Plates break quickly if I ignore them; they find higher-SMV men who will spend money on them. I'm not even salty about it, but how do you think I can reduce the turnover? Any experiences or thoughts?

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August 11, 2019
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I'm a 22 y/o white guy in Southeast Asia. I spend little/no money on meeting women. 5/10 for looks. I'm pretty good in bed. Best plates for me are wealthy student girls but they're rare and they travel/move; plates vary by age and background.

My RP wake-up call was finding out that a girlfriend was still hanging out with her ex (a 26 y/o dude who'd dated her for 3 months and was now just buying her weed). I nexted her quickly and thought "good riddance". At the same time, I thought "why would this dude even bother with his ex like this?"; I was just happy I'd spent no money and not-too-much time on her.

Now I'm spinning plates. I'd say most are 6-7 in the looks (or butterface, or cute but poor English fluency and no good to hang out with). I'm usually good for 3-5 hookups before they do something which is worth a "soft next" and once my abundance is clear to them they just get other dudes. I see from social media that they're getting older handsome dudes taking them to fancy restaurants and stuff.

Again, I can't really be jealous of these dudes. I think "hey, when I'm 28 and making more money I'm gonna fuck better women than these ones I have now". At the same time, it's a bit mentally exhausting to be constantly replacing plates.

Anything you think I can do to improve retention? My next strategy is to start approaching sexier women; so I feel like I have to have a better understanding of things before I can move forward with that.

Appreciate your thoughts.


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Title Plates break quickly if I ignore them; they find higher-SMV men who will spend money on them. I'm not even salty about it, but how do you think I can reduce the turnover? Any experiences or thoughts?
Author Pimpcool420
Upvotes 78
Comments 41
Date 11 August 2019 01:27 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/248302
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/cowpyc/plates_break_quickly_if_i_ignore_them_they_find/
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[–]Lambdal7 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

Comfort.

Every plate breaks if you can’t give them at least some locey-dovey every few weeks, except for very rare plates that are very into you.

[–]TheNincro14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yep, 100% alpha doesn’t work all the time, gotta give them the thread to hang on. 80% is better

[–]Imperator_Red0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Truth

[–]Specialcz33 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

What are some relatively low effort techniques to provide this comfort? I don't buy plates anything out of principle, and tend to be 100% alpha with them. So far it's worked, but I've sensed a couple of plates slipping since I don't provide any comfort.

[–]L3onard355 points56 points  (11 children) | Copy

they find higher-SMV men

There you go. Improve yours and you can literally put a plate on the shelf, pull it back out a year later, and eat the sloppiest meal off of it.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (9 children) | Copy

truth. The higher your SMV, you can do whatever. you can literally smash that plate then tape it back together, and she'll keep coming back, if your SMV is high enough

[–]jackandjill22-1 points0 points  (8 children) | Copy

This is a "no shit" statement but increasing your SMV is a years long approach if it ever increases at all. Even if you improve yourself it isn't necessarily going to do anything for your SMV other the incremental changes.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

that sounds a little black pill would you agree?

[–]jackandjill22-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

No, TRP doesn't focus on the backend sometimes. They just motivate you. This process isn't an easy process it takes alot of work. After increasing your game & maxing your looks; status increases the most effective means of bagging women are literally the most difficult process to go through.

[–]Kimdabrim0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Some people have higher potential SMV than others just because of genetics. If you're at a plateau you might just have to face the fact that you're not going to get much better than you are currently at.

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

It's not a personal statement from, just an observation. TRP users Shouldn't take people's viewpoints as specific to them rather than a discussion of theory in general.

[–]Kimdabrim0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

It seemed like a personal statement when you said "increasing your SMV is a years long approach". OP did ask a personal question and you can't just act like everyone is on a level playing field.

Some people are capped at a 7, some at a 10. The 10 is going have a completely different experience and that's the reality. You can't tell a 7 he can keep improving to be a 10 unless we find a way to change our DNA.

A big problem with a subreddit like this is there will be doomer 7s giving advice that's relevant to themselves to a 10.

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The majority of men overestimate their value, everyone especially in America believes in the "lottery effect" that they are special & superior thereby giving them an unfair advantage in a rigged system. I'm giving you the real you're probably not a 10 & neither is Op so you shouldn't be giving advice under the impression you are. The reality of the matter is that looks max & game are the easiest respectively. But increasing your heritable or merit based worth in society takes significantly more effort if for no other reason than here isn't a strait forward path to doing it.

I know this sub is primarily filled with overconfident dudes who prefer actionable advice. But self deception will get yiu no where.

[–]Imperator_Red0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

So if you put on ten pounds of muscle this won’t noticeably improve your smv?

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It'll probably improve your overall figure but until you buy better looking clothes that go along with your new figure unless you have your shirt off no ones going to notice. People recognize results not the process.

[–]WIA20XX21 points22 points  (3 children) | Copy

I'm a 22 y/o white guy in Southeast Asia.

You have the wrong mind set for your environment. For the red pill in general if you ask me.

Farang fuckers are looking for a bigger and better deal to drain his wallet/green card out for a better life.

They should be trying to keep you around.

[–]Pimpcool4206 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yeah no I just make it clear from the start that I have no money. I get the odd "model" who turns me down for sex after finding out I won't be her "sponsor" but I'm mostly working with girls who are financially OK.

[–]Kabuki4311 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Oh you are trying to honest and white knight with these hoes who are blatantly gold digger. Play their game and beat them to it. Show them you can give them the world the stars the moon. See how fast the get wet and spread their legs for you.

[–]Pimpcool4200 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I can't afford pregnancy scares though lmao if they gold-dig hard enough I gotta flee the country.

[–]SpinPlates31 points32 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm a 22 y/o white guy in Southeast Asia.

Lol you are shooting fish in a barrel and want to know how to keep the fish around?

You're a white man in Asian. Get off reddit immediately and go get your dick sucked.

[–]Two_kids_in_a_coat10 points11 points  (10 children) | Copy

Sex god method.

Read it.

Follow it

[–]Sendmeloveletters5 points6 points  (6 children) | Copy

I’m gonna check this out

Edit: nvm it’s $1000 on Amazon

[–]AdeHMar17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

Free if you sail the seven seas.

[–]Pussyshack 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

BitTorrent nigga

[–]Sendmeloveletters0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I’m not gonna print out a whole ass book

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K181 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

A g? Wtf? I just googled a free version.

[–]Sendmeloveletters0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I can only find pdf versions

[–]Madhatter747-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

Is it really life changing?

[–]Anacondainahonda9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes. It's IMO the most important part of keeping girls around. If you look reasonably decent, aren't too beta, and fuck like a machine, she will be back. Good sex can make up for a lot of flaws. Why do you think guys keep going for the crazy bitches when everyone knows not to stick their dick in crazy?

[–]Two_kids_in_a_coat3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yup. You give mind blowing sex they always come back.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Find your mission, raise your social status, raise your bar(go for the hottest chicks), exercise, don't try "to improve retention". Make clear that if they wanna hang out again, they have to earn it.

[–]NabroleonBonaparte11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

white guy

southeast asia

Ur literally a god there, so there has to be more going on than what you think.

The 2 I can think of off the bat is

1) Stop telling them upfront about money. On one hand you’re eliminating mystery and DLVing, on the other hand it’s a little disrespectful unless they legit ask you to pay for things.

2) Asia is more traditional than Anglo countries so what’s beta for America/Europe is dread for Asia. So don’t be too shy about being a little beta to get their comfort levels right.

Calibrate

[–]Pimpcool4204 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

As far as the money thing goes, we never actually discuss it. It's just that I tend to meet them at cheap restaurants and curve their invites to fancy clubs.

As far as communication, there's this language barrier thing where the locals tell each other they "love" each other after like 2 weeks of dating. The local-locals mistake "like"/"love" while the westernized ones are westernized.

But yeah I guess minor tweaks could improve things a little each time and stop the dread from being too much.

[–]W_O_M_B_A_T3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Suppose you had a boss who only gave you something to do one day a week, and on other days literally refused to respond to you much less give feedback or instructions. You'd go looking for a new job pretty soon, even if it paid less.

Nobody likes feeling useless and redundant.

It's not about money or looks. They're getting bored.

[–]Stupyyy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It will get better as you get older, acquire wealth, you work on improving your looks etc.

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why do you want to retain substandard plates?

[–]ValkyrUK0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Wow you're such twat

[–]CyberXydra1110 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Try push pull tactic?

[–]usernameishardtomake0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Lmao "turnover"

[–]Pimpcool4202 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

80% of the girls make the logistics of meeting complicated, every new plate involves a coffee/drink meeting; gotta devote a bad amount of time to "recruitment".

[–]usernameishardtomake0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

LMAO! Red pill problems hahaha



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