Okay, so career has been taking some major shifts & because of this I'm traveling with great frequency lately to major metro's with a larger female pool. Here I present 3 scenarios in which there were some interactions with girls I was interested in. I'm looking for ways to smooth out the kinks in logistics/game to streamline the process of PUA with (potential plates)girls that aren't in my immediate area(Though I'll be "in & out" of their location) .

3 different situations:

  • I met a senior at a pretty prestigious university that was working at a relatively well known place in the area. I was there visiting as they were hosting a special event. I didn't notice her at first as she was very meek. But after I mingled I came back with a couple questions & it turns out we were working in the same industry. When I showed her my "work history" she started gushing & asking me abunch of questions(She was positively giddy "OMG YOU'VE ACCOMPLISHED SO MUCH, HOW?") about how I'd accomplished it & then she gave me some extremely private information about the market in the area.

I was blown away she seemed kind've shy so I tried to do alittle "push-pull" without putting "her on the spot" & she seemed like she responded relatively warmly despite the circumstances. I couldn't F-close or seal communication because I was visiting from out of town & the venue was closing. She actually had already kept it open an 1 hour later than it was supposed to so we could talk. It was Friday.

I think if my game was tighter I could had her that night.

  • Was around a strip mall there was a girl on an ice-cream date with an apparently low-charisma dude that looked like his mom dressed him. She was staring out of the window basically zoning out I'm wearing custom clothes & I walk by the window her gaze turns to me attentively. 1 hour later I finish handling my business & head to my car; low & behold that same couple was parked right next to me. As soon as she sees me next to her she freezes & just stares a her phone unmoving. Her date walks to his car & says "Okay, lets go" She doesn't move. He gets in the car...she doesn't move. He turns the car on..ditto..he says to her "Hey get in the passenger lets go" ditto..It's an awkward 2 minutes. He literally backs the car up to get the door closer to her & she doesn't move a muscle. I'm in my trunk, getting stuff out of my car ignoring the situation.
    Then he gets out with a concerned look he turns to me despite ignoring each other until this moment,.."It would be so easy for her to get in what is she waiting for..?" I don't want to get involved or put her on the spot so I /shrug my shoulders. Afterwards following my response she gets in(must've been an awkward car ride home when the girl in your car you just bought food for isn't really that interested in you).
  • Lastly, wild city bar sluts. After a long day of networking/meetings. I go to an afterhours spot. Hot chick in tight dress at 9 o'clock. She has a "life of the party" vibe & is with alot of female friends. No guys in sight. They all carpooled. I'm sort've observing while she's talking to people. Everyone's mingling & tons of dudes are giving her attention but she's not responding. Then I enter the mix as well, I make a joke & everyone starts laughing. She wipes her eyes, makes contact & puts her hand on my shoulder. I noticed but didn't really make a move. After the show I try to grab their attention but they were drunk & wild as Fuck. They were literally so loud that their shrieks of laughter(like 5 girls alone) were attracting gazes & they were louder than the stereo of my car. Was trying to pull up next to them & chat them up but it was downtown in a busy intersection right when the club-lines were starting.

#1 seemed like she was smarter. The door to were she was working closed at 9pm she was cool talking until 10:30 showing me her website, school work things she was working on. Telling me about the area. I feel like she already has a social circle of other peers/students so she's untrustyworthy of an outsider. I left my business cards(A front for exchanging contact info since we were discussing business) in my work bag got the social media add though. If the logistics were better I feel like I could've taken it further that night.

#2 She was clearly unattractied to the Beta she was out with. But the dude in addressing me after realising the girl wasn't paying attention to him was basically insinuating/accusing it was my fault. I wonder if there was a way I could've addressed her while de-esculating the situation with a response that flipped his insecurities on him while still flirting with her.

#3 "Wild city girls that talk about & fuck rando's every night". I didn't care I'd be cool with just smashing. But they were really fucking wild. After initial contact it was difficult to reengage. Not because they weren't interested, but because they were "YOLO"ing. Perhaps better rapport could kept them engaged with a sustained conversation & could've taken it from there.

Any suggestions for each scenario or more generally speaking? How do you keep logistics on point, what're some ways of staying in contact until you're back in town so you can "hang out" & escalate from there?