TheRedArchive needs help
With 700,000+ posts and 16,000,000+ comments archived, and new Red Pill content being added every week, keeping TheRedArchive alive and discoverable to everyone is starting to become very costly. As a 20-year-old student who just moved out and is living independently for the first time, keeping TheRedArchive alive is beginning to cost me much more than I thought.

Therefore, if you appreciate the website, have gained a lot of knowledge and insight from it, and want to show your appreciation, you can do so by donating any amount that you want via the options below. The money will be used on the expensive monthly host bill and any future maintenance of the website.
Thank you, and I wish you all a successful 2021 and a good luck with achieving your goals and dreams!

Best, /u/dream-hunter

Girls don’t have boyfriends

Reddit View
Facebook Twitter Reddit Email Copy link
PDF EPUB TXT PNG
Whycantwealltwerk
July 20, 2019
259 upvotes
askTRP

Has anyone else noticed that once you got really into lifting and other RP recommendations that most girls magically don’t have boyfriends?

Watching girls work around saying that have a boyfriend is sad, hilarious, and makes me feel good at the same time.


Post Information
Title Girls don’t have boyfriends
Author Whycantwealltwerk
Upvotes 259
Comments 74
Date 20 July 2019 03:13 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/246048
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/cfh3bi/girls_dont_have_boyfriends/
Similar Posts
Now I am become Chad, the destroyer of pussy.

"I began to see why woman-haters could make such fools of women. Woman-haters were

FR of a Male strip show. Look's aren't everything, Status/State is.

edit* I don't see 'State' being thrown around here a lot, but I use it

I've turned extremely dark and cold. I don't show it but I am consumed and driven by anger in life at the moment and sadly despise most women...Plus im a virgin at 23 now. What advice do you guys have?

Now im using a throwaway account but this post has basically been triggered by this

Extended Field Report – Dread Game and The Fitness Marathon

I have always struggled on the concept of Dread Game as a Christian. On

All non-compliance is due to current insufficiency of interest.

I chose to share this interaction since my actions were partly informed by recent discussions


Red Pill terms found in post:
lift
Comments

[–]Time_Animal_156 points157 points  (12 children) | Copy

When I worked with older women for a year none of them mentioned their husbands ever.

[–]rpsheepdog52 points53 points  (9 children) | Copy

they don't mention things that aren't pertinent to the situation

[–]Time_Animal_21 points22 points  (8 children) | Copy

I had a younger girl have me review her project and she snuck in "What are you doing for the fourth? We're going to..." at the first available opportunity.

[–]iwviw3 points4 points  (7 children) | Copy

i don't get it

[–]Project_Zero_Betas4 points5 points  (6 children) | Copy

"We"

[–]iwviw2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

Like she didn’t say “me and my boyfriend”, instead she used we? I still don’t get it

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Like she didn’t say “me and my boyfriend”, instead she used we?

Yes

[–]iwviw8 points9 points  (3 children) | Copy

Gotcha. I was at a hostel with this beautiful Norwegian chick staying there too, I’m talking 8.65/10. We flirt heavy. Connecting good. Making plans to do activities the next day. Then she whips out a bottle of whiskey. Dark liquor makes me retarded autistic douchey gameless but I drank anyway.

So I drink up start acting and sounding like an idiot next thing you know she mentions her “guy” or bf or whatever and she texts him and he comes over in like 10 mins and she goes off to bed with him.

There would have been no bf that night if I would have held my composure.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

There would have been no bf that night if I would have held my composure.

Aren't hostels just basically small European Inns/Bed and Breakfasts? It's one thing to game a girl with a BF at a large luxury hotel, but in your case, you probably never had a shot.

[–]iwviw2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

It wasn’t her bf. Just some local she was banging.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

same

[–]jackandjill224 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

To see the look on the faces of my friends or the silence on the other end of the phone when I tell my guys friends in LTR's that in the right situation girls don't ever acknowledge who they're dating is priceless.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev77 points78 points  (5 children) | Copy

There are three types of boyfriends.

A. She has a boyfriend who exists.

B. She has “Shrodinger’s Boyfriend” who sometimes exists and sometimes doesn’t, depending on the SMV of the guy trying to fuck her.

C. The “But I haz BF!” boyfriend that the Hamster tells you abt for rationalization purposes later - ”I told him I haz boyfriend but he fuck me anyway!” - the Hamster and her girlfriends’ Hamsters will agree that ”It just happened,” because no Hamster ever has agency or accepts responsibility.

[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 17 points18 points  (1 child) | Copy

Whatever decisions made by her vagina aren’t her decisions and how dare you say they are! Queue the hamster excuses. Women can at their core be heartless I’m starting to dig it though.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Once you accept their nature and can predict it better than they can, the world (and vaginas) open for you. Ex. I was chatting a girl up this week who had all the hallmarks of submission - tall (5’10”), feminine, introverted - and I told her it was going to be big fun to spank her...and I could see the firecrackers go off in her brain like ”OMFG, how did you KNOW?”

When the Hamster is in control the girl is just a passenger.

[–]redpill_journey8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

B is so true it hurts. When I went out partying in my first week of college with people who knew each other for 3 days I heard one of the awkward dudes make a sexual innuendo with the girl I've been flirting with for 3 days. She said "I told you I have a boyfriend!".

A few minutes later when I was alone with her I asked:

"So you have a boyfriend?", to which she just said "Well it's kinda complicated and an on/off thing ...currently rather off".

We then went to the bar, got some shots and made out. It's ridiculous.

[–]WolfofAllStreetz10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

I feel like most 21-27 year olds fit in column B here. Branch swinging hoes.

[–]Standgrounding7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

16-27*

[–]backdoorinvestor199 points200 points  (16 children) | Copy

That’s hypergamy for ya. She only has a BF if she feels that he’s better than you.

[–]ticklethegooch121 points22 points  (2 children) | Copy

So if a woman I am talking to, is casually mentioning her bf, she basically is telling me I am not good enough in comparison to him?

I always thought, it was some feelgood behavior, as in: I know you want me, I like you, but to get a clean conscience, I'll bring up my bf and never mention him again. So if my bf asks me I don't have to lie.

Do you think my reasoning is off?

[–]LogicalOlive4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

It depends on when they mention it. For example if you’re flirting and she’s flirting back hard it won’t come up unless you bring it up. But if you’re just talking it will be brought up but you can ignore it.

My manager from a previous would do this.

[–]flexpertHamilton69_ 1 points [recovered]  (10 children) | Copy

Hypergamy doesn't really influence their choice in bf/husbands, moreso their sexual partners.

[–]Shieldless_One46 points47 points  (9 children) | Copy

Yes but if she wanted you as a sexual partner she wouldn’t want to deter you by saying she has a boyfriend.

[–]macheagle8 points9 points  (7 children) | Copy

She would, as a shit test to see whether you possess the traits that could carry on despite hearing about her “BF”. Some have mentioned BF to me and after we fucked, told me they did it in order to let me know that they’d like it to be on the down low.

[–]markinsinz77 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Actually 'i have a boyfriend' statement is possibly the most complex shortest/rejection/pushback.

When said at night game odds are it's a shit test

When said during day it's more likely a 'please leave me alone it's the middle of the day this is totally weird'

And Yadi yada ya there's tons of situations like that where it all depends.

Real discussion on it is long and pointless. It's truly best to pursue on treating it as a shit test.

[–]Standgrounding0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

So you're saying that in public she would say she has a BF and when you game her a bit to the point of comfort and isolation, she suddenly has no BF?

[–]macheagle2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes. After you game her a bit and when in comfort and isolation, she’ll say they actually recently broke up / he was her ex but they were still living together / she wasn’t sure if it had ended as they were still working things out at the time, etc etc etc. There is an infinitely long list of excuses they can and will make up on the fly.

[–]TRPonlySubsBanTRPppl0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

told me they did it in order to let me know that they’d like it to be on the down low.

WTF does that even mean? Bullshit excuse?

[–]macheagle0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

It means “Hey, I’ve just told you in public that I am officially attached, so if you wanna game me, yes I will let you do that and we may eventually hook up but it will all have to be discrete.”

[–]TRPonlySubsBanTRPppl1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

That's a crazy game. World is an odd challenge.

[–]macheagle2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Indeed. And men are hell of a lot simpler lol

[–]Foolishoe0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

They will bring it up so you can tell her it's okay to cheat with a chad.

[–]yungplayz10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Also (and I'm pretty convinced that's the most common scenario) if she got a pool of admirers to choose from, and your SMV would be on a lower side of that pool, then she "has a boyfriend". She is likely to not really have one, she uses a made-up boyfriend to get rid of your ass

[–]nobody_thinks1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

well put

[–]rafaelvicuna271 points72 points  (1 child) | Copy

She only has a BF if she feels her SMV is far higher than yours

[–]yungplayz12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Or if there is no boyfriend really, but she makes one up to get rid of your low SMV ass

[–]kaolin224149 points150 points  (1 child) | Copy

"Hey, I'd like to take you to dinner when I get back. Can I call you? "

"Sure, here's my number/Snap/Insta... I have a boyfriend, though. "

"Cool, see you next weekend. "

"Ok."

[–]geo_gan59 points60 points  (0 children) | Copy

Invited to attend the “are you better than my current boyfriend” challenge. If you pass you replace him.

[–]yungplayz64 points65 points  (1 child) | Copy

Wrong logic. When your SMV is low they pretend to have a boyfriend just to excuse themselves from your advances. They don't need to actually have boyfriends for that.

Now that your SMV got higher, thet stopped making up non-existing boyfriends just to shrug you off.

[–]j_arbuckle20126 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Correct answer

[–]Irtotallynotrobot13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Schrodinger's boyfriend

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Every girl has a boyfriend, even when she doesn't.

The "boyfriend" will impede the weak and unphase the strong.

[–]cracksniffer66673 points74 points  (8 children) | Copy

I started a new job a year ago, (dont work there anymore) and the hot chick would always refer to this guy as her "roommate" ... I started gaining weight from an injury, and suddenly, she was referring to him as her boyfriend. It fucking blew me away. It just makes me wonder how many times that has happened to me. Oh, and at the same job, the guy that texted my girlfriend to fuck, (which they definitely were hooking up) ending up doing a beer tasting at the same job. He was a short, tiny guy, but very handsome, and I'm big, burly, broad shoulders, tall, etc. Once this dude saw me, and realized who I was, I could have swore he shit his pants, but I was RP by then, and just went about my job. He knew that I knew. The past 2 years has been a huge awakening for me, and I think the RP is going to keep growing stronger, because hypergamy, social media, etc is going to keep inflating.

This sub keeps people safe, and I like that. It also welcomes young men into wondering if they are getting into bloody waters. Stay chill, and stay safe out there dudes. Everything is not what you perceive.

[–]temerity1814 points15 points  (7 children) | Copy

Injuries don't cause weight gain. Only ingesting more calories than you need can do that.

[–]cracksniffer66655 points56 points  (6 children) | Copy

So if I break my leg, and my job requires me to walk a couple miles a day...actually, fuck it. Not explaining shit to you.

[–]420KUSHBUSH29 points30 points  (2 children) | Copy

I like to think we can achieve world peace collectively and then I look into the comments section sometimes and my thoughts on the matter become uncertain

[–]ForYourSorrows7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

What does that have to do with anything? Do you eat food with your leg?

[–]vegeta_bless15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

A couple miles a day walking? That’s like what, 75 calories? Your injury didn’t cause you to gain weight.

[–]250kcal26 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy

So if I break my leg, and my job requires me to walk a couple miles a day

Your maintenance calories go down because you are less active, doesn't mean you need to keep stuffing your face.

I've gained from 145lbs to 210 of mostly muscle mass over 3 years, I know what it takes to gain weight you don't just accidentally get fatter lol. You make a decision to keep eating, even after you saw that you gained weight you decided to keep eating more, you ate so much and go so pudgy that your coworkers stopped thinking you were attractive.

[–]send_it_for_the_boys2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I fucked a girl last night, who was single. But afterwards she was upset that her babydaddy was gonna see my hickeys I left on her.

[–]gluten_free_soy_boi0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

So when she starts using the first person plural unprompted "we just moved to a new place"/"we got this dog a few weeks ago" is that them realizing you are interested and trying to shut you down early?

[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I mean you can’t trust anything girls say you have to watch what they do. Might just be plausible deniability.

[–]bigboxguy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No

[–]Estrogenoxygen0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

For he right guy she doesn’t have a boyfriend to the wrong approach she has a boyfriend

[–]ValorElite0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You pick up these things subtly as you get older.

Classic example is meeting girls while travelling. These girls are absolute dimes that definitely have guys back home but are forgotten about the moment they leave home.

[–]nicyhasreddit-5 points-4 points  (11 children) | Copy

Me when girl tells me she has a boyfriend:

'what has your boyfriend got to do with us? Stop telling me unrelated stuff'

[–]mega_kook19 points20 points  (4 children) | Copy

What is their response to this lmao

[–]420KUSHBUSH22 points23 points  (2 children) | Copy

"Wow that is totally the response I was hoping for that would blow me away and not cause me to instead look at you with a puzzled expression then start to fear for my own safety"

[–]yungplayz5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Have you been secretly recording them? No other way could you cite her reaction THAT accurately

[–]420KUSHBUSH3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I suppose I just know girls' hearts

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

an avo and a court appearance is my guess

[–]rukken5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Ask her if she ever tried having 2 boyfriends

[–]Greaterbird0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I like this one.

[–]addwater3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

it's cool I don't get jealous

[–]Sendmeloveletters2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

“Oh cute. I have a goldfish and some cats. You’re gonna love them.”

[–]nicyhasreddit2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lmao

[–]Greaterbird0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well that's a tryhard response if I ever heard one

[–]Pockyaf-4 points-3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Laycount?

Otherwise useless topic. Redeem yourself right now op

[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 16 points17 points  (2 children) | Copy

That’s a cringe question. I don’t keep track anymore, who ask this?

[–]Pockyaf2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Furthermore, in this world there only exist results and no results. In terms of getting girls, you talking about something that hasn’t gotten you the same result as other guys

[–]Pockyaf1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Then why are you making cringey post about what you think is having a positive effect with girls, when other are banging said girls while you still jerk off after your workout sess



You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2021. All rights reserved.

created by /u/dream-hunter