow up comment. Sure, maybe she used to be an 8, but now she's an old model with hundreds of thousands of dick, err miles on it, while she still thinks she just rolled off the showroom floor.

[–]KingOfPomerania0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's a lot worse than that. Rented cars don't cost you (at least) half of your assets when the rental agreement comes to an end!

[–]italianorgan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

And that would be the only car they are allowed to drive

[–]Nushuktan-Tulyiagby69 points70 points  (1 child) | Copy

She has a boat load of debt from moving around, all ex's want nothing to do with her, and her eggs are drying up. When they hit the wall, they hit hard.

[–]dsade37 points38 points  (0 children) | Copy

Women like this are like eggs. OverEasy.

[–]AnEyeForAnAye200 points201 points  (25 children) | Copy

You know, the next few decades are going to be really fucking fun. It's literally the frog in the boiling water. Where the boiling water is the time and the frog is... well, fucking everything. From the financial system, to the male-female 'relationships'.

[–]tunsku71 points72 points  (4 children) | Copy

Not gonna be fun. It is hard to enjoy the decline when you love the country and would rather not have the decline.

[–]AnEyeForAnAye39 points40 points  (1 child) | Copy

The fun part I meant as sarcasm, it will be very ugly for a LOT of people

[–]NightFire45-5 points-4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Every decade talks about the "decline".

[–]1scissor_me_timbers0010 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because it’s been happening for decades

[–]ripp10282 points83 points  (13 children) | Copy

To me it's already fun. I'm seeing all of those women that flaunted me in which they usually told me I was not up to them or that I wouldn't be successful in life (which is the opposite), being "walled" and telling me if I would enjoy going out with them. As always my answer is "NO"

[–]Zdeneksfilter72 points73 points  (8 children) | Copy

It's crazy how well men age, and how fucking awfully women do. By 28-32; the dynamics are pretty much overhauled from what they used to be at 19-21. By 37 y.o, the man is almost like a god (if he's looked after himself well and avoided marriage). The 37 y.o woman, on the other hand is... well; most men worth their salt refuse to take her seriously.

I think college often presents accurate mirroring of how life unfolds. As a freshman; you're struggling to get attention, unless you're exceptional off the bat. Freshman chicks on the other hand get tons of it. You get a bit of a foot hold in the attraction market by 2nd year... and your equivalent chicks lose a bit of it. 3rd year, more of the same happens on both sides. By final year; you've filled out and are attractive enough to the point where you can exclusively game nubile freshmen girls. The 4th year women, on the other hand, - the same ones who brushed you off when you were a freshman - are badly blown out of the water by their younger peers and are pressing you on all sides for any form of attention. Like you said... NO works out pretty well here.

[–]GirTheRobot 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

I had a coworker who is in her mid 30s, overweight and stuck with kids and a husband she's no longer attracted to tell me, in reference to my dating life, that I'm approaching 30. I didn't have the heart to tell her that for men it's completely different. I just smiled and shrugged it off. Poor thing.

[–]Zdeneksfilter20 points21 points  (1 child) | Copy

She wouldn't understand it if you told her that 10 years from now; you'll be just like she was when she was 19/20... that you're about a full decade away from hitting your prime (looks-wise, financially, and in just about all other ways). In fact; she'd likely report you to HR for misogynistic views... or something.

[–]ripp10226 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes. The power of saying NO is amazing.

I'm not using it because I enjoy being bad to someone, it's the ability to simple refuse something that is indeed stupid and without sense.

[–]antariusz17 points18 points  (2 children) | Copy

I’m 37 in a month and on pace to earn around 185k this year. I would not have believed you had you told me that 13 years ago when I was reading “the game” and trying to learn pickup. I was hoping I’d be able to kiss a few girls and maybe fall in love someday.

It’s an insane difference. I didn’t go to college but maybe the analogy will work for other guys because I don’t know what WOULD have convinced 24 year old me what is possible.

[–]Zdeneksfilter7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

I would not have believed you had you told me that 13 years ago when I was reading “the game” and trying to learn pickup. I was hoping I’d be able to kiss a few girls and maybe fall in love someday.

Tell you what... "The Game" by Neil Strauss was was what led me to TRP. When I read it at 21/22; I knew fuck-all about pick up and TRP as a whole. Nothing. I was fruity beyond belief at the time, and my idea of wooing chicks was to impress them with gifts and remark at how lovely they were. An older male friend outright told me one day that I that I was batting far below my level with women and that I was a fool for wasting my good looks with average women so repeatedly. My response? "B...B.. But god made us equal, and I'm in love!"

The game changed my life. Today; most of the stuff within it is pretty much elementary level... but without it; I'd likely be an overly nice wuss, fat around the gut and married and locked down to an average woman like 90% of my peers are (I'm 10 years younger than you, at 27, and I just started my first real business).

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hence why women should try to lock down a man by their mid 20s.

Yes if you’re a 30 year old woman who has taken care of yourself you’ll be able to get a date. But almost ALL leverage you’ll have in that relationship is over and has shifted to the man. Only once married can the woman regain power as most men wilt to the constant shit tests and frame tests

[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire22 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

And how do they respond to that?

[–]ripp1020 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

They get angry. they tell me that it's against nature so I have to procreate and provide as that's my job. It doesn't matter what are my desires in life.

[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire22 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sure, but why would it have to be with them in particular? I mean, if you just don't "feel" the chemistry, how could you be expected to procreate with them? Why, it would be unnatural! Now, if they were that 18 year old cocktail waitress with a killer bod who flunked out of high school, it would be a different story! But that's just who you are attracted to! You can't help how you feel! It's not the washed up 40 year old who's the problem, why it's you and your human frailty that compels you to only want to breed with young, attractive, healthy women!


[–]Endorsed ContributorKeffirLime9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

Men have been sacrificing their inherent strategies for centuries. This is pretty much the first time in the history of civilized society that we are able to execute it freely. Great if you're in the top 20%, miserable if you're not.

[–]5Imperator_Red0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Alpha men have been sacrificing their inherent strategies, by limiting themselves to one woman. Beta men benefited greatly from societal controls that spread the pussy around.

[–]throwielaca 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

> the next few decades are going to be really fucking fun.

Its already fucking fun. I have many successful professional women in my twitter feed, approaching 40. They beg for a date. Literally, beg for anybody. Its horrific to see. Absolutely none of my 40-year old friends beg for a date. They are all married or having 20-30 year-old girlfriends.

[–]Dilfy 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

She'll be fine. She'll find some loser guy to marry her, have a kid(s), then divorce him and start the cycle over again. Assuming she's not a total dog. At least she seems somewhat conscious. Most girls like her continue their lifestyle blissfully unaware for many more years...

[–]Protocol_Apollo23 points24 points  (2 children) | Copy

Depends on whether she’s realises her options or not.

If she tries to find her “alpha bucks”, she will get just keep getting pumped and dumped.

If she realises she has to settle, she’ll try to find her beta bucks. But even betas can be apprehensive about marrying a 35 year old.

Either way, she’s playing a losing game. She’s already 35, if and IF she finds a partner say in the next few months, it will take a few months for them to become serious. Then at least few more months /a year for the engagement. Then a few more/a year for the actual marriage. Then they can start family planning- the kid will take 9 months to grow.

She’ll end up having a kid at roughly 39 (assuming she still can )at the best which is still extremely pushing it

[–]KingOfPomerania2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

If she realises she has to settle, she’ll try to find her beta bucks

It's funny how women who's SMV/DMV is like 3 or 4 at this point define dating someone who is a 4-6 (and that's being conservative) as "settling"!

[–]silent_dominant0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She needs the kid before she gets her beta bucks. Unless she cheats on him and carries another man's child

[–]n8dawwg6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Can't upvote this enough. Women unlike men can still find someone who will provide for them. He won't give het any tingles, but will provide for her mooching ass.

[–]Modredpillschool[S] 157 points158 points  (20 children) | Copy

A lot of guys reminisce about the days of yesteryear when women would save their most important asset for their future husbands.

This train has left the station. Women are always going to prioritize "feeling good" every day, every year.

The payoff for women to get married is only slightly more good feeling than not after age 35 or so, when they've squarely hit the wall and no longer court the attention they did before.

This doesn't mean we can turn back the clock. It means that marriage, as an idea and as an institution, is dead.

Your next move is determining either what your family goals are, or deciding to enjoy the decline.

If you have your sights on family, what's the next move? Finding a country where the conditions are right to lower that age-to-fun ratio for women?

[–]IRunYourRiver20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

A fine plan for a family in 2019 is either offspring without marriage or kids and marriage and an ironclad prenup. Of course all of this assumes the guy has enough frame and Red Pill awareness to realize that he is entering into a medium-term contract with the express intent of having kids. Take care of yourself, be alert for the inevitable signs that it is over, and have the belly to kill the puppy when needed. And - be a great father and role model to your kiddos.

[–]2johnnight8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Women are always going to prioritize "feeling good" every day, every year.

Yes and no. There is the pleasure-seeking personality type that does it, and these people make up double digits of the population. Pleasure seeking men and pleasure seeking women. Millions and millions of them.

[–]Cavendishelous1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Everyone loves pleasure. The issue is that women have an excuse to constantly seek pleasure guilt-free. There is an entire narrative about how “empowering” it is for a woman to seek pleasure, because when she sleeps with hot men or refuses to settle on a career it is “sticking it to the patriarchy.”

[–]5Imperator_Red0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Your next move is determining either what your family goals are, or deciding to enjoy the decline.

Been thinking about this and still have no idea what I want to do, or what my end-game is.

[–]Smerdakas47 points48 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don't hate her, she's just looking for a d̶e̶s̶p̶e̶r̶a̶t̶e̶ ̶b̶e̶t̶a̶ ̶t̶o̶ ̶e̶a̶t̶ ̶t̶h̶e̶ ̶l̶e̶f̶t̶o̶v̶e̶r̶s̶ good guy to share her life with

[–]Avskygod0 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

They're starting to become aware of emcelism. Funny how everything is inverse for women huh

[–]russian_nigger9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

i have no idea who billie ellish is, but every basic bitch on dating apps has some dumb ass song by her in their "anthem".. that's when i know to swipe left.

[–]Awxen9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

1000 would be too low a number to describe Billie Eilish's cock stare.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Capitalism needs that culture to empower these women to spend spend spend and take on debt. She obviously took it too far...

[–]huggyblossom43 points44 points  (1 child) | Copy

All the good relationships in my friend and family circle came from the mutual agreement that both parties are responsible and act as one mechanism in the long run. Women respect their man and consider the fact that if they misbehave above set boundaries everything is over.

When you have the women going full throttle to be a party girl or explore her feminism bullshit, she ends unhappy as F in her mid 30s (3-4 examples and several very close girls on that road at 30-31), because she waists her best years to have a growing relationship and discover how to act long term in a LTR (And nope 2-3 years of sex in her youth years are not a count since both parties can mutually agree to have only the fun and no responsibilities). When the girl lacks those qualities she won't find a healthy LTR.

I love my girls, but I won't give them an advise about dating/sexual life ever. I just feel sorry they will be miserable with that attitude to life. Girl power is very nice and can work up to early 40s if you have quality genes and looks, but I won't ever pick such a girl. I myself do not consider myself top notch, but I am above average in all aspects of life and I have plenty guys like that that will pick any time of the year 25-27 year old to impregnate instead of a ''better quality'' middle aged cougar.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

or explore her feminism bullshit, she ends unhappy as F in her mid 30s (3-4 examples and several very close girls on that road at 30-31), because she waists her best years to have a growing relationship and discover how to act long term in a LTR

Can confirm. I knew a girl who wasted her entire 20s and early 30s not doing anything to build a meaningful future because she was worried her beta orbiters might kill themselves, never occurred to her that if she was worried about this, maybe she shouldn't lead guys on in the first place. Now she's stuck looking for a BB to settle down with after hitting the wall. Female hamstering is a mental disability. Sad.

[–]hazelstein58 points59 points  (7 children) | Copy

Women SMV is like cars the newer and unused it is, the more it cost.
Men SMV is like houses/properties the older it gets, the more it becomes valuable.

No man wants to marry, a woman railed by her high school or college football team. But Every girl wants to marry a guy, who fucked a lot of women.

If the society had not made it so difficult for men to live and so easy for men to rant, what we are seeing today wouldn't be possible. Patriarchy is best for family and society.

[–]etucker5469 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

Tom Leykis constantly uses the Car metaphor when comparing women.

[–]prestidigibator5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

The best part was always the women calling in to tell him he is wrong and ruining men. That and flash Friday.

[–]hazelstein-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

good analogy. yet so correct.

[–]TheEgyptianConqueror9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

Men age like wine, women age like milk

[–]hazelstein5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

LOL like milk you know milk expires after 3 days

[–]Next_Flow10 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

No man wants to marry, a woman railed by her high school or college football team.

Some of you are in your own world and get zero outside perspective I swear. I'd take exactly zero notice if a girl had sex with a few high school athletes, or for that matter "railed" by all of them

[–]hazelstein0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Everyone has their own choices. Its negative points for a girl if you decide to marry her with that situation.

[–]kellykebab13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

FFS, not everyone has to get a STEM degree (and many people absolutely should not), but yes, committing to something in a serious way before 35 is a very good idea.

[–]9of2 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

Would she sign an iron-clad contract that stipulated that any court-awarded moneys, OF ANY KIND, (child support, alimony, ANYTHING, would immediately be refused or transfered back to the man?


I really wan any lawyers here to weigh in and suggest any ways this may be legally possible.

[–]5Imperator_Red0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’m not a lawyer but I can tell you that this is not possible. The courts would not recognize such a contract.

[–]Next_Flow10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

So imagine going to court and telling the judge carlos owed you money for a kg of cocaine. They wouldn't help you in that situation right? Courts don't honor illegal contracts, I'd be incredibly surprised if anyone can sign a contract saying no to future child support payments, and the fact we aren't hearing about this sort of contract on MGTOW should be enough proof

[–]winteryknight20 points21 points  (9 children) | Copy

Hey guys, I'm the author. Thank you for the comments, and for reading the post. I think I got the story for this post out of the WAATGM subreddit.

What I thought was interesting about this lady is her interest in marriage as a means of making herself happy, and helping her out financially.

As a serious Christian, I'd only be interested in marriage if the marriage produced some sort of return for God. As a man, it's my job to lead the relationship to produce that return, e.g. - raising influential children in a stable long-term commitment.

Looking over the decisions she made, I noticed that she had no interest in letting a man lead her in any enterprise like that. She hadn't chosen leaders. She didn't talk about investing in a man, or letting him lead. She didnt think having children or homeschooling were priorities. Obviously, if she thought marriage was supposed to produce anything important, she would have focused on it sooner rather than later. Her choosing all these other things clearly showed that she didn't see building a marriage with a man as valuable. She didn't see husband father abilities as valuable.

I just found myself thinking "there isn't anything about REAL marriage you want". She wanted fun, financial support, and to keep up with her friends. This literally has nothing to do with partnership of male and female natures a permanent marriage commitment, focused on results. It's not at all how I (at least) envision marriage.

I'm not here to make her happy, because I already have a Boss.

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillcad2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

What I thought was interesting about this lady is her interest in marriage as a means of making herself happy, and helping her out financially


Find a mission and marry that. If family is part of that mission, great. If not, swell.

Either way, be the emotional center of your own universe

[–]ENTPunisher 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

Here's a question. What denomination services should I attend to find a woman with an n-count lower than 60?

[–]winteryknight2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Presbyterian Church of America. Something with a liturgy, no musical instruments, and head coverings.

That's the only one I can think of, and I've been to lots.

[–]ENTPunisher 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

Don't they officially support gay marriage now?

[–]winteryknight1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

No, you're thinking of PCUSA, where the U is for Unbiblical.

[–]ArborioRice0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I noticed that she had no interest in letting a man lead her

Hate to break it to you, but most men can't lead.

[–]winteryknight2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agreed, it's the woman's job to find one who can.

[–]Mgtow_troaway21 points22 points  (4 children) | Copy

Don't be fooled, these are basic bitch self realizations, they aren't catalysts for change or psychological self mastery.

She isn't maturing. She had a couple of experiences in a row that made her realize she can't pull like she used to, which indicated that's she's crossed the apex of her SMV, and so now she's looking to cash out.

Is a gambler who feels like his hot streak is over and wants to cash out for the night a more "mature" gambler? Or was this all part of one process?

[–]Project_Zero_Betas2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

"Gambler's ruin" is a documented cognitive bias.

[–]nobody_thinks2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

that implies she was thinking.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Women are so transparent it's become depressing.

[–]Notagain63529 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is what happens when women try to live like men. An adventurous life is more well suited for a man, while an innocent and sheltered life is better for women

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed37 points38 points  (2 children) | Copy

She fought the wall, and the, wall won.

[–]nobody_thinks10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

the wall remains undefeated.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Bing_Bang_Bam25 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy

Even if she did married, she would still end up divorce raping some poor idiot.

[–]Bear-With-Bit9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is how the lies of feminism destroy women. You cannot have it all, girls.

[–]Theorymeltfool155 points56 points  (18 children) | Copy

No assets?? What the fuck, I’m in my mid 30s and have close to a half a million stashed away. The fuck was she doing with her time?? (That last question was rhetorical, we all know what she was doing). 🤣🤣

[–]Zdeneksfilter20 points21 points  (2 children) | Copy

See, that's the thing... all that talk about girl power but most of these 'ladies' - when all is said and done - rarely ever have the most important bases covered. Some of them are still lugging large amounts of student debt around by their 40s, and their savings are almost non-existent. Very shameful.

Even knowing everything else, like the fact that she's been a cum dumpster for over a decade and is washed up in just about every aspect; why would any sane guy marry a 35 y.o female and take up the 60k student loan she's left unpaid under his wing? Plus the rest of the baggage she may have?

[–]MCFiletMignon4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

cause she's the prize lol

[–]Ochialoc6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why savings when you can suck dick?

Even worst, they don't even suck dick, they only suck a loser out of his money.

[–]KingOfPomerania6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

I sort of feel sorry for women when it comes to this sort of thing. It must be hard to start at your peak and then just decline from there. It makes forward planning pretty hard, especially if you lack the mental wherewithal to take lessons from the struggles of the older generation of women.

[–]RedPill1151 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

if you lack the mental wherewithal to take lessons from the struggles of the older generation of women

In todays society they don't run into a lot of them, and the ones they do run into have been manipulated to give them the reverse advice if reality. (40's is the new 30's! Only scumbag men think a woman over 30 isn't beautiful!)

[–]RP_GatFirlzDrooL2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Half a mil? Fuck. I'm mid 20s and have maybe a networth of 20k.

I'm slowwwww

[–]Theorymeltfool15 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ten years is a good chunk of time to see your career/investments grow, don’t worry too much yet.

[–]RedPilledGodEmperor1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yep. I’m turning 28 this year and my net worth is about $140K. Got there through hard work, investing wisely and not being dumb with money. I have a feeling that most women around my age don’t even have close to that. I plan on becoming a millionaire in my 30s. Gotta get that income come up.

[–]geo_gan0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy

You didn’t save that by working in office job 9-5 I presume. Normal workers only earn enough to live month to month and fuck all savings.

[–]Theorymeltfool13 points4 points  (7 children) | Copy

Lol, yeah I did. I make a fuckload because I spent my time studying and researching my career. And I still do that even after I finished Uni. Unlike people who go out every weekend and wonder why they can’t keep their wee heads above water.

[–]geo_gan-3 points-2 points  (6 children) | Copy

You must have very high income and very little expenses then. Maybe you lived at home for free so no mortgage or rent, or have no children so no childcare or maintenance expenses. Or maybe you live like hermit spending nothing, so basically have lots of money in bank but don’t actually have much of a life. That’s only way you could be saving thousands every month. I can only manage to have a few hundred between saving and spending money a month. All rest of wages goes to other companies and people.

[–]Theorymeltfool15 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

Maybe you should ask questions and try to learn something instead of being a mysanthropic “know-it-all”?

[–]geo_gan-3 points-2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Not answering the questions I raised above then? All I hear is bragging from you trying to look down at others, saying how much fucking money you have hoarded.

[–]wowmansohacked7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

All any of us hear is you trying to make excuses for your self and hide your failures.

[–]shadedDay1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

What questions? All you did was make a bunch of statements, most of them inflammatory

[–]5Imperator_Red1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Let me guess. You only save like 6% of your income in your 401k...

[–]RedPilledGodEmperor0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly. I don't get this idiot who is attacking theorymeltfool1 and making it seem as if having half a million to his name didn't take hard work and hustle. He's trying to come up with dumb excuses for why he can't do it, while theorymeltfool1 was able to. Just saving 20%+ of your income like I do goes a long way towards building wealth. some people like geo_gan just come up with excuses for where they are, instead of coming up with solutions to improve their situation. Just trying to downplay the success of others

[–]5Imperator_Red0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It’s not that hard if you’re a single guy and don’t throw your money away on useless consumption which adds little utility to your life.

[–]omega_dawg9316 points17 points  (7 children) | Copy

you guys need to all buy the book "sex at dawn" and read it thoroughly.

it relates true human nature based on evolution to cultural stuff going on past and present.

my opinion... not the book's: we are in a big time decline to "life as bonobos" meaning pussy is worthless & used up, but always available. they don't care about their wombs... so why should men? the daddy doesn't matter and the village will raise the child (your taxes).

women will destroy themselves in a quest to be "equal."

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

I've been shit on in this sub for supporting that book before; admittedly the authors' politics get in the way at numerous points, but if you have a strong enough stomach to wade through the bullshit there are some excellent red pill lessons contained therein, even if that was not the intention of the writers.

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

so far it's a good read to me.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Oh yeah I agree absolutely. I think their methods and most of their findings are sound, but their final argument is essentially 'dudes should be OK with their women getting ploughed regularly on the side'.

[–]nobody_thinks0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

was gifted to me by an over 40 hardcore feminist world traveler who thought it was some kind of bible. that was bad enough. then the politics all over the place. barf. can someone summarize?

[–]omega_dawg931 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

basically, "enjoy the society's decline as women gain more power and control with female pleasure as a priority... meaning pussy will be available in abundance but paternity will be ignored."

the USA is becoming France kinda. look at how we are in a hook-up culture where dating & "relationshits" are dead. average men are frustrated... Chad & Tyrone are fucking even more, and betas are just lost wearing vagina hats.

younger women give up access to their wombs easily. pussy has never been so worthless... smh. the under 25 women even brag about eating ass on social media; that's where we are. again enjoy the decline...

note: I'm not finished the book yet.

question: the book was recommended to me as red pill reading material... so why would a feminist consider it a "bible?"

[–]nobody_thinks1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

question: the book was recommended to me as red pill reading material... so why would a feminist consider it a "bible?

from my impression, the book has a leftist overtone with a fempowerment undertone. women's feelz becoming a social priority, matriarchy. beta shaming. etc.

funny story. the girl who gave it to me was from a wealthy new york family and had spent most of her adult life chasing "the hardest steel" (literal quote) in places like brazil, etc. presumably she found validation of her behavior in the book's description of femininity.

i gather the red pill guys like it for its evo psych elements.

she recommended it to me several years ago and i just thumbed through it. I couldn't take it seriously given the recommendation and had never heard of it before. As someone with a quantitative background I found the "science" to be little more that larping so I just tossed it aside.

[–]omega_dawg931 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

there is good evo psych info in the book but it's also informative in other ways... I'd call it decent so far.

my big takes so far is how monogamous gibbons and gorillas have small testicles. the gibbons are monogamous and gorillas have harems; it's a patriarchal set-up; the fight to be a dad is physical and "outside."

then you have bonobos... a matriarchal setup... and a literal fuckfest as the females take on as many males as they can all day, every day. the males have large testicles (to produce more sperm) and there is no fighting a/o possessiveness; it's literally, "it's not your pussy, it's just your turn." the "fight" to determine paternity takes place inside the womb in neverending sperm wars.

patriarchy: violent, territory driven, physical, small genitals... no sperm competition.

matriarchy: peaceful, everybody gets to fuck as much as possible, non-territorial (no oneitis allowed), large testicles to produce more semen for a relentless, ongoing, internal battle in the female's womb.

humans: we are right in the middle... legislating the monogamy thru marriage contracts but failing miserably as the fuckfest takes place anyway. our genitals are way bigger by comparison but human men produce... blocker, fighter, and producer sperm cells.

this means that genetically we evolved to let the battle take place inside the womb... but that also means that our females aren't naturally monogamous and are not designed by nature to be that way.

i guess feminists want men to stop "fighting," calm down... fuck them all day every day, and let our sperm fight it out in their war-torn wombs. but who cares what they want?

I'll keep reading...

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

So another woman, having gone out and ridden a mile of cock and given the pussy up to every Drug Dealer, Outlaw Biker and Escaped Mental Patient, discovers that "Eat, Pray, Slut" turns into "Eat, Pray, Cats."

Men: "We prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos."

Drama ensues.

[–]itwasntme193 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Women live in a state of deep self delusion. They basically want as many sex partners as they can get during their best years, they want to be sluts. When the party is over they want to be respected like the women who weren't sitting on every cock they met.

[–]Cesare_MA7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

The whole STEM circlejerk is starting to be a bit much. I’ve seen engineering curriculums/exams at your average universities; even the mentally handicapped could pass with decent marks. STEM only means something if you’re in a top 20 ranked program where the median IQ is 1.5-2 standard deviations above the mean. That’s 90th-95th percentile. Odds are this random chick never fit that profile.

[–]Mr7FootCock1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Modern woman are all heavily used goods. The days of pride and dignity are long gone. Marriage is fundamentally worthless knowing they are a essentially cum rags

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillcad1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well, she definitely planned ahead well with one thing:

Acquiring and loving a cat

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol the travel the world type is a special kind of slut. Why do women always feel the need to do this alone?

I know a ton of women who have done the backpacking abroad with friends or solo thing. I know very few who have done it with their SO. The funny thing is there’s nothing stopping you from traveling with a boyfriend or girlfriend. you don’t need to be single to explore the world unless your idea is really exploring international dick.

The self delusion these chicks have is absurd

[–]Spicychickenaholic2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

A man who was interested in marrying her would have:

….told her no to sex before marriage (because the more sexual partners a woman has, the less happy she will be in marriage, and the more unstable her marriage will be).

…led her to become better at being a wife and mother, by discouraging her thrill-seeking, traveling and wasteful spending, and instead encouraging her focus on a STEM education, career and getting debt-free.

…led her to develop a Christian worldview in which she would understand the importance of marriage and children, and learn to sacrifice her own interests to love and care for others.

This author sounds like a religiously fundamental autist.. insisting your woman has a STEM? Wtf? Encouraging her to make as much or more money than you and having her be self sufficient??

I dunno wtf this is, it's not a good idea and not particularly red

[–]Turcey[🍰] 7 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy

Get this stupid christian shit out of here. Religion is the ultimate blue pill and goes against everything that the red pill is about. We confront and understand the harsh realities of the world around us, not bury our heads in the sand for comfort.

Plus this girl has already come to most of the same realizations that this stupid article talks about. The article is dog shit pandering with nothing of substance to say.

[–]Redgrin-Grumbolt4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Religious chicks are GTG, you can quickly substitute their service to god to service to you, and their families will accept your questionable faith quickly if youre strong, hard working and look after her. Show up the occassional sunday, probably hear some things that will only improve your life anyway and youre on your way. For marriage minded men, this is the go. For the pump and dunp, obvs not.

[–]ENTPunisher 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Can a you really expect a hoe to embrace your natural male authority if she won't even embrace God's? God is the ultimate alpha, he drowned the degenerates once and there's clearly more fun stuff in store according to Revelations.

[–]Turcey[🍰] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

They've been saying that for 2000 years and there will be intellectual midgets saying that for at least a few hundred more. Nothing is going to happen. No revelations. The texts will fade and future people will look at Christians how we look at ancient Greeks that believed in Zeus.

There's obviously a correlation between fidelity and religion but that's not the point I was making. The point is I don't trust anyone that wears their religious beliefs on their sleeve with anything that requires open-minded analytical thought and neither should anyone else.

[–]3chazthundergut1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

My life's plan was to work like a donkey until I turned 35 and start doing whatever makes me feel good at age 35+

I didnt even have to wait till 35. Life is amazing.

[–]EdmondDaunts0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It is interesting how women respond and reflect the econosocial aspects of life. They are hardwired to judge resources.

Screwing around until 35 is analogous to living on debt and beyond your means only to have the bill come due. This last generation only managed to build wealth (if even that) in their 30s and 40s.

The middle class (which used to be populated with more young families) was hollowed out in the last 20 years (thanks Alan Greenspan) and it is continuing today.

Women get this intuitively. Probably as they are larger consumers.

[–]ArborioRice0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

So, who are the men in this group of marriage-minded men? How do you recognize them? Marriage-minded men are interested in marriage because they want to lead a home. They will have invested a lot of time learning how to protect others, how to provide, and how to debate and lead on moral and spiritual issues. Marriage-minded men see the marriage enterprise as a way of advancing the causes that they care about most.

Dare I say this is typical tradcon delusion. The "marriage minded men" are the same meek betas who play by the "rules" hoping to snag one of these broads, only to find themselves googling "why won't my wife fuck me" after a few years. Your marriage minded man--devout christian or otherwise--couldn't protect or lead himself out of a paper bag. Happy Wife, Happy Life! said every married churchgoing man ever.

At the very least some--SOME--of these men are waking up to the idiocy of the modern strong, independent woman looking to find herself.

[–]Lateralanouncer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lmfao. I’m 40 and woman in the 30s are like hot potato. Pass them on before you get burnt.

[–]5etho-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

lol, i stopped reading when ChRiStiAn VaLuEs pop up in the text

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