Going to keep this short to avoid any identifying information.

Friends Jack and Jill have been married for 10+ years. 2 kids. Both socially and physically active. Both have very high SMV (solid 9s). He had a low stress job for most of the marriage then a couple years ago he got promoted. More money but more hours. She felt neglected. Lots of fights but then she started seeing another guy. When he found out she ended it but ever since then he's been whooped. Won't spend time with the guys or go out. He took a lower stress job. It's like she red pilled his ass. I haven't told him about the red pill. I don't think he be interested and I read to let them come to you. But she acts as if she's aware of red pill even though I know she isn't (she's not an ideas person). But she sure spun plates to bring the relationship to a Main Event.

So my question is not how to get my bro back but what do you guys think about girls red pilling guys? The consensus is that AWALT but she is has a very in charge personality and genuinely seems to want to wear the pants. I do think Jack should digest RP and increase his own attractiveness by growing a spine but honestly it seems like she got what she wanted. If red pill theory holds she will get what she wants and then not want what she gets because she'll loose attraction for him even more. Very sad. Sad how women are. So I guess yeah, AWALT.