Hi,
Excuse my bad english.
Briefing:
I'm in my early thirties. I have found TRP about 5 years ago. It was liberating and its still liberating to this day when I have to handle shit in my life, I'm always grateful that I have a toolset which I can use to handle things which I was strunggling with in my early twenties.
The success:
Hi,
Excuse my bad english.
Briefing:
I'm in my early thirties. I have found TRP about 5 years ago. It was liberating and its still liberating to this day when I have to handle shit in my life, I'm always grateful that I have a toolset which I can use to handle things which I was strunggling with in my early twenties.
The success:
I have started NoFap like 6 years ago, and did it for 2,5 years. This post is not about NoFap, and I don't care about the argumentation pro and contra. I found TRP's link in NoFap sub and the journey I was making led here, where I am now, and I wouldn't change it for the world.
Like 4 years ago I went to a semi-monk mode, without knowing that it is actually a thing. I started to work on my business idea which I had since my childhood. Basically it is a software. It was consumned a lot of energy, free time, and hard earned money. I have a daytime job, I was working on this project at night and weekends.
I started beta testing 6 months ago. The first few months I made change money, then a little salary supplement, but now I can state it out clearly:
My business has value, people like it, they are willing to give money for it, I'm making a great revenue. Since it is a software, I don't have to (but I do) do anything with it. It is up and running, I have a passive income now, even when I'm sleeping.
My LTR and money:
I'm together with my LTR for 3 years now. When we started our relationship I made like 10-15% more money from my daytime job than her. I had a raise in each year since, when I started my business I was making 25% more money from my daytime job than her. She liked it as I climbed in my career, ofc it raised my SMV.
But now as my business launched I'm making 250% more money than her. It maybe does not seems to a big difference for first glance, but think about the following.
The success of my software was a skyrocketing. It was very fast paced growing. I still don't know where is the end, where will be the top, I believe I could even make better numbers in the future, but even these days I can feel the difference in my LTR's behaviour.
I can easily count 3 vacations in this sommer from my money, she told me she can only have 2. She is telling me I shouldn't order food that much, she becoming angry and depressend when she have to pay a fine for speeding and I had to give her a loan.
All of a suden she became depressed, sad and moody as my business started to make money. She is telling me she don't know what to do with her life, she don't know what she could which is interesting to her. She smiles much less, she started to blaming me in little things since she doesn't really find any weak point in my behavior. Constant small shit and comfort tests. I'm feeling she is not supportive, she is not happy with my success, quite the opposite.
I really don't know what is going on, or how to handle this. We are on separate budget, she pays for her stuff, I pay for mine. But now I feel we are drifting apart.
What should I do to make her normal again? What is causing this? How should I handle my success?
Please, help me with your advices great gents.
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