Disappointed by Female Friendship, never again.

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Title Disappointed by Female Friendship, never again.
Author SuperTigerVictory
Upvotes 66
Comments 61
Date 25 July 2019 12:27 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/246776
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/chgg7i/disappointed_by_female_friendship_never_again/
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[–]HurricaneHugues100 points101 points  (5 children) | Copy

She has feelings for you and is angry that you're overlooking her as a potential sexual partner in favor of her friends. If you pay attention you'll notice howbshe oainted everyone as messed up except her. Friend is a psycho who has bad taste in men, and all of a sudden you're an old bald gay friend to her.

Now you kniw better than tobgo out with room mates.

[–]hmsthinkingmeat34 points35 points  (0 children) | Copy

Plus she's trying to hammer his self esteem to try and make him think he's going to struggle to get any other girl.

Typical infantile psychological tantrum, woman style.

[–]addwater0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I doubt this.

Raise your SMV, OP.

You say you're attractive, but that's not how a generic bitch talks to an attractive male with game.

Don't add up at all bro lol

[–]whitebreadofficial 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Seconded. I have female friends at work because they'll be attracted to me but I refuse to fuck them to not shit where I eat. While they know I'm sexually unavailable to them, they know I have plates and the like (I don't talk openly about it, but I don't try my hardest to hide it, which over time has meant they eventually came to know).

They'd never talk to me like that. They kino me and compliment me often. My main plate/FWB is also hot as fuck, hotter than any girl I work with--and they know her. They would talk to my beta coworkers the way you describe though. In fact, if the work crew goes out and drinks, they will shit on them to me. Never, ever have they said negative things about me to me though except things that I take as veiled compliments like "you seem like a fuckboy sometimes" or similar sentiment.

[–]aDrunkenWhaler0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

A woman that knows she has no chance with you will be like an orbiter, just happy to be around you. A women that thinks she has a chance, but is ignored, or even worse, ignored for someone else, will feel rejected and will seek retaliation. Women can not handle being rejected.

[–]thrwy7547933 points34 points  (2 children) | Copy

she answers me, with a look of contempt in her face: "you are bald, your head looks like an egg"

She wants the vitamin D.

[–]FightGuard0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Because that's a shit test and women only shit test when attracted?

[–]thrwy754790 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's like elementary school, boys and girls teasing each other. He's in her head.

It's easy to use this to deliver some much needed nutrients.

[–]SolidLiquidGasPlasma85 points86 points  (8 children) | Copy

Don’t let gay girls live with you

[–]Endorsed Contributorleftajar30 points31 points  (6 children) | Copy

Don't live with women unless you're engaged. This rule will save you a lot of pain and misery.

[–]RevolutionaryPea734 points35 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don't live with women, period. Being engaged won't save you from anything, lol.

[–]thedocquestion 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

Let me ask you a question. Currently i am still living with my parents and pay about £200 a month as i graduated last week, where as the average rent for a apartment here in the uk is around £750.

The LTR that i am in is begging me to come and live in her apartment. She even went as far and told me i could come and only pay the 200 I'm paying right now.

Do you think the cons of living with an ltr still outweigh this situation?

[–]alleyteris11 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy

Bro , let me tell you this : my gf came to my house to live with me for a three month test period , trust me since she came here it has been the two worst months ever, cant wait for her to leave , it made me realise how hard it is to live with your gf and so far im even thinking of never getting married after that experience ...

[–]molded_bread[🍰] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Can you expand more on why you didn't enjoy living with your gf? I've never lived with a woman and i'm considering bringing my gf over to live with me for a while.

[–]alleyteris2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Trust me bro, there is a reason why it is one of the iron rules of tomasi.

Everything is ok until you start providing for another person who is not your wife yet but still a gf. Also its really hard to hold frame and a lot of mystery is gone. Next thing you know , youll feel like someone is intruding your life , i cpuld let it slide if it was the person who i was going to marry but for a girlfriend, never again .

Trust me this rule is golden

[–]Senior Endorsedmax_peenor0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

save you a lot of pain and misery.

Not getting engaged will too.

[–]AggregateFundingRisk1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

bingo, lmao

[–]3chazthundergut23 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's hard enough finding a solid Male friend. Female friends are a waste of time.

[–]2RedPill-BlackLotus29 points30 points  (2 children) | Copy

What to do? And why do you think this behaviour ensued?

Because vaginas, that's why.

The sisterhood is competitive as fuck, they have all kinds if infighting amongst their ranks.

Your making weird alliances on the island and getting the behavior to match.

Your living with a woman. Now you have some shit to deal with you dont need.

[–]Senior Endorsedmax_peenor4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Because vaginas, that's why.

Ding ding ding. I see a lot of guys trying to decipher there whims of one vagina owner. It's a complete waste of time.

Shaking your fist at the sky yelling, "but why him?!?!?" Because in the moment, tingles. Not for you. Move along. Stop pretending you'll understand. Man-tingles is a pulsing erection. We are simple folk.

[–]2RedPill-BlackLotus2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I like that essay.

[–]Lambdal711 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

She’s 20, people are not even concsious at that age, be it men or women.

Also, pre-selection.

[–]RedHoodhandles11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. Never move in with a female (with whom you don't have kids).

  2. She's bitter that you don't want to bang her. In her world it is your fault of course. You don't deserve her you balding gay fag who only may fuck low tier psycho bitches on a good day.

[–]Cryptoguru77717 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. She's 20
  2. She's jealous
  3. She probably has some form of feelings for you (due to preselection, awalt)
  4. Don't care what the bitch thinks of you. Never believe what a woman says.

[–]tee00058 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

She wants you bad.

Had a similar thing happen to me with a girl who stayed in the same building. We never said a word about sex but everytime we go out we would come back and fuck, next day everything back to normal. She was crazy though.

[–]uptimex5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just self-esteem issues. Long-term she can just affect your self-esteem with subjective shitty annotations. You can bang 99999 girls and you come home and she is waiting for you to say "you are not attractive", "you are not enaugh masculine", "you are too masculine and blunt", "you are gay" etc.

[–]CorytheWarrior15 points16 points  (8 children) | Copy

Start fucking your roommate. Omg why am I not ever in these types of situations? I think she is jealous bro. She semi wants your cock. Male female friendships cannot exist without one having feelings.

[–]theparadoxapple-5 points-4 points  (7 children) | Copy

Is that really true?? I have a really close female friend, but I know FOR SURE that there are no feelings between us at all. 200% sure.

[–]theparadoxapple2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Y’all mfs take this shit too seriously lmao. My female friend is ugly in my opinion (and vice versa), that’s why I believe that male and female friendships can happen, only if there aren’t any feelings/attraction involved

[–]the_Milkweed3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

The type of men in TRP that think you cant be friends with girls arent capable of holding frame in the most normal of situations. Weakness breeds such rigid structures. A confident intelligent man will have no issues being friends with women, impatient infantile men will not be able to.

[–]theparadoxapple1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Thank you. There are too many people on this subreddit that think they are fully red-pilled and know everything about TRP just because they read the side bar once. If people don’t fully understand what they are talking about and are spreading misinformation, new members of the TRP will eat it up because they don’t know any better.

[–]the_Milkweed0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I just made a post on this topic if you're interested in taking a look

[–]usernameishardtomake1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bro 200% ain't enough

[–]xddm26530 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

200%? Call me when that number is at 1000.

[–]AggregateFundingRisk-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

its not true its bullshit

[–]LightyFarron5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just bang the fk outta her

[–]Senior Endorsedmax_peenor2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

See, your problem is you don't understand the hamster and you probably never well. I don't. I just know what that fucker does. Ever hear a woman tell you how she has trouble sleeping? You better have, because they all do. This is because the hamster keeps them ups at night rationalizing everything that has happened to them. They are constantly rationalizing everything.

We spend our energy putting people on the moon. They spend their energy reconciling their place in the world. They are WAYYY better at it than us, so stop trying to understand it.

Her drunk words were a drunk hamster's rationalization as to why she was with you in the moment. You may think it was her way of saying she wanted to fuck but you were too much of a fag to do it. Or it just might be her airing out why she spent the night with a fag instead of getting railed by Chad. Or it was a billion other things.


Watch her actions. Do what you want to do and what you know to be right. In the end, it might get your dick wet.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas11 points12 points  (17 children) | Copy

HTF are you 26 and never had a female friend?

[–]HurricaneHugues50 points51 points  (1 child) | Copy

He's wise

[–]RevolutionaryPea78 points9 points  (7 children) | Copy

Why is that so hard to believe?

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

Because non-autists are typically able to befriend at least ONE girl over the course of several decades. I mean that just screams "psychopath."

[–]RevolutionaryPea70 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Women are boring as fuck. Men only "befriend" them because they want to bang them.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Regardless I'm talking about even in middle school/high school/college. It's really bizarre to never have a single female friend.

[–]RevolutionaryPea70 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

If you're weird looking in school you won't have a single female friend.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Not true, can confirm.

[–]RevolutionaryPea70 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

How about you stop projecting your experience on to others? Don't you have female friends to be gossiping with anyway?

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How about you stop projecting your experience on to others?

Me? Projecting? NEVER.

Don't you have female friends to be gossiping with anyway?

Nope, they've realized I know they were orbiting me :-(

[–]GGrub85 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

In my 30's and never had one. I avoid female "friends" like the plague. I do welcome them in my social circle though, they can be useful for getting extra sex and information gathering.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

In my 30's and never had one.


[–]GGrub80 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, I either fuck them or keep them at arm's length. Friendship is for guys only.

[–]FightGuard0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

How does one even get a female friend?

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Being a normal human

[–]dark_webdev 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

you're just an orbiter to them ... feelings or not

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You're only an orbiter if you stay "friends" with them under the expectation that it'll eventually lead to sex, and don't bother getting with other girls. Wanting to shoot the shit with whoevers cool ain't orbiting. Game other girls, it's not an issue.

[–]send_it_for_the_boys0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That sounds annoying, and I agree with these guys livin with a girl is stupid. But it sounds to me like she got really jealous because she’s into you and you were about her friends and the other chick. Your call if you want to escalate....Personally i wouldn’t considering she’s bi and lives with you..

[–]Aesthetik_10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Don’t tell her you like her friend mate, that was a stupid move. You should have gamed her friend but covertly, and if she found out just be flirtatious with her also.

You set yourself up for this situation. A bisexual girl is not a lesbian, and even lebsians can catch feelings in these cases.

Also, your frame is weak as fuck. First of all you don’t let these remarks get to you, secondly, you should have identified them for what they were, signs of jealously on her part, aka your success!

Hopefully now you know better ✌️

[–]NorsemanLewis0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I think she is attracted to you. A few comments here implied that a hot girl never talks like that to an alpha male, but that is simply not true. Women shit test everyone who let's them, this includes the top tier men, even movie starts and males in power. That's how nature works.

I think in the moment, you got offended. That was the problem. She obviously feels threatened. You consistently showed interest to her friends, which is a killer for a girl that is attracted to you. If you receive sexual attraction from other females, especially around her, she will be gradually meaner.

The issue is, her female sensors receive your "insilted" transmitters. You cant hide the fact you were hurt. It is physically impossible. Your body transmits your current state of mind no matter how hard you hide it. The magic in passing the shittests and being unphsed is to honestly not being insulted. That what works, pretending does not.

What do you do now? That's up to you. You know that she most likely likes you now. She will probably continue grilling you though. Your behaviour is a direct insult to her ego and self esteem. She will talk shit behind your back to her girlfriends and she will automatically try to sabotage your success with women, i.e "he is my bald gay friend". She knows very well it is an insult and an inappropriate thing to say. No girl who respects you or has no agenda against you would ever have that attitude for no reason. Girls shittest, but public shaming and attacks in that way are harsher than usual, and in their right mind they wont do it - on the contrary, she would support you and try to hook you up with her friend.

Take this as a reminder to work on your personal issues, you are insulted because you somewhat agree or are insecure about it. Fix that most of all.

About her? I.m.o dont shit where you eat, but if you want some adventures before you depart, fuck her brains out.

[–]IceBear---690 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I legit spit water everywhere when I first read the title like........well yeah.

If it's like any other female roommate situation I've witnessed.....I'd feel it out. If it's green a light, then definitely start banging in the last month or 2. Any sooner & things could get weird. That is assuming you WANT to & that your paths aren't likely to cross again.

[–]trele_morele0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'd have sincerely chuckled at those last comments. She really got to you, Mr. "I mantained my frame" haha

[–]sehlid0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Honestly brush it off and maintain your friendship. Her being angry will pass, it may be wise to cautiously discuss it with her and get an insight into her thinking or what she will reveal. Don't attempt to bring her into your frame or impose her attraction up in you. Don't make her 'admit' anything, just talk about it pleasantly if she does not get better. It is very useful to have female friends , but understand that RP wisdom applies to this too. She is not your bro, dont become so cynical that women can tell you hate them

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