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I think I failed a stupid shit test this morning?

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canbelboy
July 2, 2019
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I think I failed a shit test this morning. The problem is that I don't know how I could have handled the situation differently. Since being MRP aware (6 months), I have been applying a lot of stuff, without much success however. One of the things I'm trying to do is 'lead' more, in the sense that I am taking her out on unexpected dates, dinners, drives etc. She's not always liking that, because it puts me in the driver seat, not her. Last week, she mentioned a movie she would like to go watch. So this morning, I arranged a babysit for the kids later this week and I texted her:

ME: "Hey! On Friday evening, we're going to the movies together!'

HER: "I'd rather have you ASKING me this instead of just giving me an orderlike that"

I was so thrown off by this response that I answered:

ME: "Hey honey, this Friday, if your shedule allows and if you could make the time, could you please please please join me for a movie? Please???"

HER: "I'll check my availability"

I feel like I have failed a major test and walked right into her frame again.

Any comments?


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Title I think I failed a stupid shit test this morning?
Author canbelboy
Upvotes 15
Comments 24
Date 02 July 2019 03:20 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/244491
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/c8ai30/i_think_i_failed_a_stupid_shit_test_this_morning/
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[–]SepeanRed Beret20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

One of the things I'm trying to do is 'lead' more, in the sense that I am taking her out on unexpected dates, dinners, drives etc. She's not always liking that, because it puts me in the driver seat, not her. Last week, she mentioned a movie she would like to go watch. So this morning, I arranged a babysit for the kids later this week and I texted her:

You're not leading shit. You're just being a better beta, doing more stuff for her.

Do stuff you want to do.

[–]FoxShitNasty8314 points15 points  (2 children) | Copy

On Friday I'm going to the movies because I'm a boring cunt and I don't do fun action dates, have no friends and I'm giving off gay needy vibes. Do you want to come along?

Yes - great

No - do it anyway and don't be butt hurt.

[–]johneyapocalypseThe one that says "Bad Motherfucker"0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

On Friday I'm going to the movies because I'm a boring cunt and I don't do fun action dates, have no friends and I'm giving off gay needy vibes.

Lol, fox, that was good and brutal. Two thumbs up.

[–]Reject4440 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

OP, this is the right answer. Do stuff for YOU, not her; she can come along if she wants (and you choose to invite her). "I'm planning to go to Movie X on Friday night, should I get you a ticket?" is much better "leading" in this situation. Far less needy and more in your frame than what you said. This is pretty basic MRP stuff.

[–]Bushpilot81711 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Haven’t read your background, but it’s obvious you’ve got the cart before the horse.

You have to be interesting before she wants to spend time with you. Go do some interesting shit on your own or with friends.

She has to miss you before she wants to spend time with you. Spend some time away, let her hamster start to wonder where you are, what you’re doing and who it’s with.

On leading - own your shit first. Prove that you’re a grown ass man who takes care of himself, his responsibilities; then you can start leading her.

Sidebar, sidebar, sidebar. Read it, then read it again. It’s all there.

[–]ReddJiveRed Beret6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Leading doesn’t mean you take her out all the time.

This thinking is just giving her what she wants, a beta provider who is taking her out and letting her show off. Besides why would you take a crabby person like that out?

——-

ME: "Hey! On Friday evening, we're going to the movies together!'

HER: "I'd rather have you ASKING me this instead of just giving me an orderlike that"

ME: Who said I was taking you?

——-

You did fail. It’s obvious zero of you are actually researching and just reading the next popular post.

Here:

https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/

[–]CrazyLegs785 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

lol! ME: "Oh sorry! Wrong person!"

[–]stoicstephen4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy

You clearly haven't read Book of Pook.

Next time, after your frame, game and looks are 100% on point, invite her in person while you grab her ass and she grabs your guns.

If she says no, then slap that ass and go by yourself.

[–]diceblue6 points7 points  (4 children) | Copy

Guys here really like any excuse to slap ass in any situation haha

[–]stoicstephen2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's also used as an alarm clock sometimes.

[–]red88lobster2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

A good Ass slap is usually the correct answer

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Ass slap and walk away is the advanced version of STFU

[–]red88lobster0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yup . My wife enjoys a good ass slap.

[–]SoggyTrainCucked by machines3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

All I can think is that she is getting mad at you for setting up a date, that's not barking orders at all. Sounds like you got a lot of work to do.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Wasn’t a shit test. Typical case of billy beta trying to take control after a long winters nap and she’s resisting. She’s not going to give up her power that easy faggot. What happened to happy wife happy life? What she’s thinking.

You did great up until your response - AA doesn’t come across well via text.

Ignore next time, or in person say -you’re either coming with me or my girlfriend will.. wink ass slap walk away.

Once you have Chads value, frame, and cock, you can get away with that type of response.

[–]man_in_the_worldRed Beret3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

ME: "Hey honey, this Friday, if your schedule allows and if you could make the time, could you please please please join me for a movie? Please???"

I actually sort of like your AA here...

HER: "I'll check my availability"

But hers is ten times better; she "wins" this round of flirting! But if it's flirting in your frame, everybody wins, as long as you LOL and stay in your frame. Enjoy the lighthearted repartee with your clever wife!

I feel like I have failed a major test and walked right into her frame again.

She can and will think whatever she pleases; stay out of her head! You should be operating in your frame, not in hers by trying to show mommy/wife who's boss. Start by NGAF about what she thinks about whose frame is operant here, faggot.

Now when she eventually tests her frame against yours (for example by actually rejecting your date invitation), she will quickly learn that you're operating in your own frame when you leave her behind and go out anyway. This is a life-long game; don't overthink it, and let it play out on its natural course over time.

Any comments?

You're a faggot for worrying about what she's thinking here, instead of just operating in your frame and leaving it to her to figure out yours, over time.

[–]johnmic071 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yes you are in her frame. Get a life outside of trying to make her happy. In a sense, you're still letting her lead because this whole thing is about her. Plan a date you want to do and if she doesn't want to come, go without her.

[–]diceblue5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is why I'm hiking the Appalachian trail alone tonight. Wife didn't want to join me. Oh well.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like she is not attracted to you. What was your frame here with the initial comment? Was it because you wanted your wife to go with you or because you wanted to see a movie?

You got butt hurt because you arranged a sitter and made plans and then - she didn't want to go along with it. She is influencing YOUR emotions with her actions.

As a counter-example here's how I phrased going to see Spider-Man with my 10 year old. "I'm buying tickets to see Spider-man tomorrow with [10 year old], are you and [5 year old] coming?". I didn't care the answer.

I feel like I have failed a major test and walked right into her frame again.

You did. FWIW you're initial approach wasn't horrible but you fucked up the response.

ME: "Hey! On Friday evening, we're going to the movies together!'

HER: "I'd rather have you ASKING me this instead of just giving me an orderlike that"

ME: "Yeah, I'm a dictator just like Hitler. I'm going to see a movie Friday." Grin on your face, slap her ass. Conversation over.

​

What she does or doesn't do is of no concern to you. Also movies suck for a date.

[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Is it faggot Tuesday or some shit?

Yes you failed a shit test.

Your text game is shit, so fucking stop.

When you have frame, you can get away with barking orders. You sir are a grade A faggot, don't post shit like this anymore. You are going to get trounced and or banned.

[–]canbelboy[S,🍰] 8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Lighten up, bro. It's called "ASK MRP" for a reason, this was an honest question.

But I DO get your point.

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Faggot confirmed - by the way you don't actually get the...

[–]TopOccasion290 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol you're such a faggot. Your attempts to AMOG are futile.

[–]MushrooMilkShake0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like a bitch. Dump her and find someone else.



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