Just got back from the gym this evening, and caught my girl crying on a voice message when she replied. I asked her what's happening, if you want to talk I'm ears babe. Comfort, but she went on like "Dont' really feel like talking about it" afterwards I spoke that I offered a chance to speak, and I get it it's all the pressure from family and she's waiting the graduation exams tests, but then I said it's fine, let it go. She talks and mentions that back in her 15's, she had a male friend her age who was ill from leucemia, and he died and somehow she heard a song which reminded the kid. I let her mumble and realized she probably had feelings for the boy 80% in my gut, from the tone she spoke about it and what she said, I explained to her I had a guy friend too, who I kicked in the guts once in a fight and then we moved on continuing being friends. 4 years later he died from cance. I felt sick, but that's life and life goes on, this stuff happens.

Made it clear it's fine if she had any feelings for him, as I wasn't in her life back then and it's not a big deal since the tragic happened and she lost a, friend, and let it there. Can't really go into it anymore with her as it's just wasting my time with 'dead' people. Sorry if I sound cynical or like an ass but that's life guys.

What just made me curious is why she would remember a kid who's she probably had feelings for while she's with me? I understand the crying due to the death part, and that he was getting bullied, but my gut usually tingles with stuff like this. Yeah we had a minor teasing session in the afternoon, wouldn't call it a fight and I mentioned a girl just to tease her, we made fun even tho she got a bit mad with the girl but that's it, I proceeded with my day, hit the gym go to work etc.

What's up with this situation?