I noticed between me and all my brown friends who get laid, white girls lose interest really fast if you make it obvious you're in love or that you think she's high value. My friends will purposefully treat them like shit, and at first I didn't do it because my personal type of white girl I like (the girl-next-door type) seemed too sweet to hurt like that. But I found that there just isn't enough passion without being a little douchey, I try not to give them false insults/insecurities, though I won't censor myself if I actually feel a certain way about what they're doing. Instead of doing the fake insults thing, I just ghost them for a few days or cancel dates or avoid hanging out with them even when I really miss them or crave them, just to keep them guessing and to keep the spark alive. I like to think that that's the stoic thing to do.

So because of that, I think to myself "don't tell her you're in love with her... when you're fucking her let your body tell her. And it's better for her to hate you and hatefuck you anyway than for her to like you but not sexually". Also, another question related to the one in the title, what's the correct response to "I love you" from a white girl? I usually go "awww" or something and snuggle and kiss them without saying "I love you too", and if they press me on that I usually say "I'm not sure how I feel yet".