Approach many girls while out at bars/clubs, but can’t for the life of me break into escalating into at least kissing. Advice?

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July 27, 2019
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Hey, would appreciate some advice on this m.

I approach a lot, ask her what her name is, sarcastically make jokes / playful / getting her to smile and actually be genuinely interested in talking with me, but after 5 minutes it just gets stale and her friends pull her away and she happily leaves.

Clearly I’m not escalating


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Title Approach many girls while out at bars/clubs, but can’t for the life of me break into escalating into at least kissing. Advice?
Author Rrfei
Upvotes 94
Comments 15
Date 27 July 2019 06:23 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/247057
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/cikze8/approach_many_girls_while_out_at_barsclubs_but/
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[–]FinancialThanks1100 points101 points  (2 children) | Copy

[–]crespo_modesto0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Good read

edit: removed my asinine comment

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed43 points44 points  (0 children) | Copy

What part of Polarize, Isolate, Escalate do you not understand?

Plus, don't make out at bars. It fucks up your chances of taking her home.

[–]jizzonmypants25 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy

You can’t fuck a girl with jokes op you need to escalate lol

[–]InsidiousCurve6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Stop talking so much after she's giving you IoIs and build sexual tension. Stare into her eyes and if she stares back for some time, then go ahead and kiss her.

If there's a ton of people around, then isolate her and take her to a more secluded spot.

[–]deville0510 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Pfft.. Kissing is for FAGS! go straight to buttfucking

[–]zeitdruck5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

This guy fucks.

[–]TheGreatFadoodler8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Get a girl alone. Just kiss her. There’s like a 30-40% chance it goes well. If it feels right ur odds are like 80%

[–]Holigram[🍰] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Bro you mention bars/clubs? 1. If you’re planning on sticking exclusively to that environment...well, I wouldn’t be exactly envious of the women your pulling. 2. In that environment women are looking for big time players to fuck because it’s the most shallow, materialistic, rigid social climbing fest there is. Think about it from the chicks perspective bro, they’re there hoping to score someone flashy, famous, challenging, rich, and with a very solid and hard to break social circle with status. You got that shit? If not pick somewhere more naturally within YOUR circle where YOU are dominant to score? You got friends l? Good, bang their friends. You got cool coworkers? Cool, try and set up some dates with them or their friends.

[–]Hamster_S_Thompson25 points26 points  (2 children) | Copy

Don't fuck your coworkers

[–]BusterVadge13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

1000x this.

[–]PolukranosEatsWords8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yep don't shit where you eat.

[–]NeuroBoss310 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Try literally just going out to a bar by yourself just to make friends and not bang any chicks. The female pull will surprise you.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How's your kino game?

[–]dutchgguy-5 points-4 points  (0 children) | Copy

stop approaching?



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