Wife went to Female psychologist/sexologist, she told the psychologist I was being dominant and still hold traditional roles at home (I do). Psychologist told her I am the reason why she has issues, and I am has-been. I am supposed to treat her very kindly whatever she does (it's only natural), sex is not her duty, she can only give it if she feels like it. Even If i pay more I should help in the kitchen and do everything like her, and she won't even has to thank me for that.
When I heard that from my wife, I said : "What about your issues (the reasons she went to psychologist in the first place) ? did she give you any advice on it?" she said : "She just told me everything is your fault, you should treat me better."
I mildly surprised by this, because I believe that WHATEVER happens in the couple it's the man's fault anyways. and while I don't really need to answer this. I think I need to have a talk with the wife one day or another. How to address this in a smarter way than : "my way or highway" ?