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I was told this was a better place for my post

by Maranus | July 17, 2019 | askMRP

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Title I was told this was a better place for my post
Author Maranus
Upvotes 27
Comments 12
Date 17 July 2019 05:01 PM UTC (12 months ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/245781
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/ceflcu/i_was_told_this_was_a_better_place_for_my_post/
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[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children) | Copy

Locked, because I dislike crossposts, nor do we need brigading from other subs.

[–][deleted] 35 points36 points  (1 child) | Copy

I realize how unattractive I’ve been with my behavior. I’m supposed to take her family to the amusement park today, I tell her I can’t do that they can take the car and go themselves. I’m at my parents house and feeling shocked at my situation.

This is the problem right here bud, you are unattractive and she can't stand to fuck you. 2 times a week will quickly become 2 times a year because she is fucking another man if you aren't careful. Women desire strong men who lead and it sounds like you are completely the opposite, she runs shit and she hates you for it.

You don't like yourself, why should she like you? As others have said, you need to unfuck yourself. The first book I read was "Practical Female Psychology" and it changed how I viewed women, myself and the world. All of the sidebar readings are critical and can absolutely help you become a man.

Get in the gym and start lifting at least 4 times a week. Lift heavy and intensely like your life depends upon it.

Read the sidebar and stop talking to her about your feelings. The more you talk, the more disgusting you become to her. Pretend she is dead and fix yourself.

Lastly, don't go sleep in another room, that is fucking gay. Good luck.

[–]capn_barnacles32 points33 points  (0 children) | Copy

Congrats on finding this place. Under "Community Info" you will find the sidebar and required readings. Start there, it will answer your questions. If you have more questions after that, read everything again.

[–]aggierogue320 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

First and foremost read "No more Mr. Nice guy", continue to exercise, and soak in the sidebar of /r/marriedredpill . There's a lot to address in everything you just typed out, but first you need to unfuck your head, the sidebar will certainly help.

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

Welcome here, dude. You have no idea how lucky you are to have found this place at your age. It will absolutely change you into the man you never knew you wanted to be.

Not many men are as lucky as you are. Are you here to be one of the top 10% of men in the world? I was you about a year ago (well maybe not this bad). We have a weekly Own Your Shit (OYS) that comes out every Tuesday.

For starters, go read the most recent OYS thread. I was you a year ago.

Good luck. Read, STFU and Lift life your life depends on it and cum shoots out of your eyeballs and blood out of your dick.

[–]Rifleshoot10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agree with the other comments, you need to do your research on the sidebar of r/marriedredpill. You will start to see what the problem is and what the solution is. To give you a little sneak peak of what you'll figure out: you currently aren't a man and need to become one.

[–]eco97910 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Welcome. Lift, read ,STFU. Things will get better

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Congratulations you are in the right place. Start reading, lifting and STFU. We look forward to reading about your progress. Welcome to the first day of the rest of your life!

[–]ibelieveican19823 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Read this thread and read the first reply in there by SBII and all of the replies by him after as well. I thought it was apt to your situation. Women want men who have ambition and some sort of social standing/value at the minimum. You currently have none and that is the basic problem right there. Read the sidebar. And read below thread a few times. Figure it out - its what men do. Good luck. I was also in a sucky situation when I first came here and things have changed dramatically but a lot more to do... a lot more to improve. Never stop working on yourself - remember you are the only person you can change or control.

https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/bionz9/when_to_try_when_to_give_up/

Excerpt from above thread -

She doesn't want to fuck you because she doesn't find you attractive.

How do you change this? You become attractive. She might still not want to fuck you but you'll be attractive and someone else will. However, at the minute, no-one would want to fuck you. Why? Here's a few clues for ya...

I'm a "nice guy". I never understand why some things happened. NMMNG book gave me answers. Looks like the book was wrote for me!

Read the book, apply the principles. Stop being a nice guy. No-one wants to fuck nice guys.

Four years ago I was dismissed from job and I tried into another profession that did not work (I'm into that new profession around 2 years and zero income yet). Now I have to go back to my old profession, but I do not find a job. Not a problem to me. Sometimes we have to step back.

Find a job. No-one wants to fuck a man with no money. Not even prostitutes.

I think I lost the "power" when I was dismissed from previous job and turned out to take care of our daughter.

No. You never had the "power" to begin with but whatever respect you had went out the window when you decided to become a Stay At Home Dad. No-one wants to fuck a SAHD, not even SAHMs.

My wife go to work while I was trying to "win" in the new profession and in the afternoon I take care of our daughter. She, my wife, said that did not admire myself anymore, because I had no ambition.

No-one wants to fuck a man with no ambition.

Even I waking up at 4.00 in the morning, doing exercises, studying, taking the child to the doctor, doing homework with daughter, making food, etc. For me it was a "betrayal", because all this was talked about earlier.

She doesn't want you to stay at home childminding, cooking, doing whatever gay exercises you do at home. She wants a man who has ambition and drive who goes out and takes what he wants. She may have agreed to this but that's because she doesn't want to have to tell you how to be a man. She just wants you to "get it". No-one wants to fuck a man who doesn't "get it".

Today I'm looking for a permanent job, but I believe that as soon as I get a job, she leaves home. She's a workaholic, too.

You are a lazy fucker looking for excuses not to work. No-one wants to fuck a lazy fucker who doesn't want to work.

I think that since she got promoted and got a salary raise and I'm not working at a 9-5 job, she feel that she's powerful...that don't need a man in her life.

She doesn't need you in her life. You are a financial burden on her. No-one wants to fuck a financial burden.

When she got pregnant, 1 year without sex.

LOL.

Everyone telling me to cheat on her. Not at all. About 1 and half year ago she got this new job. Manager. Since then smartphone took my place.No sex for 1 month and counting.She get home everyday and:" I'm very tired. Gonna sleep" and ends on Netflix on cellphone at bed.

She prefers Netflix to fucking you. The sight of you dries up her pussy like a hot wind in the Sahara Desert.

Sex?! What's that?

It's the thing you get a lot of when you are attractive. You are not attractive, therefor no-one wants to fuck you.

You are a broke ass Nice Guy who has no ambition, no drive and most likely looks like a fat / skinny cunt who has other issues that you aren't telling us about, your wife is repelled by you and no-one in their right mind would fuck you. You don't even have cash to get a hooker to blow you.

Fix that shit, then try initiating sex. You'll be amazed at the difference it makes.

[–]Brushyourteethm82 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Welcome! Congratulations on finding TRP community.

This is not a life raft that will pull you aboard with a quick fix - it's a manual on how to swim.

Basically, the sidebar and associated reading list aims at working on you. You are not happy in life and your relationship because you've been following a shitty road map. The readings will open your eyes to intersexual dynamics and challenge your long held beliefs. It will be a tough and frustrating journey and you won't see any over night improvements in your relationship - in fact, in order for it to get better then it will most likely get worse.

Good luck!

[–]HerukaArisen1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'm shocked and appalled with how nice everybody is to him! Are the red berets asleep?

[–]gameoflibidos14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

There's a difference between the semi trolls that come here/been here and still post the same garbage over and over because they aren't doing the work and people like OP who had no idea this existed and are stuck in a bad creation of their own.

All of us were once OP. So all of us can sympathize. That said, he better start doing work and posting in OYS after he gets going hard or else he'll get the not so nice.



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