Been flirting with a girl on Bumble for a few days, she’s pretty cool, interesting, she’s maybe a 6.5 but she’s athletic and lives very very close in a bougie neighborhood so she probably isn’t crazy, and she tells me she’s down to come over and make out whenever. I really want a short notice fwb situation right now.

When making plans on Bumble she tells me she has a boyfriend and she “just wants to be honest” which I know is girl language for something specific but I don’t know exactly what. I joked that I usually don’t hear that until after and she asked for my number and flirting has resumed.

Now I’m torn. I usually don’t mind when I find out after. I’ve been the other guy many times, but I hesitated because she told me before which stood out to me, and now I’m wondering how to think about the situation.

I am very glad there is a community for Men to come to with this concern.