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Broke the rule "don't shit where you eat"

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August 10, 2019

So I live with three girls. The moment I moved in I felt like they all wanted to fuck me. Went out with two of them and one of the girls, who is Latin, couldn't control herself and was all over me. Went home with her and banged her. I personally can be cool with that and act like nothing happened while still giving her a bit of emotional support (so she won't go ballistic and act all rapey). She also stressed that she's cool with it won't get all clingy, tho she is "afraid she will fall in love with me". Any extra tips on how to handle this? We're all new in a big foreign city. Moving out ain't an option.

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Title Broke the rule "don't shit where you eat"
Author Detherion
Upvotes 84
Comments 40
Date 10 August 2019 06:01 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]cracksniffer66683 points84 points  (19 children) | Copy

Oof. I did this, ended up in a relationship with her, and it ended up being someone I SHOULD NOT have dated. It was horrible..

A lot of girls in this situation will want to fuck you to gain control over you, so don't let it happen. Hold steady if you're going to continue this. It's a rule for a reason, ya know.

[–]Detherion 1 points [recovered]  (15 children) | Copy

Well the conversation that evening was always like we are both free and don't want relationships and all this stuff. Our other roommate also ended up banging some rando from the bar but she knows we got together. I personally think she is a bit of a freebird and will go on to bang other guys, but we all know how women can be, especially if the other dudes are not worth their time... I just hope we can all continue to live together in peace as they are actually cool girls. There was hardly any way for me to stop this from happening, our roommate was picking up this guy and she was just grinding on me and kissing me over some reggaeton. Latin girls!

[–]HurricaneHugues21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy

"There was hardly any way for me to stop this from happening"

That's you refusing to take ownership of your lack of discipline. You had EVERY chance to stop it, but you didn't. Take ownership of your lack of actions and discipline. You're not a woman.

[–]cracksniffer6664 points5 points  (13 children) | Copy

Sounds awesome. I wanna move somewhere... how'd you land a job?

[–]Detherion 1 points [recovered]  (12 children) | Copy

Well, I live in an Asian metropolis and it's extremely easy to find high paying jobs here. You can bang girls from all over the world (not just Asia) and you're just competing with a few white and russian guys, few of which are actually top tier (as Asian guys in Asia are facing a masculinity crisis). Go now, it's worth it. My plan is to move to Latin America after a couple more years here.

[–]cracksniffer6661 point2 points  (8 children) | Copy

I can get a job as an American?

[–]Detherion 1 points [recovered]  (6 children) | Copy

Abso fucking lutely. You can make more money here teaching English 2h a day than in a 9 to 5 back home. If you have the qualifications you can live like the emperor over here. China, Thailand, Vietnam are all paying big money for the likes of us.

Will delete this thread later for the sake of anonymity and because I don't want half the world to move here, but this is a free service post for you!

[–]ZeppKfw2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Can vouch for that emperor thing. I just moved to America to get a job and when I came back to my country in Asia it's like I own everyone.

[–]cracksniffer6660 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I thought you need a Bachelor's degree?!

[–]Detherion 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

What do you do, man

[–]TristanS30 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What qualifications do you need?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Where are you living?

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

So long as you're not a victim of /u/observationalhumor 's wirefraud.

[–]agsuy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Latin America seems vague lol. Where?

I live here so feel free to ask for advice. Btw is it too much to ask which country are you living in?

[–]Atheist_Utopia0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

where do u live

[–]ldamien650 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Dude. Speaking as a white guy currently living in Singapore, I feel like your chances of landing some high quality poon are exponentially higher when you’re seen as a “unique commodity” just for being white in a predominantly Asian habitat.

[–]Irtotallynotrobot0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Yeah man, exactly what I ran to with a work "relationship". She turned out to be the nasty type that dates guys at work to make way for her own rise. Pretty sure she fucked half the field crew.

To be honest with op, I say run with it. It's going to be a hard lesson but there's really no replacement for going through it yourself. I get the sense that you want people to convince you out of this but if it gets to that point, don't take our word for it; try it out for yourself. My suggestion is to make sure you've saved up money for any potential outfalls so you don't end up strung out.

[–]cracksniffer666-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Oh God. Flashbacks. I remember dating her, and knowing everyone at work already fucked her. I WAS that chump. She disappeared with this one guy one day, who I thought was my friend (simp, bluepill mindset I used to run with) and I could NOT get ahold of her, neither call nor text. A month later, this guy approached me at work, and said, "Yo... Yo man......your girl just saying that..." and I begged this fucking guy to elaborate. He wouldn't. The motherfucker died a week later from heroin. I brought up what he said, to her, and her response was, "well he passed away, and we can't really speak for him." they definitely fucked. He told me if she was single he would try to date her. Luckily, she was a hoe and he got to fuck her before he died. Fuck both of those people, and everyone like them. People are quick on Reddit to scream" incel!!!" but they really don't know what the fuck you've been through. That chick scarred me, and make me a bitter person. At least I'M honest. Ugh. Could use a fucking hug or something after getting that off my chest. Shit hurt, dude.

[–]1Terminal-Psychosis0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Part of the loss we go through on the road to adulthood. Hurt, Anger, Dealing, ... eventually Acceptance.

Keep reading the side bar. Be your own best friend. As men, we have to be our own father and mother.

Get yer shit together, learn to live for yourself, then the the kid inside has room to play too.

Setting healthy boundaries is key, and a core tenant of TRP.

Gotta accept that responsibility to protect yourself, from any manipulation,

and women have a natural born advantage for it.

[–]nobody_thinks136 points137 points  (3 children) | Copy

  1. move out.
  2. do not get this bitch pregnant
  3. use it as leverage to bang the other roomates (fuck her hard and loud when the other girls are there)
  4. do not get any of the other bitches pregnant.
  5. don't live with women what the fuck is wrong with you

[–]Dr_Booty_Eater6941 points42 points  (0 children) | Copy

this person understands so much

[–]cracksniffer66611 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

God living with women is insufferable. Like a mom or a sister is livable, but voluntarily living with a woman is fucking dumb.

[–]Small_Two3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I respect you my guy

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev18 points19 points  (3 children) | Copy

So I live with three girls.

I see where you went wrong.

She also stressed that she's cool with it won't get all clingy

Guess who is not going to be cool with it and who will get all clingy. I can name that tune in One Note.

Any extra tips on how to handle this?

Go all in and run a 3-chick harem. That's what I'd do.

[–]HillsOfMars4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

This sub makes me laugh more than the comedy oriented subs

[–]1Terminal-Psychosis2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Laughter is a stress response. Nervous.

You can't even imagine yourself producing such a situation.

The one you're replying to can. He's not joking.

[–]HillsOfMars1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Youre trying too hard

[–]Startlivingfornow14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lmao. Not clingy but ‘afraid she will fall in love’

Get the fuck out of here with your hamstering. The games will soon begin and both the other female room mates will side with her because ‘girl power’

Prepare an exit strategy

[–]Thorondor_Rising7 points8 points  (5 children) | Copy

Tell her that youre head over heels in love with her and you cant stop thinking about her. She'll be over you in seconds.

[–]ldamien651 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Why the fuck would you think this is good advice?

[–]RedUtopia2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

The idea is to make these women's pussies dried up so they will do the running away meme for him.

[–]1Terminal-Psychosis0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Funny, but naw.

You wanna keep her as a room mate, and still have access to all her hottie friends (that you do NOT live with).

Be charming, but set boundaries. Her pining for ya will only make her girlfriends notice and wonder.

Also, research pre-selection in the sidebar. (should be reading that anyway)

[–]Thorondor_Rising0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Downvoted for being a literal faggot autist.

[–]wkndatbernardus5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Chickens coming home to roost. This is what happens when you disregard hundreds of years of unmarried sexual segregation because it's 2019 and we're so "enlightened". See what happens when you bring other girls over now that you pilfered the roommate pooty. Homegirl will throw a fit and make your life miserable, mark my words.

[–]SolidLiquidGasPlasma9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

She’s trying to bang other guys but knows that if she dates they’ll ask “ oh you live with a guy?” “ have you two fucked?” And it cause problems cause he’ll be insecure. Which is why he’s asking in the first place. Basically she’s looking for a bf that won’t ask if you two have ever banged

[–]uptimex3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think there is no choice but to bang two other girls. To make the whole situation equal. Turning it into a hippie camp free love. "I love you all girls, but also you are free". To make none of them special to not cause games. But anyway shit will flow from somewhere.

[–]Rodent92 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck em all and bounce lol

[–]Ryabemo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why did you agree to live with 3 girls??

[–]calcul8rallig8r0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck all of them and amass a loyal harem of house thots to do your bidding

[–]beefthathasredmiddle-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dude just she said “I afraid to fall in love with you” then all you say is: “Then okay, let’s keep things amicable moving forward” and stop fucking.

You fucked up banging where you eat, take the out.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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