Guys kissing girls at the bar/club immediately after meeting?

BlindingTwilight · 2019-08-08T13:33:10+00:00

Girls give out kisses like they are candy. Kisses give a woman a world full of validation without the baggage of fucking. Don’t sweat it, if you want to get kisses from thots in bars it is not very hard

HotelMohelHolidayInn · 2019-08-08T13:15:23+00:00

I’ll offer an alternative perspective. Kissing a random clubslut isn’t a challenge if you’re decent looking and straightforward. But it might not be the best option if you want to escalate further. Girls might lose interest since they already know you want to fuck them, they prefer the challenge.

whiffofass · 2019-08-08T14:04:24+00:00

I remember going to a nightclub and I saw some girl leaving/walking past me. We made eye contact I immediately grabbed her hand and said in somewhat high energy "where are you going I'm right here!??" while pulling her closer. Bam, instant makeout. Then her friend dragger her away.

nobody_thinks · 2019-08-08T13:05:33+00:00

it's just rapid kino escalate.

sometimes a girl will give you this look like "I want u to fuck me right now" and you can pretty much do with her as you wish.

Foolishoe · 2019-08-08T15:28:25+00:00

You just go for the kiss like it's natural. The thrill for you will wear off quick when you see how easy it is. You do some light chatting, get them laughing, move in with kino, maybe pick them up or dance a little with them. You move towards them and get close with lots of eye contact and fun and bam, you are close enough to kiss and grind and squeeze them all over.

Why do people go to a public place to spend too much on drinks and tables? For the thrill of engaging with other people. If they had good solid home lives, they would drink at home with the strong long established social circle they've had for years.

Women with boyfriends and fiances are not married. All sorts of people take 'single type actions' when they start getting fucked up away from the partner they claim to care and love so much. The issue is these people, are not ready to settle down and they either don't know it, are afraid to go home alone and live alone and have a life alone, or are shitty fucking people. They could be some combination of the three, they could have fucked up childhoods or some mental issues. In todays world it isn't shocking.

Most people need support they haven't gotten yet. They need someone to carry them through some very important life lessons that mom and dad never took the time [or had the time] to teach them. They went through life raised by the screen, the media, the advertisers and the dumb fucks around them at school. They are brainwashed and they don't even know how bad they have it. They don't know they are about to destroy things, ruin future relationships. In movies so many people so often get away with little cheat sequences and passionate flings.

In reality you get caught. Almost everyone gets caught unless they are dating a moron that doesn't pay attention.

WIA20XX · 2019-08-08T14:10:04+00:00

If we are talking about the States...

They
- recognize high buying temperature.
- assume attraction. (As opposed to building attraction)
- invade her personal space.
- push on the kino for arousal.
- kiss.

PUA 101.

To bang, he has to get her out of the public view, keep the arousal high, handle her hating ass friends, and logistics are locked up tight.

A girl will jump knee deep into a gang bang if the vibe is right, everyone is doing it, and there are no problems. She will only worry later.

CainPrice · 2019-08-08T14:50:32+00:00

Women make out at bars and clubs all the time. It's a major confidence booster for them.

If a woman gives you the look, walk over right away, smile, say hi, and put your arms around her. If she leans her face close to her, kiss. If she pulls her face away and giggles, while her friends giggle with her, smile bigger then talk for a bit before making out.

Just keep in mind that women like that will often make out with lots of strangers in bars, get really horny, then go home without you and text a safe fuck-buddy. Kissing a woman like that and actually scoring with her don't always go hand in hand. Sometimes, but not always.

warthundersfw · 2019-08-08T13:42:27+00:00

I've grabbed a girl in a circle at the club with dudes turned her around and kissed her. She's totally down but then feigns not when the group gets mad at me and she doesn't want to look like a slut. They love aggressiveness. At a certain point the girls don't care. They just want the guy that wins.

Another great move is when a line of girls is walking by, put your arm around the last girl and pull her in front of you. She will fucking love it and her friends won't intervene if she looks that way.

Slut_Slayer9000 · 2019-08-08T15:39:50+00:00

I've done this before multiple times, the common denominator in all instances is literally not thinking about it, or premeditating that I'm going to kiss these girls its just me seeing someone I find attractive, seeing they are having fun and me going up and and acting like we've know each other for years (implying comfort, but this is not something a noobie can do, I have comfort because I know im hot, and I know I'm a good kisser, and I have lots of experience to back this up). Kino starts at the opener, and I imply attraction and I look into their eyes and if they give me those big ole anime eyes I just say something to the effect of "you're really cute" with a smirk then go in for a kiss. Don't make a kiss a big deal its just something you do.

The key to look for is if she reciprocates your kino, if she does you're golden. Dancing is really good for this as this raises both of your vibrations, go in for the kiss at the climax of your experience when both of you are feeling it, wait too long and it feels unnatural and forced. Now this is WAY easier for girls below your SMV, girls higher then you will shit test you off the bat more then likely (make you work for it), also they naturally will not want to be making out with a dude that is perceived below them in public, unless they are wasted.

Just know that kissing usually either happens in the first 5 minutes of the interaction or it doesn't happen (a good meaningful kiss, that can get you laid). My best experience with this was chilling next to a girl waiting in line to ride a mechanical bull, I just looked at her and said she was cute, and while we were talking I just started making out with her, next thing we know I was like we are going back to my place, I smashed and didn't get her name til the next morning. The key? I lead the entire interaction, I didn't plan it to be that way, its just who I am. If you can't see yourself doing this RAISE YOUR VIBRATIONS. AKA let loose and have some fun. As corny as this sounds bringing good vibes to interactions will get you laid often, and is a staple in my game.

ANOTHER MAJOR KEY: Maintaining strong eye contact, you can literally bend the will of a girl with killer intense eye contact. During this eye contact your subconscious should be telling you that you're gonna kiss/smash this hoe.

[deleted] · 2019-08-08T13:08:20+00:00

They are just escalating quickly. You have to be good looking or have baller-level game to pull this kind of shit off, but it happens all the time (especially in bars/clubs).

FereallyRed · 2019-08-08T14:39:31+00:00

You inspired me to write a post on the main page.

It's titled;

"Don't Make out at the Bar".

uptimex · 2019-08-08T14:20:29+00:00

For them it is "just a kiss". In some cases not even an IOI. Could be just stress coping. Like they went out with friends and kissed random guys and talk after that with each other "it was such a crazy night" etc. To get additional self-validation/dopamine. I mean it can be fully solipsistic. Guys in this case just need solid eye-contact skills.

Madhatter747 · 2019-08-08T14:17:06+00:00

I remember going to a house party, back yard turned rave, lights, loud rnb. Some random guy wearing all brand new clothes and a "modern" haircut just started making out with one of the girls i was with. No words, just kissing. He left after 5 minutes to kiss other girls. What the fuck.

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2019-08-08T14:25:22+00:00

Really isn't that hard to be honest, but you need to know how to game, how to read body language and how to escalate and that in a state of inebriation. I would recommend any guy to start learning about body language. It's getting little attention here, but perhaps the best way to see how well you are doing..

I'm at work so can't find it hear, but search for the layguide and bodylanguage and you are bound to find great information on body language and IoI's. For me, that was the last thing I needed in order to learn when to escalate.

DiosJ · 2019-08-08T18:11:52+00:00

If you do this i would after max 3 min ask her if she wants to continue if she say yes say lets go outside i dont like doing this in front of so many people. When you both outside ask her if she wanna come home to you. The chance of success increases depending on how late it is. Most girls who are in club after 3am are ready to fuck.

sozzos · 2019-08-08T23:01:29+00:00

I’ve had a few of incidents where i will be 5seconds into talking with the girl and already making out with her. Onetime i was standing outside a club in Vancouver and this group of Irish girls were smoking and i asked for a lighter one of the chicks looked up to me and smiled the her friend was like kiss her and i went for it. Another time i was out with friends at a pub this girl was standing with her friend who happened to be talking to some guy I approached her and was like what’s ur name? I was drunk af lol she asked for my name and i was like kiss me and i will tell u. I don’t remember if i told her my name or not but it was a golden experience lol.

yungplayz · 2019-08-09T00:07:25+00:00

I'll suggest it's the trials and errors. Try to pull the move 100 times, fail 95, that won't matter because the other 5 times you done did it

daddydickie · 2019-08-09T01:47:39+00:00

Reminds me of a clip RSDTyler put up about approaching women just going in / out of clubs. He followed one of them home and got cockblocked right outside her door.

BoredOverlord · 2019-08-09T02:18:00+00:00

Literally just be near them. U can either wait for IOI’s to grind with them or approach and talk regardless of IOI’s. You could grind without IOI but that can come across creepy.

After about a minute of dancing it should be pretty obvious ur both keen so u can kiss.

XXXMersenne · 2019-08-09T08:13:53+00:00

It's actually pretty easy, bro

ikeurbantraut · 2019-08-08T14:12:38+00:00

This ironically is my highest success. I suck at talking and day-game. I can't put it to words really, it is all just primal instinct I guess. They love physical aggression and dominance

Irtotallynotrobot · 2019-08-08T15:02:25+00:00

Literally just be drunk, start dancing with them in a crowd, and make out. It's easy if theyre "not counting" it.

JedYorks · 2019-08-08T17:07:54+00:00

Aids

Alexisonfire24 · 2019-08-08T13:32:51+00:00

Good looking guy makes out with a 21 year old club whore- first day at a club?

SimplyFishOil · 2019-08-08T14:42:17+00:00

Make them feel important. Doesn't matter if you think so or not, make them feel that way.
Make them feel comfortable. The easiest way to do this is to make them laugh, laughing loosens everyone up.
Flirt non-verbally to feel it out. You can sometimes tell before approaching, but while talking to them pay attention to their body language, and if they're flirting with you, flirt back. Then you just make the move.

This won't work all the time. It's all about finding the right people at the right time. Don't expect to do this once and have it work

deathhandmachiavelli · 2019-08-08T15:31:19+00:00

I've done this.

This is how it went down.

I show up at a club with my friend, we meet some other guys who also got there early. I never knew these two before. We decide to get a VIP table between the 4 of us (its a concert).

Half an hour or so later, one of the guy's girlfriend shows up. She is with a friend, the friend is smoking motherfucking hot.

I'm just sitting at the table and looking around. Once of these guys tells me "my girlfriend's friend likes you."

I played it cool and didn't do anything for about 5-10 minutes, then I started talking to her, got her name, introduced myself.

A few minutes later, I take her by the hand, she gives me her hand, I can sense the chemistry, so I just lean in and kiss her.

We end up dancing together and kissing the whole time there.

My friend, not to be outdone, started talking to other girls in the club. I don't know how he did it, but he was soon sitting down with a girl making out with her.

Unlucky_Leader · 2019-08-08T15:33:27+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GbOuIfNmLkA

literally titled: kissing strangers.

Title	Guys kissing girls at the bar/club immediately after meeting?
Author	MarvelousWhale
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Date	08 August 2019 01:01 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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