Wife went to visit sick family member out of town for about a month. Found evidence on a USB that she was at a guys house overnight.
Not sure what to do next.
I am a fucking catch if I do say so.
Her and I get along great. She respects me and takes my lead, we laugh, have fun and have great sex and are good friends.
She had been talking lately about getting older and losing some of her great looks etc. Our 10 year anniversary is coming up.
I've been busy for work, and haven't had time or inclination to "cash in" on my new late bloomer, handsome man-in-demand status.
Never once cheated or really even thought about it honestly.
Mentally and emotionally I'm just fine.
I know I could do pretty damn well. We have great kids. Home life is great, kids are great.
Not sure what next move is.
She shows no real need to branch swing, and I'm sure she couldn't land anyone long-term as great as me. So it would be painful to see that whole process play out with her understanding the reality of her diminished prospects for anything longer than ONS.
Psychologically I'm just thinking, well ok you had fun, (hopefully the one time only)... so I suppose I will start to as well... and just see how it all plays out.
Any thoughts? Suggestions?
Kind of at a loss here, not sure how to proceed and accept the new reality.