Is texting more than logistics a terrible idea? I mean I prioritize other shit first but once I’m free I’ll text a little bit or snapchat with a girl?? But I’m curious how much texting affects my situation?

YouNeverKnowAnyone · 2019-08-05T07:20:09+00:00

Rollo is gen x with a high voice. His words are not law. Try things other ways, see what works.

walawalawa · 2019-08-05T11:35:07+00:00

Strategy vs tactics. It's not the length of your texts, it's the content.

If you're having long discussions with a girl, they should be leading to sex.

Talking about your day...is ghey. Asking her about her day is super ghey.

XXXMersenne · 2019-08-05T12:01:28+00:00

better to post up interesting, DHV stories as it casts a wider net and gives them the (much better) alternative of hitting you up first through whatever was in the story.

Post the process of cooking/juicing (something short & sweet): Girls can pop up with * "I love that" / "I've made that before" / "😍😍😍"*. Everyone loves food and watching stuff being made is interesting.

Two_kids_in_a_coat · 2019-08-05T11:38:58+00:00

You need a balance. Texting only logistics doesn’t work if she’s more then a plate. However texting too much is much worse then not texting enough. (It ruins mystery and shows scarcity mindset). So err on the side of less texts. The 1:3 ratio is good. That doesn’t mean you only reply to every third text, but as a general rule two thirds of the texting should be hers.

MattyAnon · 2019-08-05T13:54:25+00:00

Texting a little bit back and forth SOMETIMES is fine.

Just not frequently or on a predictable timeframe.

XT3M3 · 2019-08-05T17:06:59+00:00

texting for logistics is one of the most misunderstood, "aged like milk " rules red pill has.

the rule is to LIMIT texting not just ignore her and etc untill its time to go out. its 2019. texting is clearly the meta of communication, the problem is a majority of betas and people text non stop and ends up killing their own chances cause of it.

you text in moderation, just dont be too available. dont fall over your own feet here.

DullIntroduction · 2019-08-05T08:19:31+00:00

You cannot create sexual tension by texting, at best you can maintain it.

smolzino · 2019-08-05T11:32:14+00:00

It can be both good and bad. Texting is a thing, we're almost in fucking 2020, so just like everything learn, learn to be good at it. Just remember that less is more, and that you're most likely texting too much. But it does build rapport, and properly dosed can maintain interest and investment.

If you have built 0 rapport in person, then texting will help more than it hurts. If you left a real impression in person, then be careful about how much you text and how.

Terlancster · 2019-08-05T12:41:04+00:00

Just my exp but texting only for logistics does not work for me at all.. from tinder there needs to be some rapport built.. and even if you have met her already in real life she needs to be reminded a bit of the connection (fun, teasy etc) to want to meet you again... not mass texting of course

Vouch33r · 2019-08-05T06:02:59+00:00

It has no advantages to real life meetings and you can either score 0 points for a move or - 1 so no way of you to win anything

WIA20XX · 2019-08-05T13:19:51+00:00

If you have an abundance mindset, any girl turned off, can be replaced.

Two_kids_in_a_coat · 2019-08-05T15:51:51+00:00

I’m 40 so 1/3 works well with my age bracket. Youngest I’ve gone after lately was 26. If I was after 18-22 then more texting might be better.

scorpionkg · 2019-08-05T16:02:29+00:00

I think that texting back is ok. Complicated is if you start the chat, because you already is on her frame. Unless you got a point in logistic, of course.

The point about texting is: do not try to be in a deep conversation over text, trying to gain her over text.

My view, for sure.

suckisuckilongtime · 2019-08-05T16:46:07+00:00

Girls who don’t want a ONS won’t go for texting logistics so you need to get them comfortable and calm them. Show them your not a creep and then when the deed is done you have plate them pretty easy unless you fucked up during the date/sex