So, this guy of a father kept body-shaming me. The dude has been doing this since I was a kid. No it wasn’t positive caring talk. I gain 4 pounds, he says “See? The fat in you is always waiting to come back because you were originally fat.” No I wasn’t originally fat. I got over weight once in my life for a year when I was 12. The. I got back in shape. Now every time I gain a little weight, he’d point it out. He seems to think that’s one of the most important shit in the world. If my BMI, body fat % and waist to height ratios are good and I get to bang chicks I want to bang, why the fuck should I care? Yeh yeh, fat fucks live short - that is when you have fucked up ratios. A few days ago, a guest visited us. I had never met him before. As soon as I entered the room, he said “Oh that’s my son. He got really fat”. Wow. What a perfect way to introduce.

I used to be offended whenever he or those annoying Asian relatives told me I got fat and stuff but I’ve been giving no fucks these months and I’d just laugh it off saying stuff like “Haha, yeh I’ve been getting fat. Been just eating and sleeping. Been so free. Haha” and they’d move on. I am normally slim and good looking so these obsessed fucks would lose their shit even if I gain a little weight.

I’ve been laughing it off whenever this guy told me shit but it was the last straw this evening. He again commented “Just look it yourself. You look like a woman and you’re really fat. You gotta do something about it.” So I laughed and replied “Yeah I know. Although I was obsessed with nutrition, keto and what not, it totally slipped my mind that I had to watch calories. Been eating a freak ton of meat, oil and fat.” And then he told me “You gain weight because you always eat late at night. You shouldn’t eat after 6.” Yeh fucking right, as if the calories would magically increase (Yeah yeh, it’s debatable but it’s so minor that I simple don’t give a fuck.). So I just told him “If that was true, kids in Ethiopia and starving countries would have started eating always at night. Well, I did swallowed lots of calories as I’d been eating bacon and lots of fat and oil these days. I actually ate only a 100 gram of rice and 50 grams of meat today” AND he said “You’re just giving excuses. That won’t be enough. Only working out heavily will get rid of your fat.”

It’s funny the guy who’s giving me fitness advice is the same guy who’s been fat as fuck half of his life, thinks microwaves give cancer and MSG is dangerous. So, before I got angry and slap the fuck out of his stupidity, I just left.

Had a great day at work, my business was growing. This fucking ruined the happy vibe. I’m not hurt or anything - just pissed and annoyed. What should I think of to get back in a good mood again?

FYI, they kept nagging me to move back in so I moved back in. Now I’m moving out. I’m sleeping in my office. Even my office is bigger and cleaner than their flea infested house as they never take care of the dogs..