15yo niece is turning into a thot and I am disgusted by it. She doesn't give a fuck and does so many things that she will clearly regret. Are all women growing up like this nowadays?

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First of all I will say that I love her and care about her regardless, and a huge part of me feels that in terms of growing up in this technology world and the fact you can get attention at the click of a button is something that I may not understand as a guy, because I didn't have that growing up personally. So her brain is in this entirely new realm compared to riding bikes with your friends on weekends and playing with fucking sticks.

Now the last 3 years she has just rejected all of the advice, parenting, and decent opportunities to better herself in a healthy direction and become what I'd consider a respectable young woman. Me, my brother, my parents, nothing leaves an impact.

She has Instagram, Facebook (who doesn't I guess), twitter, that snapchat one, and some other message app. Just fucking GLUED to her phone all the time. She dresses in short shorts, has bright pink nails, wears tight tops and leggings and this includes to family events which I always find rather infuriating cause I've said to her before about the fact that she isn't going to a house party and maybe dressing more modest is a better look when visiting the wider family, she just laughs and says I'm being dramatic and shit, which I do laugh at cause it's as though she is fucking in lala land in terms of self awareness, but ultimately I hope she snaps out of it.

The real issues are her fucking pictures she posts online (to all those listed above). Just these thot selfies with full faces of makeup and lying on her stomach with her ass in a thong, pictures of her with an open mouth licking an ice cream captioned something stupid like #cheatday, hundreds of shit like that, just a bucket of bikini shots and selfies that are almost showing nipple, the poses, all that shit.

It's so fucking disappointing to see unfold because up until the age of like 11 she was very bright and you could actually talk to her at length about all sorts of crap.

I just see it is ramping up very fast and that she will probably end up tattooed up and working as a hairdresser while going to clubs every weekend. It's this constant fucking phone shit that does my head in, I see her glued to the attention and that without it she'd be empty inside.

Her downfall is making me feel terrible, anything I could do?

I've passed the point where I just right-off her behavior and actions as 'growing up' I more so see she is losing herself to the social network in some creepy futuristic way.


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Title 15yo niece is turning into a thot and I am disgusted by it. She doesn't give a fuck and does so many things that she will clearly regret. Are all women growing up like this nowadays?
Author 321cmecum
Upvotes 117
Comments 83
Date 24 July 2019 10:07 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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Link https://theredarchive.com/post/246426
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[–]philltered68 points69 points  (2 children) | Copy

Introduce her to better hobbies that will gradually force her away from these dopamine traps. Get her to the gym, cook with her, talk to her like a friend, play sports with her, show her negative and positive examples of people and where they end up with her current and improved lifestyles.

Seeing girls and guys way hotter than her at the gym is surely gonna trigger her to change in some way. Take her to events such as public lectures, gymnastics competitions, climbing gyms where hot women are being awesome. Introduce her to all of them so she realizes how one can be cool without going to clubs and knocking oneself out. While you befriend her this way, gradually tone down her phone usage. Lead by example.

I feel some people are genetically doomed for such dopamine traps but do give this a shot. Nothing to lose

[–]jzekyll48 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

This. No reason to give up on her.

[–]AlgaeEater75 points76 points  (19 children) | Copy

Dressing like that is what gets her the most attention/likes/comments on all her social media apps.

Being a guy, I get maybe 10-20 likes on a picture, but I really have to TRY. But with girls, they get 100, 200, etc, by just showing a little skin. Shes learning that, she feels popular/internet famous, when shes really not.

For girls its all about validation from other humans. I mean that's how Women evolved. Validation/acceptance to attract guys attention. But now in the 21st century, with the apps and posting pictures.. its so much easier for them to post pictures of themselves.

Look at all the boobie streamers on Twitch. They tease everyone by showing their skin and wearing skimpy clothing just to make money. They don't even play games (which is what twitch is for). Or look at that news article lately about that one girl selling her bath water to guys. It got her money because she knew it got their attention and validation. All she did was make a few 'orgasm' faces and guys bought it.

Heres a 15 sec vid of it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oyUfz6QawRs

Shes learning that by acting like a slut, she can get all the attention she wants. And shes learning that EVERYONE will love her if she does that. Which in reality isn't good.

Heres a BOOBIE STREAMER: https://www.twitch.tv/amouranth/clip/AdorableHonorableKittenNotATK

Above is a boobie streamer who purposely shows close ups of her tits, ass, etc, just to get people to donate her money. She makes THOUSANDS of dollars off this and does this all LIVE. She acts like its all an accident though so she doesnt seem like a slut. Look.. You can hate reading what I'm typing, but it's the truth.

Girls do this to get ATTENTION. MONEY, FAME. And loads of viewers/likes/etc. The reason your family member is turning into this is because of her Smartphone/social media.

It's a DOPHAMINE TRAP. Chemicals in the brain.

[–]321cmecum 1 points [recovered]  (11 children) | Copy

That video was cringe as fuck. Wtf is this shit.

[–]AlgaeEater24 points25 points  (10 children) | Copy

Her name is Belle Delphine (google her for info) who recently sold her own bath water online. She made Thousands off of it and actually sold out of it.

Yes it's cringe.. but its real. So now shes selling other things, and has over 300K fans on Instagram. This is all real. All because she acts slutty. She has no other talents.

Don't let your family member become that. I also added another vid to my orginal comment.

[–]321cmecum 1 points [recovered]  (6 children) | Copy

I don't even know what to say hey. The people who bought it..

fuck me. We need a new plague.

[–]AlgaeEater29 points30 points  (2 children) | Copy

True. I mean, the girl is semi-slutty, yes. But its the GUYS who are encouraging her by giving her the dopamine boosts.

The guys don't get anything in return, yet they still give her endless money and encouragement just to show skin.

[–]ppsh_201610 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

I’ve always wondered what’s it like to meet a guy who is actually that desperate.

[–]TehJimmyy16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

you actually do everyday in real life.

[–]youseikiri7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't even know what to say hey. The people who bought it..

fuck me. We need a new plague.

Well somebody in 4chan bought it to test it in a DNA lab... well there's no trace of DNA, so it's a just a tap water, still disturbing though.

Edit: the source is not reliable, so I'm not sure what is the truth.

[–]Ravenscar72 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

My thoughts exactly. Bring on black death round 2.

[–]redpilllogin4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

What we need to do is start raising men I stead of these weak pathetic excuses of humans that would watch a girl pretend to play video games and buy her fucking bathwater. What kind of man does that? Where are their fathers?

[–]VaultGuy199511 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

There's been a huge shit storm over the last few weeks with her. Once she got so many followers on her IG, she "promised" she'd make a pornhub account for all her thirsty followers. She ended up punking them by putting out videos of her actually playing with her cat or something. Her fanboys got so outraged that they reported her IG, and last I heard it got taken down. It still baffles me that these losers would buy somebody else's bath water. That just ain't right.

[–]RivenHalf2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Her instagram got deleted lol RIP

[–]jrr6415sun1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Did she really “sell out” or just pretend to sell out to get attention

[–]TehJimmyy6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Very informative comment. I would also like to add that this what "game" relies on.Not giving your attention away for free and making it worth it by increasing SMV.

[–]AlgaeEater2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Very true. The hard part is getting their attention while not giving them your attention. Sometimes it can lead to them not even noticing you.

[–]uptimex3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Girls do this to get ATTENTION. MONEY, FAME. And loads of viewers/likes/etc. The reason your family member is turning into this is because of her Smartphone/social media.

It's a DOPHAMINE TRAP. Chemicals in the brain.

This. It is like gaming for guys or masturbating or any addiction.

[–]bakamoney1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

At least they are making money off of it.

Most average girls will do way more and earn nothing lmao

[–]Alexander290 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

I Made an Instagram a week ago and already have 50 likes how do you have only 10

[–]jrr6415sun4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nice flex

[–]Standgrounding-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Weird flex but ok

[–]bEAc0n 1 points [recovered]  (5 children) | Copy

just take away her phone and return it when she’s 21.

[–]TehJimmyy11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

4Head

[–]ZR19874 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

You can't do that to other people's kids.

[–]redaftrp4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Can't, or shouldn't?

[–]Irtotallynotrobot32 points33 points  (3 children) | Copy

The exact same thing is happening to my niece. To be honest with you, I just gave up. Any attempt to tell her to modify her behavior only makes her feel more validated and more powerful. I think we'd both agree that the problem is that women no longer grow up living in their father's frame but accept the backwards community mediums as their frame, where they are gods in their own head.

Just straight up start ignoring her. It's very difficult to interact with women in the family that don't view you as the patriarch. If she's not listening to the patriarch then there is zero chance she will listen to you. I don't have a solution because I don't think there is one. The way children are raised in the west, I assume this where you are, is insidious. It's a major problem and nothing is being done about it. Girls always used to get arrogant around that age but there were countermeasures in place that we no longer have (religion, community, educational formality, etc). It really sucks, but trying to help a drowning girl will only pull you under too. A lot of this is commonly talked about on the sub.

Purge yourself of your emotions for her, for your own sake. Focus on being in a better financial position so that, if her dating or career strategies fail, you can be there to help your family. That's all you can do. General thought, maintaining family connections I important but pursuing them is living in the past; it's not always good for you.

[–]321cmecum 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

Pretty much all of this. Yeah I'm going to need to just accept her for what she is, and is becoming, and just do my part from the sidelines. Just fingers crossed she doesn't get fucking knocked up or something. Gladly no talk of tattoos, yet.

[–]chlorellamanna10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

She is only 15 .As soon as she hits 18 she will be buying impulse sleeves at 2AM after a couple banana daiquiris.

Fwiw I have a beautiful 7 year old niece (almost 8) who I am closer with than ever, but she is already enamored with phones and is as attention seeking as it gets. Blonde hair, blue eyes, yeah you get the picture. I am just trying to enjoy the fun years while I have them.

[–]Dank_Dennys2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

There is a good chance she will get knocked up or just smoke weed and then gateway into harder drugs and become a junkie. I guess doing your part from the sidelines is fine as the uncle but you better make sure your brother knows she’s going to head down a bad path if she goes unchecked.

[–]TheRealMewt8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

So shes doing some typical teenage girl shit. Maybe she'll grow out of it or maybe she won't. Being an uncle doesn't give you a lot of room to really deal with this in any other fashion than to just ride it out and hope she doesn't become a junkie or a teen mom.

[–]HornedBul19 points20 points  (2 children) | Copy

one way to go at it is to say you've had friends like her when you were her age, and you know how they are today. tell her you know exactly the road she's going down, and you know where it leads to (spoiler: it's not pretty).

you can also change your approach to the entire thing. rather than having a "wtf is that, that's fucking stupid" approach, just say "I understand what you're going through, when I was your age I was like this as well as my friends, and I can tell you some years down the road, it's fucking stupid"

keep in mind, she is very likely to ignore your advice regardless of what you do. as long as she has unrestrained access to that phone and social media, nothing will change. it's like moths to the fire

[–]TexAs_sWag5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Even better if you can pull up some of your old high school friends’ facebook pics to show their pathetic decline.

Ultimately, I wonder what the parents are doing to allow this behavior.

[–]Vouch33r18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sorry but it is bullshit advice. You want him to SAY OVERTLY that it is bad? Did you read the sidebar? Acta non verba. She won't give a shit about his words. It's AWALT like in every other case. He could take her for a hike maybe and get her away from this brain rotting shit. Otherwise I don't think she will improve much. What I'm sure is that OVERT (though IMPLICIT) scolding will not make her behaviour improve.

[–]herrLitschka8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

playing with fucking sticks

So playing with dicks? No worries, she is going to do this soon, too.

[–]omega_dawg934 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

well they all end up doing that... bc they like dick.

and guess what... they get waaaaay more dick than any of us men ever realize.

[–]abratoki2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This girl is 15. She is a teenager. Think about how you were when you were 15 and how much you listened to older peoples advice about what was good and was bad for you.

Unfortunately majority of the people (that I know) are unwilling to learn from others’ mistakes. (I know this to be true for myself in the past since im very headstrong).

They need to burn themselves sometimes to change their behaviour or to hit bottom. (Think about your mrp journey and what triggeree you to change course for instance).

The only thing you can tell her is that you tell her that you care for her, explain what you are worried about. - not in a way that YOUR STUPID AND YOU DO STUPID THINGS and hope she will listen. You cant make decisions for her. You cant live her life for her.

Failure and mistakes are a good thing in childrens development.

You can hope that this will happen before it is too late.

Good luck bro.

[–]HumbleTrees3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you could post a pic with a bit of skin and get shit loads of good looking women liking your posts or DMing you, are you telling me you wouldn't be doing it?

Yea. It's the same for her mate.

You can only be a patient advisor. Don't ever come across preachy or telling. You've got to remain close if you have any hope of subtle persuasion. She needs to respect your opinion or her. You establish that respect not by attacking her, but by leading her. Maybe offer up a weekend day a month to take her away form this shit and do a hike or something. Pitch it as "creating a useful balance" and that she can "shoe the world a different side to herself that enjoys hobbies and nature". Some shit to make it worth her while in her mind. Appeal to her obsession as a motivator.

[–]ZR19872 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

My niece is doing the same stuff. I actually posted this on here asking the same thing you are a few weeks ago. It's a shame man. I haven't found anything to help.

[–]tries_to_tri1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

The reality is almost all young girls are this way now. Your niece, OP's niece, my sisters, etc. Everyone asks for help for their relatives specifically, not realizing that they are ALL like that now. It's going to be really interesting to see what the next generation of females are like when they're 25+. I don't think it's going to be good, and I don't think the boys will be much better.

[–]bakamoney1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yup. Only strong fathers have any rel authority left and even then its a 50/50.

The cultural feedback is bullshit for girls.

Men can still deal with it because other men set you up straight and give legit real world advice. Where for girls and women they not only go down themselves they encourage all other girls to go down with them too and tell them that its good for them....

[–]IceBear---690 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The best thing you can do is have a loving wife & children to show her an example of what is possible. Try spending more time with her. Don't intervene....unless the behavior puts her in immediate danger. Most teens, heck people, won't listen to a word you say when you're trying to drop truth bombs on 'em.

Humans DO pick up on real-life examples. If they see you living well & being true to your espoused personal moral code, they are more likely to be open to influence.

Doing righteous work takes a lot of time & energy. It will be worth it if you truly care for her.

[–]IceBear---692 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Clearly her father is failing. Family is the only thing that ACTUALLY matters in this world at the end of the day. Each of my siblings had their first child this past year. You can be sure that I'll be there to influence them correctly if my siblings drop the ball.

Men have the beautiful, yet daunting challenge of being leaders. Whether you want it or not. Sometimes it's easy & other times it seems downright impossible.

The Red Pill is a great START, but it is nowhere near the finish line. Many of you here have accomplished great individual feats in this life, but few of you are stepping up to lead these women out of the darkness.

I highly suggest you tune in to Owen Benjamin & Roosh V's recent content to help break it down for ya.

Live with Logos

[–]Ekhochambeer6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

It’s not just girls growing up badly, it’s boys too.

[–]AlgaeEater8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Boys don't crave validation as much as girls do. Guys didn't evolve to seek validation. Girls did.

That's why you have majority of girls doing sick shit to get likes on Instagram.

[–]craneonacrane0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm 21 and feel like this is the BEST time period to be growing up in. Today's environments provide the real challenges in addition to all the problems coming-of-age boys have, which is thriving above a weakening society and setting myself apart. It gives me confidence that despite knowing i'm living in mass reeducation camps that is the leftist-dominating institutions, I'm not affected by any of that shit. I can be creative and sensible as fuck but can also sucker punch the mouth that insult me when it needs be. Its kind of liberating in a way.

[–]Vouch33r4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I say if you want her to change you can only do it COVERTLY by LEADING BY AN EXAMPLE.Read the sidebar, it is no different than taming a wild chick. Spare yourself the words for she will not listen anyway, that's what I bet on.

[–]PubicSalad7 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy

People in these comments are robots. THIS IS HIS FAMILY.

She is just wanting validation and is bored.

- Show your cousin some respect, understand why she is doing this thot shit.

- Show her inspiring people, hobbies, get her active in sports.

- Invite her out for something like a round of golf or lunch. Try to get her out and show her how munch fun life can be.

Hope this helps, best of luck.

[–]Innovi2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Have you ever interacted with a teenager as an adult? It's nowhere near that easy, you can actually read in OP's post that he has already tried talking to her. If talking some reason into her wouldn't be so hard this post wouldn't be here.

[–]Yavuzest2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’m 15 smh wish my uncle/cousin/other relatives invited me to do stuff smh My ass is 7/24 at home/reading/cycling/basketball/studying SMH

[–]PubicSalad5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Not just talk, but also show. She needs to get active and be surrounded with friends. OP needs to show her that there is more to life then posting pictures and emojis.

If she was active she wouldn’t feel the need to be on her phone getting validation from a bunch of strangers. She probably would forget all about it if she was busy.

[–]Innovi2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

There's just one simple but: teenagers are lazy. Why would she get busy and active when she can simply get her validation and attention just by being the way she is now? For her it makes no sense, even though it is obviously wrong for everyone else.

[–]huntersam131 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like her parents treat her as an adult rather than a child, which in turn makes her think that acting like an adult at 15 is age appropriate.

[–]omega_dawg931 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

OP she's not alone with this behavior and you're not alone with how you feel about it.

this is the normal thing these days for young women... nbd to them but as men, we can see the impending train wreck that's going to happen.

it will all go to hell when she mistakingly thinks that all the attention she gets transfers into power (over men). when guys pull back the attention, she will then resort to using her vagina to reel them back in... and a slut is then born.

i hope this doesn't happen but I've seen it way too many times in my own family.

social media feeds the insatiable desire for attention in women. to them, attention >>> dick.

[–]BusterVadge1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You can't fix others, you can only be a stand up guy and offer others advice.

[–]umizumiz1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Does she respect you at all?

If so, get off here and spend time with your fucking niece.

If not, quit worrying about it.

[–]whatagainst1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Shame her to tears.

[–]shitposterkatakuri1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think an option is casually mentioning girls that you knew that were like her. What did you think of thots when you were young? Did you say whatever you needed to to use them for their sex appeal? Did you actually wife up any of those thots or love them or want them in your life or were they toys with value only derived from their looks? Did they all end up being high performance individuals or super content housewives? Did they become losers? Maybe make comments about other thottery when she’s around. Like “Haha oh man look at that girl. I wonder how long it’ll take her to be a divorced cat lady.” I think if you depersonalize it a little and just make it about the behavior instead of HER behaving poorly, that will help.

I understand you wish you could just reason things out with her. Speak logically and be heard. I get it. Doesn’t seem like it’s gonna happen. So I’d suggest either being a bit more round about or giving up 100%.

[–]jonald_fyookbaIl 1 points [recovered]  (5 children) | Copy

You're not her dad or mom. She doesn't need your saving mr. hero.

[–]isodomize23 points24 points  (2 children) | Copy

rofl, this isnt some random bitch hes trying to fuck and tame. Its his fucking family. Some of the auto responses in this sub.

[–]omega_dawg932 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

this is his niece.

most kids don't even listen to their parents.

she doesn't give a fuck what her uncle says when she's defying her parents.

she will learn... and she's not alone. the women wanted it this way so their daughters will pay the price of getting ran thru with 1000s of cock miles on them before 20 yo.

"girl power" = blown out vagina by 25.

[–]Vouch33r0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She is also a woman thus AWALT applies doesn't it? His frame is non existent in her tiny brain. What shall he do, lock her in the room or beat her up? This backwards thinking is what 3rd world countries can boast of. She is doomed because there was nobody to SHOW HER how to behave. Sick it up OP if you read this.

[–]TheRealBrotherLouie2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah but you gotta do as much as you can to help others, especially if you know she will become lonely and sad.

Yes, the girls of this generation will need to to this kinda shit then get old and see the consequences and maybe the next ones will be different but it would be wiser to avoid all this shit

[–]gaunernick0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I mean. She is at a stage, where she is introduced introduced into the larger tribe, which is why the recognition of her peers (instagram) is more important than the recognition she gets from her own family.

The goal would be to find someone she kind of respects inside the larger tribe and then ask that person to teach her stuff. Maybe it's a person she is following. Maybe not Beyonce, but some low level influencer.

A heartfelt message of that person directed towards her fanbase (including your niece) will probably do more for her behaviour than a million likes on instagram.

[–]Azkik0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Be interesting, and provide a good example, but withdraw all support and acknowledgement that is not directly a response to improvement of behavior. Have a conference with the whole family. It needs to be a concerted effort. She has an addiction and it needs to be treated like one.

First and foremost, your goal is to get this dialectic to begin in her mind:

Participants visited the lab, where they were asked to reflect on their social media use from five respects: How much time they spent on social media per day and per week? What other meaningful things they could do with that time? What were the benefits of not using social media? Why did they use social media and were there alternative way to achieve the purposes? What were the adverse effects of social media use?

Without this, there's not much that can be done.

[–]Glennus6260 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hey man, the world needs hairdressers. Seriously though, you are far too concerned about something that you know in your bones you cannot change.

You read trp, you know how females are programmed. Shes going to go for easy attention every time.

All you can really do is love her for whoever she becomes. Otherwise you're just using this "these damned kids and their cellphones" whine for your own validation...

[–]NeverLace0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like she's just a teenager. I bet our mothers did stupid shit too. Same's happening to my cusin but I feel like its not my problem. Kinda my aunts fault

[–]lugrulo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thank god men don’t get this sort of attention or we would be really doomed.

[–]juliank47[🍰] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Cheers to you for actually trying to act on her behaviour. I strongly suggest you remind her father that she is still only 15 years old and he CAN ACTUALLY TELL HER what the hell to do and what not to. Take away her damn fucking phone for starters. Make her do chores around the house during the week and to reward her good behaviour give it back on weekends. I’m sure they can figure something out, parenting is not neuroscience.

I swear kids nowadays are exposed to phones and social media at an age where they are absolutely incapable of knowing how to manage themselves. Goddamn smartphones are like cancer for these kind of kids.

[–]TFWnoLTR0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's not all women, it's mostly just the ones with parents who dont bother parenting very much. I have a 15 and 17 y.o. sisters, both very much conventionally good looking, and neither of them behave like that.

Sometimes even with good influential adults, young girls just get the attention bug and you have to let them learn the hard way. I have a cousin my parents took in for a while who was a complete thot. Like, I once chased down this kid who I saw riding his bike away from my parents house in a hurry when I pulled up, thinking he was a thief or something. Turns out my 16 y.o. cousin was the town bike and would have dudes over and blow them whenever my parents left her home. Sure enough, she ended up getting knocked up by sole loser a few years later and now lives back with her abusive parents and has 3 fatherless kids. We tried really hard with her but nothing worked. It is what it is.

Theres always going to be dumb sluts and they have to come from somewhere. It sucks when it's someone you love, but you just have to accept it for what it is.

[–]SirAttackHelicopter0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No not all women. The ones who are influenced by shallow crap like social media are going to be. You do nothing. Distance yourself from her hobbies, but not her. Often times the best course of action is to lead by example, so hold your own integrity and be a standup guy, and she will adjust to a higher standard of living if she sees you as a role model.

[–]SpookyAceThePancake0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

you people are such sad little kill joys

[–]KevinMorganOfficial0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It’s her life. I have a cousin just like that. Got obsessed with jersey shore at 15 and now she’s achieved her dream of becoming trash. Except, there is no cameras or paychecks following her. Just trash.

You can go above and beyond and do what others are telling you; introduce her to new hobbies etc..

But realistically it’s a Hail Mary. You are better off focusing on improving your own life. Lead by example.

[–]RStonePT0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Being a thot is her singular best option.

Let it go, you can't fight incentives

[–]SeasonedRP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You say that you, your brother, and your parents have talked to her. You don't mention her father. It sounds like he didn't raise her well and is letting her run wild as a teen. There's nothing you can do about it. It's the father's job to handle these things. When they don't do so, you get outcomes like with your niece.

[–]dynospectrum70 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Some pretty shit opinions in here.

This is about parenting. No other way to slice it.

[–]bakamoney0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

One advice not mentioned still is you gotta isolate the thot leader.

Every girl has one or two that leaders. (Cause their own houses are fucked).

These girls will turn every one around themselves into thots too.

Find them and stop your neice from seeing them.

However be impartial. If your neice herself is the thot leader there's no fucking teacher who can fix her except life itself.

[–]warthundersfw-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

Have you tried negging her til she sucks your dick? You're repressed and wanna fuck her. That's why you're mad.

[–]craneonacrane0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Dude, leave that degenerated shit to leftists. We're above those.

[–]warthundersfw0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol yeah you're right. I was joking but you're right anyway

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten-4 points-3 points  (1 child) | Copy

You're not her dad. This new age puritan shit is whack. Get over yourself. You want to be a priest but priests fuck kids. Do you want to fuck your niece?

[–]omega_dawg931 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

yeah... somebody's daughter has to porn-up for the future.

[–]Aestheticcunt1996-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

u mad? Enjoy the decline☺️



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