After a breakup, men generally are forced to grow, get introspective and develop as a person. It seems to me that the more failed LTRs a women is in, the more crazy, bitter and delusional they get.
I think this is mainly because 1. Even if they cheated or were just a shitty girlfriend, they rationalize (hamster wheel) that the guy was an asshole. So she takes no personal responsibility and even doubles down on her shitty behavior cause she views she isn't at fault. 2. Perhaps the relationship wasted some of her prime years that she could have been on the open market, thus creating more resentment for the relationship. 3. Every relationship might highlight and reinforce an insecurity (why can't I get married, am I hot enough). Potentially making her less at peace with herself and more craving for external validation, particularly from men. 4. So many girls I've met are still hung up or constantly thinking about their ex. They can't truly let go of the relationship in a full capacity.
What do you guys think?