Where do I go from here? 44 yo, 5'3", $1.6M, in NYC

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I make six figures, have two degrees, net worth close to $1.6M, own my apartment in NYC, am in excellent shape.

But I’m also 5’3”, ethnic, am in my mid-40s, and am thinking of quitting my miserable job.

I don’t have much of a relationship history. My longest was in my mid-30s for three years. I have a decent circle of acquaintances and am ok being alone.

But I’ve had some people close to me die lately, and I’ve felt the tug of looking for an LTR and maybe kids.

The problem is, most of my married male friends don’t speak highly of marriage. I know everyone dies alone, and you could have a wife and kids and still feel desperately alone.

I’ve lived most of my life blue-pilled. My parents have a decent marriage. But there’s always been a sort of MGTOW/red pill undercurrent to my life too.

I understand women are hypergamous and status-oriented, and that people in general operate on the basis of what they stand to gain. Love and loyalty are rare, and for most people, you should only rely on your parents for that.

I’m in NYC, where women outnumber men, and I’d love to spin plates like a lot of the dudes tout here, but I’m not some 6’3” life-of-the-party alpha male.

I know am ok looking. I get matches online. But even then, I usually can’t be bothered to go past the first date.

My age-equivalents are not hot enough to sustain my interest, and the younger ones aren’t interesting enough to do the same.

My age and wealth also means I’m not chasing women for sex (I can buy it) and I can’t realistically engage in an LTR with the fantasy that I’ll achieve the American dream of a wife and kids to accompany me into old age.

I’m interested in guys in my circumstances that have reached my stage and older. What do you recommend? What did you do?

It’s crossed my mind to move to Asia or South America, but the culture gap doesn’t really appeal to me. Eastern Europe is a possibility though, or even a smaller town in the U.S. or Canada.

EDIT: I've gotten a lot of responses to that say "travel and live!" This is why I wrote "I’m interested in guys in my circumstances that have reached my stage and older." I have travelled and lived and fair amount. After seeing some loved ones die, I've been seeking stability, and that's why the nuclear family fantasy seems much more powerful nowadays. I know the adventure mindset -- I had it a lot when I was younger. But not so much anymore, and it makes me fear the red pill endgame.


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Title Where do I go from here? 44 yo, 5'3", $1.6M, in NYC
Author Funkydirigidoo
Upvotes 153
Comments 170
Date 08 July 2019 09:22 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]preyno587 points88 points  (7 children) | Copy

Shit your 5'3" and you have the money sounds like a perfect time to do some sailing

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 33 points34 points  (6 children) | Copy

Is sailing a short thing?

[–]preyno559 points60 points  (5 children) | Copy

Yeah not a lot of overhead room

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy

ahh, I see. thanks! that's definitely an idea.

[–]glasraen1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Interesting. The only man I’ve known to sail is super tall. But idt he’s sailed anywhere except a lake.

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I thought sailors were generally regular-sized. Are there any good real-life examples? Richard Branson, America's Cup winners all don't seem like they're jockey-sized,

[–]preyno50 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You don't have to be small like jockeys to sail. it just makes life easier on a boat due to the lack of overhead room. It would make the longer races and passages easier.

[–]red_philosopher260 points261 points  (19 children) | Copy

Honestly, if you're set, rent your apartment out and hire a property management company to deal with the details and repairs. Use the income as a means to go travel a bit and do some self-discovery. Explore something new, hell, explore lots of new things. Think about what it is you really really want out of life.

You need to know what you want before you can go anywhere (metaphorically).

And if you find out that you're happy where you're at, then that's fine as well.

[–]mightyquinn47834 points35 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is a quality answer.

[–]krusecontrol9110 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

I second this. Invest, travel, and multiply your liquidity by any means necessary.

[–]scoreover1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Solid suggestion. “Travel far enough and you’ll find yourself.”

[–]curvedbymykind0 points1 point  (15 children) | Copy

What would you recommend to someone with no house, making 6 figures at 24 with decently good SMV?

[–]LiteraIIyJesus 1 points [recovered]  (6 children) | Copy

No house, making 6 figures at 25? Are you a programmer in the SF Bay Area?

[–]curvedbymykind2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

Haha you’re kind of close there. I also have a decent amount of money saved to put a down payment on a house

[–]Ill_mumble_that1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Making 7 figures at 29 here.

I was you at age 24.

Invest. Right now is a terrible time to invest in real estate in most markets. However, if you do, vacation rentals are hot.

House building is a great idea if you can get some land and put down 4-5 houses.

House flipping is a low margin joke unless you have a significant amount of cash and you can buy houses at auction. However you are likely to get fucked on auctions unless you have someone on the inside that can give you some details on the houses prior to them going up. The other way to make money house flipping would be to get a contractor license and do all the work yourself, but that breaks your back.

[–]BigDickAcademy 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

How tall are you?

[–]Ill_mumble_that1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

147 cm

[–]red_philosopher1 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy

Max out your 401(k) contribution every year, put the maximum in a Roth IRA, and retire by 45.

[–]curvedbymykind0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

I have high standards of living so there’s no way I’ll be happy retiring with half a million dollars.

What would be your recommendation for side income? Ideally I would like to make millions. I’m considering flipping houses on the side.

Also, what is most important for me at this stage in my life? Early/mid twenties, stable high income, family is stable so I don’t have to take care of them or anything. Should I focus on my career right now or getting girls?

[–]red_philosopher0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

If you want to make millions, you need to invest. Flipping houses is a pipe dream really. It's a lot of work with a lot of risk. The more you can invest now the better off you'll be later. I wish I had the ability to save the way I am saving now ten years ago. Besides, chances are anything you do on the side isn't going to net you what you are making at work.

Do the math on investment. The more you make your money work for you, the better.

[–]curvedbymykind0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

What would you recommend to invest in? Stocks? Gold?

[–]red_philosopher1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

At your age, you can stomach a bit more risk, but the tried and true is always going to be index funds. They typically outperform most professionals. Of course, if that's too boring, you can always set aside some extra cash for riskier investments. Just remember that the funds are a long term investment. Don't touch it after you've bought the shares.

Gold is generally a shit investment. It typically rises at the pace of inflation, and adjusted values reflect that. So you're not likely to lose anything, but you won't make any money either. Also, don't buy gold "on paper". Buy actual bullion if you do buy gold, stash it in a safe deposit box, and buy insurance.

Just make sure you do your research.

Edit: As a rule, the better the return, the greater the risk. The lottery is the riskiest investment people ever make in their lives.

[–]Ill_mumble_that1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

At age 30, if you invest $100,000 into the S&P 500 - you immediately will start receiving a 5% increase on your money almost guaranteed.

If you continue to invest $11,000 every following year until you are 65, you will retire with about $4,000,000.
This is an incredibly safe way to invest compared to many other options, however it also requires a lot of time in order to make your money from it. If you're already in your late 40's, you may want to look for a different option.

(35 x 11,000 = $385,000 over 35 years + $100,000 = $485,00 put in, your money increases by a factor of 9 over 35 years.)

If you can set up a business so you don't have to pay social security, even better. Social security is a fucking joke.

[–]curvedbymykind0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I’m 24, do you think it’s wise or unnecessary to wait for a market crash first before starting to invest? For instance, waiting to put 100K into S&P500.

[–]Ill_mumble_that1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Of course. But it depends on when a market crash will come. This is always the dilemma.

My prediction is that if Trump loses 2020, we will see a market crash in 2021 or 2022.

If Trump wins 2020, we will likely see a crash in 2025. That is 6 years from now. At 5%, $100,000 would net you $34,000 in ROI in that time, and you still have your original $100,000.

If you can accurately predict the crash, you can pull your money out just before the crash, and then reinvest when it is at its lowest point. Guessing the low point is also tricky and easy to miss though. Just DO NOT make the mistake of pulling money out after a crash, leave it there. The market will recover and your investment will recover too, don't pull out like some high school quarterback on prom night.

[–]AloofusMaximus55 points56 points  (5 children) | Copy

You're a few years older than me, and quite a bit wealthier (and in a very different locale).

Sounds like you're having a bit of a crisis and want to kind of latch on to the Disney bullshit in hopes of being happy. To me it seems like you need a few more close relationships (like friends/buddies/whatever).

I also think regular sex is important (and agree you're probably not going to find many appealing women in your age range). With your situation you shouldn't have any issues finding a lady in her 20s-early 30s to causally date/sleep with.

Probably the worst thing you could do is withdraw more.

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 21 points22 points  (4 children) | Copy

Sounds like you're having a bit of a crisis and want to kind of latch on to the Disney bullshit in hopes of being happy. To me it seems like you need a few more close relationships (like friends/buddies/whatever).

Thanks, this is what I needed to hear.

I also think regular sex is important (and agree you're probably not going to find many appealing women in your age range). With your situation you shouldn't have any issues finding a lady in her 20s-early 30s to causally date/sleep with.

It's been harder than I expected (It's always been hard) -- but it might be just because I'm not putting in enough effort.

[–]PimPedOutGeese22 points23 points  (2 children) | Copy

Sounds like you're having a bit of a crisis and want to kind of latch on to the Disney bullshit in hopes of being happy. To me it seems like you need a few more close relationships (like friends/buddies/whatever).

Good advice right there.

If you haven't yet read The Rational Male. And if you did skim through it as a refresher/reminder of the right perspective when dealing with blue pilled ideas.

I dont think wanting to get married and have kids is blue pilled just make sure you're doing it for your own reasons and that they align with your goals

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Thanks. I'll give that book a shot.

[–]disgruntledearthling3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

The web site is free. Check out "the best of" years 1-3. It'll change your perspective on your situation - it looks like you're at a tipping point and TRM can be effective for you

[–]its_going_down_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Might be the case because you're in NYC. As I heard it's one of the toughest locations regarding dating market.

[–]thrwy7547919 points20 points  (5 children) | Copy

I’m interested in guys in my circumstances that have reached my stage and older. What do you recommend? What did you do?

You have wealth, and hopefully, health. It's your decision what you want to do, and in terms of women, be clear with yourself about what you want.

If you've fucked around with girls, then you'll understand that there's a plateau that you hit. After that, there's no return on fucking more girls. It is what it is. Where that level is varies from one guy to the next.

Then, you can look into more long-term arrangements, which are fine. There's really only one component here that requires special consideration from you: kids.

Yes, you can have them when you're older but kids are huge time and energy sinks, and reality is, you don't have the energy of most college-aged kids. You will also lose freedom when raising them. This means that, if you're going to have them, you should consider a serious approach to looking for the right partner, which introduces another variable.

Finding the right woman to wife up, and have kids with, once again, takes time and energy. Ideally, you want one that's young and in her most fertile years. If you're not having much luck in NYC with young girls, you may have to look elsewhere. Another city, another state, another country? Who knows. However, again, time and energy is required.

Try to figure out what you want, then create a plan, and set goals to complete that plan. For instance, if you'd like to fuck around more before settling down, you can dedicate a few months to debauchery, after which you can aggressively date girls immediately filtering out those without any long-term potential. If you prefer a certain ethnicity, you could travel (since you may have the means) to improve your chances of finding someone abroad, or spread the word in your social circles that you're looking for someone, and you like X, Y, Z qualities.

Again, set forth an actionable plan to get what you want, then go get it.

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy

If you've fucked around with girls, then you'll understand that there's a plateau that you hit. After that, there's no return on fucking more girls. It is what it is. Where that level is varies from one guy to the next.

True, my n-count is past 100. Mostly P4P. It's nice, but not that important. I would be nice to have non P4P, but I suppose that's a blue pill ideal.

Again, set forth an actionable plan to get what you want, then go get it.

This is good advice, thank you.

[–]WarlaxZ1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not wanting to pay is not blue piled, it's the needing to pay rather than improving yourself to a level that you have to beat them away with a stick because you're drowning in pussy

[–]Bing_Bang_Bam1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you have relatives, you could help out raising nephews and nieces. I'd also buy a nice tiny house on wheels and small piece of land near a ski resort and ski all winter.

[–]Useeikill0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What I can say is that SMV-wise you are in good shape as you are just in your mid 30s, so you are not young but not old according to me, and have made resources and hopefully experience. Having non-P4P experiences is just fine, its a universal ideal I would say just because of how genuine a Good non-P4P feels.

However finding that good quality one is a task I am struggling with myself, as if all the loyal, smart, beautiful and relationship-ready women are either already taken with no intention of breaking up(because of their loyalty) or they are nowhere to be found. Still for you to cast your net at as many fish as possible and then to vet them strictly seems to be your best bet, along with raising your SMV.

[–]red_philosopher0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If you've fucked around with girls, then you'll understand that there's a plateau that you hit. After that, there's no return on fucking more girls. It is what it is. Where that level is varies from one guy to the next.

Yeah, it really fucking sucks. All of a sudden, you just don't care about fucking 5 girls a week anymore because it's hollow and empty. Wouldn't life be grand if that's all we had to do hmm?

[–]mindplaybyneo6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Country women are the easiest. Literally buy a property (a quarter of a fraction compare to nyc) and a franchise(coffee shop/subway) in a small town-country, and you will have abundance of women. The only competition you have are the broke small town boys who does drugs and never gotten out of their shell.

[–]beiberwholee6929 points30 points  (4 children) | Copy

I’m a guy but I’ll ride that dick everyday and you can even cheat on me if you just let me live with you. No homo.

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 36 points37 points  (3 children) | Copy

You're actually not the first guy who's said that to me. But no thanks. Make your fortune, achieve, live your dreams, don't sell your dignity.

[–]Monkitail12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

he didnt say dignity, he said butthole. huge difference, especially when we're talking about his.

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Maybe it's because I'm of a different generation, but isn't selling your butthole a loss of dignity?

[–]beiberwholee694 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

With that much money I say dignity schmignity, I’ll leave all the dignity to the poor people.

[–]Thelminator9 points10 points  (14 children) | Copy

Man, how did you make 1.5M??

[–]Project_Zero_Betas8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yield curve straddles.

[–]Plasticannihilation-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

No one.

[–]_Last_Man_Standing_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

he has 2 degrees... that probably helped...

[–]xddm2653-2 points-1 points  (10 children) | Copy

If you don't have a mil by 40 you did something wrong.

[–]f_ck_kale7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck I should probably be halfway there. At least I got these mother fucking avocados boy I’ll tell you.

[–]Thelminator4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don't know anything about that since I'm 17 but man it looks impressive to me

[–]LiteraIIyJesus 1 points [recovered]  (7 children) | Copy

What is "right" when it comes to accruing wealth starting at a young age?

[–]xddm26530 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

Everything. I'm 26 and have stocks, bonds, real estate, bitcoin. REITs are great too

[–]geo_gan3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

To make 1m by 40, and let’s say working for 20 years, you would have to increase your wealth by 50,000 a year every year. Not easy thing to do.

[–]SalporinRP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The biggest thing is either entering a field where high earnings are laid out in front of you. In Investment banking you can be making 180k+ by the time you're 25/26. In private equity you can be making 250-300k by that age.

Or alternatively you can enter a field like sales and either work your ass off with a good company that promotes from within or be ready to change jobs every 1-2 years to get more salary.

That is to build a net worth of 1m not making 1m annually.

[–]masterpiece001 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Usual rich kid acting like his family hasn't made him.

[–]askmrcia2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

This is what a lot of these redditors don't want to admit. Most likely went to the best high schools in their cities and got a lot of help by their parents.

Things happen too, such as layoffs, unexpected repair costs, medical bills, ect... To say if someone don't have $1 million by the time they are 40 sounds fuckin ridiculous, but I guarantee it's some smuck privilege suburban guy making that claim

[–]xddm26530 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck you faggot I was homeless 6 years ago

[–]xddm2653-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

LOL I have no family fucking jackass. Learn to make it on your own

[–]kaolin22414 points15 points  (15 children) | Copy

Travel, hit up Asia or South America.

Get side income flowing in and use that as your safety net.

I wouldn't recommend marriage either, not with your bankroll. Hopefully you can find a decent foreign woman for a girlfriend.

Whatever happens, keep your finances absolutely secret.

Enjoy yourself, but don't flash your money, especially here in the US. The roaches will come swarming out and make you lose faith in humanity.

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

Haha, I've been so miserable at work I've been telling friends and acquaintances I've been thinking about FIRE. I have none of the habits of wealthy people, so it doesn't seem to have fazed them. A lot of people in NYC at my age have $1M+.

[–]redpilllogin5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

A lot of people in NYC at my age have $1M+.

That gives my thousander ass some hope.

You can definitely spin plates despite your height. I'm not 6'3 either, and I don't even have money. I just think of myself as an interesting guy because I do interesting shit. (Yoga, dancing, swimming, karaoke, wine tasting, martial arts, cooking classes, language classes, traveling) any of those things will give you great conversation material and make you an interesting man.

In your position, you should be very appealing to the younger girls looking for a daddy figure. That's my crowd and I'm only 30 and broke. I stay around the 21-26 range with the occasional 30 something.

You should have no problem at all finding a late 20s-early 30s woman who is looking to settle down and have kids. Though. There's plenty in this City. You just have to place yourself in their vicinity.

I will echo the traveling advice. I try to visit new places as much as I can. Gives me a different perspective and puts me out of my comfort zone (+more interesting material to make me interesting) I'm visiting 7 new countries this year, and yes, I have a full time miserable NYC job.

Good luck OP.

[–]geo_gan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

7 new countries this year? Is that the reason you say you are broke 😄

[–]ugluk10 points1 point  (10 children) | Copy

Roaches with tits, lol.

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 5 points6 points  (8 children) | Copy

Where do I find these roaches lol? Not because I'd wife one, but I really don't feel like I'm anything special, and getting their attention might help boost my self-esteem.

I still live live at a fraction of my means. I bikeshare everywhere, I drink club sodas at bars, I buy my clothes at Uniqlo, most of my meals are eaten at the company canteen, my biggest regular expenses are running shoes and my mortgage.

[–]rnsbrum5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Find a broke Chad thats the life of a party, then you trade your wealth for his social skills. He can get into private parties and you can tag along because your buying drinks. A guy did the same with me, I was the broke Chad and he was the bank lol

[–]fartt1231 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

Roaches needs to smell the money and by the sound of it, I picture you as a bummy Iooking millionaire. I would say buy couple of rl polo(~40-60), Versace shirts(~200), branded shades that suit your face(~500), tailored pants that actually fit you, good bussiness shoes (all of these are expensive but not that expensive) and watch them swarm. Flash a little. I dont think height is as much of a problem, but your image that you portray. Cloths aren't that expensive. Clean apartment. You can't be hoarter or have a trashy apartment. It don't gotta big but clean with fashionable furniture (not expensive). Throw away everything that dont have to be there. Look around on recommended subreddits.

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Isn't it blue pill to be spending all this money to impress women I'm not that interested in?

But yeah, I don't spend a lot of money. $40 for a polo is fine. $200 - $500 for a shirt and shades seems ridiculous. I have $300 Allen Edmonds shoes, and Uniqlo tailors pants for free, so my clothes are fairly well-fitted.

My apartment is in a prime area, but I live like a bachelor.

[–]fartt1230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You missing the point. You will feel how you dress and people treat you according to how you feel about yourself. If you take time to take care of yourself and make yourself a priority, people see you as such. You dress like a bum and you will be treated like one. I am not being harsh to bash you. It is what it is. Don't save money when comes to yourself.

You somehow want people to somehow know that you are the shit without doing anything? That's not how it works.

It's actually very redpill to look good and spend on yourself. It is very bluepill to spend money on women and other people to get validation. Don't get that twisted.

[–]ugluk10 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

You forgot the Lambo or a Ferrari. You will call down a biblical swarm on you.

[–]fartt1230 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You could actually get away with a prius or just walk around in New York. I don't think cars do as much as Cloths.

[–]ugluk10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There are some youtube videos featuring women behaving irrationaly around a lambo.

[–]Plasticannihilation0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Like you perhaps.

[–]dj10415 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Look in to Austin, Tx if you’re considering a smaller city. You’ll get a big city vibe but none of the bs like nyc

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks, friends have moved there. I've considered it.

[–]LethalShade3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Caveat that I'm not anywhere close to your financial situation or your age but perhaps I can still give you some good ideas.

You have to decide what you want and most importantly what you're willing and ready to spend a lot of energy on. You seem to have spent a lot of energy on your business/career which is great but you've lacked in developing dating skills. This resulted in you having to pay for sex, which is fine but it lacks the depth that you seem to be looking for now.

I would take the above advice and get some sort of vacation and distance yourself from the daily grind and constant stress that you're probably under so you can get a good perspective on your life. If you do decide to go the kid route, it's definitely possible to find a loyal woman that will bring you companionship, a family and consistent deep sex. If you are willing to work on all the RP concepts that are talked about here. It won't be easy and will take a few years to put together properly(obviously don't rush into a relationship using your money to attract women because you'll lose it very fast with a divorce.)

Best of luck mate.

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks for the thoughtful reply. You're right I haven't been prioritizing well.

[–]Lateralanouncer3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

You will have a net worth of less than $800k if you get married so don’t do that.

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

my divorced friends tell me the same thing.

[–]_Last_Man_Standing_4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

My plan when I get to your age is to hire a surrogate mother and get my self a son or two (or three).
Surrogate mother + high IQ egg + the whole procedure is about 15.000€ in EU (not sure for the US).
For the price of one wedding and a ring you can literally get a bunch of kids.
That are your kids and you don't need to pay for the cunt mother that will take em away at some point.
Anyway that's what i would do in your place.
I'm currently working on getting there (being wealthy enough so I can do it).

Some of the benefits of this plan are:
- you can choose the DNA of the egg donor like IQ and height
- you can choose 3 different egg donors and diversify your genetic lineage
- you can set it up so all 3 babies are born in the same year (like they are twins/triplets) which will make them best friends for ever
- I mean imagine 3 sons that were born in few months difference and grew up doing everything together :D
- you get rid of them in only 18 years... (all 3 will grow up at the same time and you kick them out at the same time) and then you have free 60es

I can't wait... :)

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

15.000€

Can I get EU citizenship too? If that's the case, that's definitely a possibility. I hate the rat race USA.

[–]bluepillcarl5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

$1.6m isn't a ton of money but a lot of people wish they had that kind of money by the age of retirement. You're only 44 and people are living longer these days. You have some good choices:

  1. Take some risks and try to multiply your money to get seriously rich. This could really change a lot for you for the better or worse. Either go big or go broke. Start a business maybe.

  2. Move to someplace cheap but with some hot girls around like Arizona or Florida. Buy a cheap house, retire early and use the money to buy a bunch of fairly stable stocks that pay dividends to live off of. Or do something relatively low risk with the money that can pay you enough to live your life until you die. Put all focus in healthy living and fitness. Maybe even get a job that relates to fitness.

Either way I'd probably get out of NYC. It's expensive there and the rat race gets boring.

[–]Monkitail9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

1.6 in New York is like 500k else where

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

yep

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

  1. has been considered. I spend a lot of time on fitness. Is it realistic to move to a less cosmopolitan place with hot girls?

There's the age gap, then there's the race gap, and then there's the statistic that the average American woman is 5'4" and 170 lbs.

[–]doubtless_abyss0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You live in a materialistic city. Girls in other cities may not care as much about your money, but in NYC and Long Island, girls will definitely date an ugly/short/whatever guy who has cash (beta bucks, which you are and always will be at that height) - but he needs to flaunt it (wear high end labels, have nice accessories, always be well groomed, etc.) and spend it on her. You won't find the same thing in the rest of the country. Women value different things like how much you love Jesus (really), how tall/white/good looking/genetically alpha you are. I once heard that everyone in NYC has a gf, doesn't matter how broke, ugly etc. you are. If you aren't attracting anyone work on your signaling (lose the Uniqlo shit, start buying more expensive shit, and learn to enjoy shopping for that stuff, and take girls with you once you figure out how to have fun with it). Sell the apartment - there's no reason to be paying a mortgage when you're not even sure you want to stay in the city. Take a break, travel around for a solid year+, see what women are like in the different places you go, and when you get back, maybe you'll realize NYC is the place for you, and you'll know what you really want and if settling down still makes sense, focus on that and the right woman will appear for you.

[–]Throwaway-2424244 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Who cares that you're an ethnic manlet. Get on TRT and go wild.

[–]masterpiece00-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Fucks dick and hormones worse than his height, good plan.

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

lol.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (5 children) | Copy

If I had a similar net worth, I would quit my miserable job, move out of Nyc (prices there are crazy high!), move to a rural area, and invest my money in a business or something. U can make a living out of ur investment and not have to work a day in ur life; at the same time, u will be able to enjoy life in the cheap country side.

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

I've thought about this. No women in the countryside though.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

U dont live for women. Ur life and happiness are not defined by pussy. If u'd be happier in the countryside, go there

[–]ScratchinCommander 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

I'd take a country side church goer girl over a NYC chick any fucking day.

[–]askmrcia0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Thank you. Wtf are some of these guys talking about.

Plus in the smaller cities or towns you have far less competition.

I mean you're biggest threats are druggies who never left their small town. Everyone else is probably married or in serious long-term relationships

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

the average American woman is 5'4" and 170 lbs. that's hard for me to stomach. I don't see it a lot in NYC, which means the balance must be in the hinterlands.

[–]mantiss872 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

Stay in ny bro, everytime i left i went back. Theres nothing like ny, dirty, bright and filled with sluts.

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Eh, I'm not meeting that many women.

[–]mantiss872 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Maybe its not the location and its something your doing cause the only thing i see more than hot ass chicks is pigeons. Head over to times square and talk to the tourists sluts. 8 million people and a few million that come to visit daily and you cant find any.

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

It's definitely something I'm doing, I have not been that active. My height and ethnicity makes the ROI tougher, and I guess I've just been lazy about the investment.

[–]curvedbymykind2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

im curious, what ethnicity are you that makes it a disadvantage?

[–]acp_rdit1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Save up money for a trip to space, I hear that changes people

[–]ultimatrev6661 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan...

I would LOVE to be in your predicament. I make close to six figures, in the deep south of all places, but I have a networth of zip. Just lots of debt from car payments, college, and credit cards.

Are you an entrepreneur of sorts? I want to start a company that focuses on private cloud services (I work for such a company, a Fortune 500 company at that), but unlike the company I work for now, I wanna be the one calling the shots and not focus on the "finance industry" (as my current company does).

[–]nobody_thinks1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

My age-equivalents are not hot enough to sustain my interest

major frame problem. If you are even theoretically exploring the possibility of women your age, you have some major self discovery to do.

the younger ones aren’t interesting enough to [sustain my interest]

same issue. women are not for long conversations. You have major blue pill conditioning. It's in the presuppositions, not in the details.

What do you recommend? What did you do?

Quit your job, train yourself in new skills to make income self generating, travel abroad, stay out of marriage, get some hot girls pregnant outside of the US (hot means under 24 y/o without exceptions for you), never disclose to people how much you are worth. Hide your fucking money.

[–]nobody_thinks1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Just want to clarify my comment. This is what a woman your age has to offer (I'm assuming a white professional from a decent family):

  1. status. WTF does status do for you if you have already compromised your ability to reproduce by marrying an infertile hag?

  2. sex. You already pay for escorts. The sex you get out of the average american careercunt is barely better than jerking off. Except it will cost you about 7k / month if you assume the marriage lasts 10 years and she gets half your wealth. Thats just a back of the envelope to give you the idea that she has no practical sexual value for you. And in fact hinders your ability to pursue sex since any satisfying sexual pursuit can become an excuse for divorce rape.

  3. children. oh, wait, no. she is infertile. and if she gets pregnant, high chance of down syndrome and myriad other defects. Sounds fucking awesome.

As you can see, considering a woman your age is like considering bbq'ing your testicles and feeding them to a fucking pit-bull. I mean this with total empathy and respect, but you would only consider or verbalize such an action if you had very deep feminine conditioning in your nervous system, which is why you need to unplug now and get your shit together asap.

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Thanks for the extended reply. This is what I needed to hear. I have been trying to keep an open mind and considering women my age. Maybe it's because I don't want to believe I'm old, and that I can find an age-match and fulfill that nuclear family fantasy.

[–]nobody_thinks1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

you are not old but women your age are old. There is no sexual symmetry. A woman cannot fulfill her prime biological directive (give birth to healthy children) after the age of 35, really 30. If she misses that boat it's gone forever and she can never be fulfilled.

You on the other hand do not have this problem. You are a man. You die 10 years younger, nobody gives a fuck about you, you are basically a gladiator in an arena by yourself. But you have a few advantages. You can tolerate psychological pain. You can reproduce at any age. You are more intelligent. You aren't needy. You don't need anyone. You have more energy. You heal quicker. And you don't give a fuck.

Act like a man.

[–]pointster_VSK1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You’re being to hard on yourself. Putting too much emphasize on your looks.

Read up on the sidebar. Learn more about how the game & women work.

NYC is filled with women. Given that you are successful, stable and decent looking, you should be able to get dates. Its all a numbers game in the big city.

[–]ReddJive1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Eeyore, the old grey Donkey, stood by the side of the stream and looked at himself in the water. “Pathetic,” he said. “That's what it is. Pathetic.” He turned and walked slowly down the stream for twenty yards, splashed across it, and walked slowly back on the other side. Then he looked at himself in the water again. “As I thought,” he said. “No better from this side."

This is you. You are stuck in cognitive distortions. Your emotional reasoning is quite astounding though not surprising. It's pretty common in men that have wealth. They use their money to buy what they can't see to find any other way and they are still left empty.

Attitude is by far the number one necessity when it comes to your masculinity. I'm not talking about the "walk around like an asshole, overly cocky attitude", but more of a confidence in how you approach your life and mission, and how you go about yourself.

I am talking about the confidence that you take to a training session KNOWING that you are going to hit your anticipated numbers, KNOWING that you have done the necessary prep (rest, recovery, food, technique, etc.) to accomplish your training for the day, KNOWING that the weight (whatever it is) is going to move, and KNOWING that there is no other option for anything else to happen that day.

Do you see the theme here? Of course it is expected that everyone will have a shitty workout every once in awhile or even a shitty day, but attitude alone can minimize a lot of those poor performances.

Don't be mentally soft!

  1. Live in the moment
  2. Be always your better self
  3. Control your frame/emotions to make it stable
  4. The World is a paradox (no point in understanding it, just live it)
  5. Humour is the strongest weapon against ''challenges''
  6. Do what makes you happy
  7. Live in plentitude (from plates, to friends, to a meaningful LTR)
  8. Enjoy the journey
  9. Never look back and if you do, take a moment to appreciate who you became (the progress)

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Why exactly are you here whining for your hand to be held?

Learn game.

[–]L0nerizm9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Really helpful

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

☝🏽

[–]RPStudent22 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Just because the guy is successful and older doesn't mean he doesn't need/deserve help...

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I agree, his diagnosis is simple: learn game☝🏽

[–]mishasam891 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

What kind of job would you call miserable?

[–]cluelessguitarist0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You got money, now you need to live more, keep some sources of income and move to south america and live like a king

[–]321gumby0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Up? Hahahha

[–]XanJamZ0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why not retire and live your life. With that kind of net worth you can achieve financial independence and retire early if you really wanted to. Make your money work for you and find what you’re looking for.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

If you love to spin-plates then why don’t you go past the first dates? My assumption is you aren’t too pleased with their looks. My suggestion is to start gaming girls you are attracted too immediately. Cold approach the ones you find hot. Make the effort because eventually you’ll get better, gain confidence, and start closing and spinning plates. You got to cold approach. Stop letting your ethnic background and height distract you. Girls don’t give a shit about that. You’re better than you realize. Trust in game, there’s lots of techniques that will raise their initial attraction. But you got to cold approach buddy. NYC is the best city to do it in!

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Thanks. I don't love to spin plates. Don't need that drama. But I do need to fail more.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Your original post said “you’d love to spin plates” and now you’re saying “I don’t love to spin plates.” Make up your mind.

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Sorry, you're right. I did say that. I think the fantasy is more attractive than the reality. I might even be able to do that now, but I'm a pretty no-drama type.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Spinning plates shouldn’t include drama at all. I haven’t had an argument with any of my plates since I started spinning a few years ago. Even the ones that fall off when I don’t commit, they still love and respect me. Sorry buddy you’re making excuses for not going out there and getting the job done.

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You just said you wanted to. When are you going to suck it up and learn game? That's the answer already available to you.

[–]boom_bostic0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I’m not in a situation similar to yours. I have a good friend who is though.

You spoke about your married friends who speak poorly of marriage. I’ve been married twice. I’m married to the mother of my two children. Even in my first marriage, which obviously ended in divorce, a quite nasty one I might add, I still look back to this day and say it was a good decision. My first wife added a lot of benefits and value to my life.

Marriage isn’t some Disney romance story. It’s a partnership. She can benefit you on your mission in life. My first wife worked full time, made great money. We were able to accomplish a lot over our marriage. My second wife, she worked full time until she was 8 months pregnant with our first child. Now, she’s a full time mother and homemaker. Both women added value but in different ways.

If you vet a generally good woman who can accept her role as copilot—she can add value to your life.

Don’t let people’s talk scare you away. If it was so bad...would they still be there?

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Thank you for your thoughts. Someone generously wrote me privately and echoed a lot of the red pill sentiments about marriage, that the social contract is gone and that we're better off living our lives without it.

There's a lot pleasures to be found not being tied down to an ungrateful wife, but I've done a lot of those, and none seemed really appealing to me. There is no red pill end game, as it were.

But there is a blue pill end game in the fantasy marriage, and I'm really tempted by it, since red pill doesn't offer an alternative end game, only a response in the negative: you won't suffer a blue pill failure.

I don't think that's enough. After all, we'd all agree that part of being a man is taking risks, and if there is a risk to finding a decent partner, maybe so be it?

[–]boom_bostic0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I definitely disagree about men being better off without marriage...at least up until a certain age. I think once a man hits 45-55 years old, the sex drive isn’t what it once was, so there’s not much of a sexual benefit anymore in the equation.

You mentioned endgame and how the red pill really doesn’t have one...and I disagree. Red pill, at least to me, is about staying true to your real true masculine self. So for me, I feel my end game is to raise a good, strong family. That’s a challenge in today’s “throw away” society but that’s just part of the burden I bear. This burden gives me a lot of reason to live.

[–]Winterfuzz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Honestly, travel, explore as much of the world as possible. You are set. Just curious though, what degrees do you have?

[–]mysticplaces0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Find some fucking passion in your own life outside of concocting a fantasy story in your head. Stop the self-loathing behavior and quit the rat race, it’s all meaningless in the end. Take a long look in the mirror and do something meaningful with your life. You’ve perhaps been lead astray by societal conditioning that wealth would ultimately lead to self-fulfillment and happiness. Until you discover your own sense of purpose and identity, it’s all meaningless. You weren’t born to become a drone nor collect shekels. Don’t let the fucking idiots around here tell you the answer is simply pounding more pussy. Now stop wasting your life away and do something that matters.

[–]Jcbthaname0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Wtf does ethnic even mean?

[–]glasraen1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not white, I’m assuming.

[–]H_Crush0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'd probably try to find a good/reliable rp pick up coach and pay him some money to improve your skills drastically. Then find a wing or put it into action alone. As you have money, you can then later hire someone again to reflect with you until your skills and your inner game are master level. There's probably a lot of unexplored potential with the kind of game you can run. Still, if you make women your goal for a year or two and then prioritize getting a family in the next couple of years, you'll still need some goals and a mission beside a family after that.

[–]uptimex0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Do you think you are not experienced enaugh for casual hookup relationships for your age? I mean come on. I'd suggest following:

  • Develop or change your style to be more charismatic and attractive (including clothes, haircut etc.). Develop some style, meaning of personnage, as frenchs say.
  • Set some number of women you want to have experience with (I mean, when you set some goal it becomes much easier, well you know that for sure).
  • Nexting, when something goes wrong, either your game is not good enaugh or girl is not communicating enaugh good for you, just next her and move on. I mean I read some messages when wealthy people act like betas, sometime it happens with everyone. See in sidebar about hard and soft nexting.
  • Work with the field, not with some specific objects. I mean, be ready to be rejected even with the money you have. Some women are just dumb. Work with some quantity of women to quickly fill the experience gap you think you have. With age this gap becomes much easier and faster to close.
  • Well, opening your time and traveling is a very obvious step you should do. Sure you can continue to work and collect money, but probably you will regret about it later.

Good luck, everything is ahead, new experiences wait for you.

[–]1DubbleFUPAwitCheez0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

1.6m in nyc? so what, like 5 bucks?

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

lol

[–]masteryido0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If you got an apartment in Brooklyn that you let me rent out for a reasonable price, I can coach you for a couple months.

[–]Fuktiga_mejmejs0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Go traveling, see the world and experience new stuff!

[–]whoareyou310 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I feel like you think you'll finally find happiness when you do find the right girl or something. I don't know what your goal is with women but you wrote a paragraph basically asking for advice on how you should drastically change you life for women... to finally find happiness...? Whatever it is that will make you feel alive again, I'm pretty sure it's not a woman or women.

I'm at a similar situation in my life. I'm not sure why I'm so discontent with my life when there's really nothing I should be discontent with. I keep thinking if I just get more and hotter girls, I'll be happy but Idk if that's it anymore. What I really want to do is find something I'm crazy passionate about to a point where I don't care for women.

[–]CryptoManbeard0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It doesn't look like you've found meaning to your life. Yeah you have a nice job and money but that doesn't bring meaning. Honestly neither does being in a marriage and having kids (just for the sake of it). Sounds like you need to do some soul searching and figure out what you really want out of life. It's not going to come from Reddit either probably.

[–]masterpiece000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Just another human that fell for the money meme. You're not alone though.
This should be a lesson to all those here saying when I am X age I'll have X dollars = life.

[–]Domeakindness690 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I understand your yearning for legacy. If you were white I'd say find an amish woman. But since you're ethic in some way, try to find a traditional woman with your ethnic background. For instance, a Nigerian woman if your black, or a Catholic Latina if you're latino. However, as most know here, try to find a virgin woman, even if she's much younger than you. Virgin women pair bond better than promiscuous women. Tons of studies have been done on this. Your marriage will be a lot steadier. You have the money so pay a dowry for her if you must. Write a prenup and hire a good lawyer to take extra measures that the prenup won't get thrown out in the court. Keep your pimp hand strong and lead the household. And I would recommend living in the place your wife is from. You don't want to bring her here and expose her to western women or she will be ruined. There is always some risk in marriage, but try to minimize it as much as possible.

[–]Totsean0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Philippines. Move out bro.

[–]TheRedPillRipper0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

I'm a fair bit younger but have a similar experience; 5'10, couple of degrees, 6 figure passive income plus a few current contract/consultancy roles, travelled when younger. I also have two Fuck Trophies. One to my ex, and one to my current.

What gave me stability and oddly enough, perspective, was having my eldest. I couldn't be a party boy anymore. No more overseas drinking trips, Ping Pong Shows in Patpong or even just a weekend away with the boys. My goal became about my contribution. I started taking my responsibilities more seriously as opposed to coasting. What I could do not only to better myself; but my child; my wider family and my community. Despite that relationship ending; I still maintain that perspective.

I've been seeking stability

Like most things of value u/Funkydirigidoo; you give life meaning. I've built stability into my current lifestyle by being available. Volunteering to be a First Aid Officer for the kid's soccer team. Putting my nieces and nephews through college. Marie Kondo. I thought I'd never that guy haha! I had life easy till I became a father. NOW I want to aim up to it.

the nuclear family fantasy

This fantasy can work. Just like I make mixed family dynamic work. If it's an LTR and/or family you want; start vetting and find a partner with the qualities you're looking for. Then build your unicorn. Be clear(and honest) with what you want; set up the plan and execute. Just NEVER FORGET; your greatest power; even in a family; is your power to walk away.

Godspeed and good luck!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

As someone young trying to build a passive income myself, would you mind telling me how you have built up to 6 figured of passive income? Would you mind telling me what you did and what industry?

Any advice is very appreciated.

[–]TheRedPillRipper0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Without being too specific I was lucky enough to inherit land. A lot of it. My brother and I (we inherit along the patrilineal line) lease the majority of it and my role is overseeing the redevelopment/project management to rehabilitate then repurpose assets for future proofing. The majority of my passive is derived there plus whatever shares/investments I have make up the rest. I also own some intellectual property but comparatively it doesn’t bring in that much. Oddly enough I have to see my accountant next week so I’ll try and grab some concrete figures if I remember.

That said I earned a few degrees early in life then was recruited straight out of college into an NGO. Worked there for almost a decade then transitioned into a industry I’m passionate about.

The real tip to financial freedom as I might’ve mentioned elsewhere is ownership. Whether it’s physical or intellectual; owning the property; then leveraging that ownership to generate income is the way to go.

Godspeed and good luck!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks for all the advice very much appreciated. I'll keep in my mind the idea of ownership as I move forward.

It's interesting you inherited land I'm guessing you owned a farm or farmland once. There's no need to bring up concrete figures its it's fine.

I'm going to be a computer science degree...it seemed like a reliable way forward with a lot of opportunity.

Thanks again.

[–]knokl0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

if you want to settle down also look outside of america, you have the net worth to create a stable semi-passive income with the right investments and can live well in cheaper countries off those incomes. Where the women will be much more willing / attractive / younger and solid to start a family with you. latin america for example. See argentina and chile or make your own picks. Puerto rico could be good too but more expensive. Other options are fillipines ( speak english and christian too ). Or east / central europe. Fuck western women, youre wasting your time in new york if youre hoping to find a wife there. Im much younger than you but i know i want to settle down one day, so this is my plan. Move where you are treated best so get the fuck out of the west if you want a family or move far away from the big cities to smaller and tight communities ( but there is no escaping the feminist poison, youll be fighting it for the rest of your life and fight against the constant pressure of turing your kids and wife against you ). So better to just move, not travel just relocate and build a new life. I had the pleasure to date latin american girls and now im back in a western country and holy shit what garbage the dating scene is here, i wont even bother anymore. Just stack money build your freelance career and move. i dont see how the difference of america vs east eu is any less than america vs the more european influenced latin countries you will be in a different culture in both cases. I dont know what exaclty ethnic refers too, but if you have a big tan or are black its probably better not to move to east europe but go for latin america instead youll blend in better there. Sure for short term tanned guys are sought after in east/central europe but to start a family and build a serious life its different.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Limb lengthening

[–]eagerlearner7320 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Go fuck some bitches first..

[–]lapeparoja0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What fraction of your Net Value is your apartment? Still have a mortgage? How much do you pay on property tax/HOA at year? How much is liquid? If you stay in your job what would it be your projected net yearly savings for the next 7 years, assumming no big wage increase. Answer those and I will give you my opinion.

[–]Bedtimeshine0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Nothing is ever going to happen for you in NYC.

[–]lordkiwi0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What do you do? And by that I mean what are your hobbies? I am not saying your going to meet the one from doing a hobbies. But if your fishing in the same pond all the time your only going to real in the same fish. Also move to north jersery so your not just meeting Newyorkers

[–]Lambdal70 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’ll just travel for 6 months and talk to 500 women, you’ll find marriage material there.

Alternatively, I’d just socialize a lot and talk to 500 women. 99% of women aren’t marriage material, but 1% are. That’s why you gotta work the numbers.

[–]curvedbymykind0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What’s your thoughts on purchasing a 1 BR in manhattan rn for < 1 mill rn? Do you think it’s a worthwhile investment?

If so, maybe you could just purchase a 1 bedroom, and rent it out while you go travel?

[–]MeditateWithJake0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Travel somewhere with beautiful scenery and do some plant medicines “aka psychedelic drugs” like San Pedro, Ayahuasca, peyote, or Mushrooms (highly recommend)

TL;DR:

DO MUSHROOMS NOW.

Much love.

[–]morescoobysnacks 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

net worth close to $1.6M

nice

[–]ugluk10 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

I'll add my 5 cents. Your only option is a young woman outside of the US. If you find one, she'll want to travel, see the world, but you musn't allow it. Have the kids, or toss her aside, if she turns out bad, find another. The thing is, hoes from poor places aren't Cinderellas. You need to have a sharp plan and execute it. Bad hoes need to apply elsewhere. After you've had your kids (and they are yours), you can relax a little and take your family to Disneyland.

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

Yeah, I'm a big subscriber to AWALT. Hypergamy is in the XX chromosome.

Some guys say Asian women aren't like that. Others say Latin or Eastern European women aren't like that. I don't really believe it. Where you gain in one area, you lose in another.

[–]LiteraIIyJesus 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

Something I've noticed is that the only sure fire way you'll get a girl to be devout to you is if she is already devout to a higher deity whom she believes will send her to hell if she does anything other than be a good submissive wife.

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Interesting. This may be true. Eastern Europeans and Asians are atheists, does this make them a worse third-world bet than Latinas and Filipinas who have Catholicism?

[–]ugluk10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

For me, it was a black pill experience. Imagine visiting a half-starving girl and she tells you, that you're not making enough money? Well, I did have enough for, uhm, other things.

[–]CamoWoobie100000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Move to Philippines

[–]medicalbench 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

Hi! A quick question: $1.6M net worth including the Apt?

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

why does it matter?

[–]medicalbench 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Hello. I was just benchmarking how well I am doing on the meat market.

Hope you already found a direction w/ everyone's suggestion.

[–]BadDadBot0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hi hello. i was just benchmarking how well i am doing on the meat market.

hope you already found a direction w/ everyone's suggestion., I'm dad.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hookers my friend.

[–]travlingsomewhere-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Rent your apartment out. I would suggest putting it on Airbnb. NYC is prime real estate I can see you being able to charge $200+ per night for it. That’s a 6k a month paycheck.

Take some time and travel. Maybe just move to another place for a while! Asia would be nice. Japan would be nice.

I definitely suggest putting your apartment on Airbnb instead of regularly renting it out. LEVERAGE.

[–]VigilantSmartbomb-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

Sounds like it’s time to figure out what this God thing is

[–]Funkydirigidoo[S] -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

yes, I've looked into religion. I can see why folks join cults now!

[–]VigilantSmartbomb-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Oh heck nah - find your own string and pull. I took a world religions class. There’s dogma forsure but underneath there’s coherency. I’m the very least a culmination of some history at that point.



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