“A brat is a BDSM submissive who enjoys being mischievous, disobedient and cheeky to their dominant, usually lightheartedly and in expectation of a reaction from their dominant. Brattishness may be temporary or enduring”.
I was always getting butt hurt because she would fuck with me and I felt it was disrespectful. Its just my ego getting in the way because "I didn't deserve to be disrespected like that." I am still very new in this game (dealing with brats) because I just found out about it recently and /u/ReddJive has been helping me out as he is very experienced with this subject and flavor of woman.
Earlier today she texted me asking if I ate lunch. I replied that I had. She came upstairs anyway for no reason whatsoever. I reached under her dress and made eye contact with her. She resisted in a bratty way slapping my hand away saying "NO, I haven't eaten yet!" and stormed out of the room while I was grabbing after her as she left. I did it all with a smirk, knowing she was teasing me like the little bratty bitch she is. She is fucking with me! She wants me all pent up so I can smash her pussy later.
I am chatting with RJ and he is giving me some suggestions. I text her "Come upstairs." No response. So I go downstairs to find her. I go to the bathroom and she follows me in. I pee, then initiate and she says no, and explains how she is leaving or doing something but I wasn't listening. I started trying to kiss her and she resisted. I pushed her up against the bathroom wall and grabbed her by the sides of her neck forcefully. She still wouldn't kiss me. But just kind of stuck her tongue out, still fucking with me. I told her she was being really badly behaved and slapped her ass super hard. She said ow and jumped back and then hit me back. I smiled. I grabbed her again and she said I was starting to scare her, I told her she should be. I told her to bend over and she said no because she wants me all pent up and aggressive at night. She started hiking up her dress and taking off her thong. Words said "No, I don't want sex I am busy", actions said "you are so hot".
While we are fucking she is telling me it hurts and I told her "Good, you bad little girl, you fucking slut." Slapped her ass a few times while I fucked her for maybe a minute and then I juiced in her. Told her I had a meeting and went upstairs. I can't think of a time where she got wetter faster. The bottom of my shirt was soaked in her cum. Super fun.
My wife is very submissive but is still a brat. Does that change over time and they morph into full subs without the brat part?
Edit: We have a safe word. It's concentual non-consent.